What I see here is a child innocently crossing adults' boundaries of gender. He's not a freak, nor is he a poster child for transgender rights--he's SEVEN. I don't have anything against transgendered people, but Bobby's mother, the media, and everyone involved here has taken his innocent, harmless request and exploited it to make a social statement, to paint anyone who is uncomfortable with transgenderism for any reason as a cruel bastard who will say "no" to a sweet little child. That disgusts me more than the non-news of people expecting others to conform to their own standards.
Why can't we all agree that the middle of the sexuality/gender identity debate is a nasty place for a child? A decent parent would have said "sorry, honey, it's okay that you want to be a Girl Scout, but it just doesn't work that way," and let it go. Even if he does grow to identify as female, he doesn't need to be a Girl Scout in order to do so. Either way, the reality is the Girl Scouts environment would probably do his self-image more harm than good. All this kid needs to do is grow up and figure out who he is without the "help" of the media, activist groups, or anyone else who has some perverse stake in whether he ultimately identifies as male or female.