chris576

I know they are both supposed to be some of the best but I have a clear winner, I ordered a package of both abena L4's and molicare super plus size large and tired them both. While the molicares did better than most, the abenas blew everthing out of the water, Molicares leaked while I slept, stretched out over time and became loose, and the inner absorbent came loose and fell to the center of the diaper. The L4's held up amazingly and I will choose them always from now on. Does anyone have any opinions about these two that differs from me?

For me its the stigma attached my desires and a want to be accepted as anything but a "weirdo". I usually feel self-conscious about the fact that 99.9% of people won't accept my fetish. Whatever everyones reason on why they want or need to wear diapers or act as an ABDL will not be accepted by most, and we won't be able to change their minds makes me feel bad sometimes. I think for me I want people to know what I like, and why, and have them not judge me about it. Sometimes its a lonely way of life and I just want to be accepted.

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I've only tried a couple of brands but they compare to depend. The ones I liked have plastic backing except for the tape zone which is the hook and loop like cloth backed brands. They are fairly thin, but in the diaper isle they have varying sizes of booster pads. I think they make the diapers thin then try to sell the boosters to make more money. Some of the boosters will hold more than the actual diaper.

Hi, I've been a long time browser on here and posted a few times but never introduced my self. I am a 26 y/o DL. I have had a strong sexual urge to wear since I was about 12. I have been wearing on and off for the last 10 years. My first memory of wearing was when I was maybe 6 or 7 and I had a good friend who was a girl and we would sneak diapers from her mom and put them on each other in her closet. We would always try to wet them for some reason I cannot remember, maybe to give us a reason to change each other. At that age I do not believe it was sexual at all, but it has always had me thinking about if it is was that play that caused me to feel the way I do about diapers. To this day everytime I put one on it's just so comforting to have one on. I love to hear the sound of the plasitic everytime I move. I especially love the feelingl of a warm soaked diaper. I have no AB desires. Even with the strange fetish I have, it seems different to act like a baby. I know I know it's like the pot calling the kettle black. I've been married to a pretty understanding wife for 4 years. When I first told her about my secret DL side she was put off. After about a year she saw on our computer that I was searching ABDL sites and asked me more about it. She came around and let me start buying diapers at the store. She has on a few occasions diapered me and once or twice let me diaper her (after a few drinks). Every time when I'm diapered around her I do not feel as comfortable in them as I do when I'm by myself. I guess it's because I think it's strange for her to see me diapered and I think she might be uncomfortable. I'm sure it's all in my head and maybe someday I will be able relax completely around her while diapered. I still have yet to wet around her or be completely honest with her about the full extent of my DL side. Thanks for reading and take care. Chris

I don't believe that. If you answer the questions honestly, (and it takes a looooong time to do it all) you will more than likely me matched up with someone. I hadmore than a few matches before talking to my wife. I guess be honest and keep positive. 20% reject rate no way!!

I met my wife of 3 years on Eharmony and we have a beautiful son of almost 2 years. We talked for a few months and then met (I was in japan and she was in the US) a few days with her we got married. I would say its a great way to find someone. Don't listen to these nay-sayers and don't go on there looking for and AB/DL partner, if its going to happen it will.

I'm glad it sounds like it's going to work out for you. I took my wife over 2 years to bring it up again, and she was accepting of it. Now I wear from time to time and she has even let me diaper her. My advice would just to let her think about it for some time and see what she does.

I don't think I've posted on many comments, but this one hits the hardest to me. I waited until I was married to tell my wife that I'm a DL. (Before people start, I know I should have told her sooner. Hindsight is always 20/20) Anyway, I told her and she had the first response I would have expected. She asked every question imaginable. Although I cannot relate to a lot of people on here, I answered the best of my ability. She asked "What, why, are you wearing one right now, what makes you like it, ect, ect." I wear diapers as a way of letting myself relax and feel secure. Not a lot of people here feel the same as me (I.E. it's not a sexual thing) But trying to explain that too someone who doesn't understand why we do what we do, is like tying to teach hinduism to christians. Its all of up to peoples perspective, of what they've been told or been taught about wearing diapers on how to make them feel. As like many adults, wearing a diaper is very wrong from the time they've been potty trained. After pleading my case to my wife that my fetish does not, or will not affect out love life, she tought it was disgusting. She made me feel like I was doing something wrong. Reading a lot of posts on here (and on other websiets) made me feel to believe that she would either, 1. be curious and let me do my thing and everything would be the same or (in my case) 2. Be so utterly against it as to make me feel like I am a hurt to society. I told her I would stop wearing if that that mean't we would stay together. It has been a little harder to give up than I thought, but in the end it will be worth it. All that I wanted to say from my experiece was to tell your partner early and see if they really love you, no matter what you like to do. --chris576

I'm currently in the marines and I finally have my own room so I enjoy diapering as much as possible. Although I am in Okinawa and have very few choices of diapers I still love the feeling of a soaked diaper. Never-the-less it is nerve racking thinking you'll get caught a lot easier than anywhere else. A few times I've thought about wearing in uniform but never have. The best thing ever heard was in a dry-suit SCUBA diving class, my instructor said "You might want to wear a depends since you cant pee for a long time." It was the first time anyone accepted wearing diapers (other than incontinence) and little did they know I loved wearing it.