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Wearing a diaper is one of the best things about cold weather. It keeps you warmer and when you wet it is such a wonderful feeling. Of course you don't want to stay out too long after or it may get a little chilly down there. Also, I agree with Forced2wet, it sure is an advantage when wearing in public!

Awe. Coke isn't a problem for me. I just cut it with a shot of Jack Daniel's. Then life is good.

Welcome to the site Laura. I just have to echo what Honu said. It's good to hear you didn't dismiss this side of him since I know for a fact it's a sensitive subject. Also glad to see you're already getting support from others in the same situation.

I've always been a big fan of yours Annee. For you to do all of this for him just amazes me. He must be very comfortable letting you have control like he has and I don't blame him one bit. I also like going out diapered and have bought larger clothes because of it. That adult baby of yours is very lucky to have you. It sounds like fun and I hope you have a great weekend!

They say we make out own luck Baby Red but whatever the case your partner sounds like a keeper. Her wearing a diaper to work shows her commitment to you. I'm happy for you!

Don't know if it's just me or not but I'd definately want a female therapist like yours Annee. I would find it hard to open up to another guy. I'd be thinking in the back of his mind he thinks I'm less of a man. Best of luck Annee.

Before I retired my collar was blue.

I for one am so glad things are working out for you and your boyfriend. Communication with your mate is one of the most important things in a marriage. Things weren't going well with my wife and diapers a few years ago and talking it out made the difference. Just the other night I talked to her about being kind of embarrassed to ask her to diaper me but she reassured me it was ok. I think you're doing all of the right things Annee.

It is a great feeling to find out you are not the only one! Welcome to the site ragdollgirl.

Glad to have you here Mamalias. Your bABy is very lucky to have you.

First of all kudos to you for trying to find answers here. If you need to know about DL's the information is known by someone. In regards to your first question unless it's a very loose BM a diaper will hold it in. I've personally never had one leak "matter" onto another surface. In addition to the diaper though I also wear plastic panties as Bettypooh stated earlier. Myself, as an experienced diaper wearer, get a feel for when a diaper needs changed. Wet diapers are a little more tricky. If you wear one long enough it will leak but that's where getting a feel for it comes in. Wearing the same diaper brand all of the time helps you to know when it's going to be the right time to change it. You can't wear a Depend anywhere near as long as you can an Abena. If you are really concerned about possible leaks you could ask him to use a plastic backed underpad when he sits on the furniture. They're sold at most drug stores. The answer to your second question is anybodies guess. I think my DL tendencies come from being super close to my mother, ie, a momma's boy. While others can be traced to being diapered past potty training age and their parents made them wear a diaper to try and humiliate them into using the toilet. I hope you can make some sense out of this and that it helps you deal with what you are going through.

Hi Suki and welcome to DD. I'm pretty sure at some point we all have been nervous about opening up to people we don't know. Especially about diaper wearing but I guarantee you that 99.9% of the members here will give you tons of support. Hope this helps!

Annee you're the perfect definition of a nurturer.

Hi Little Kelly and welcome to DD. Love the avatar on your posts.