I was a chronic betwetter until about 12 years old and then I quit. My bladder's nerves had not myelinated (the process of the protective nerve coating getting thick enough to keep electrical signals in the nerve medium) until late in my 12th year. I had tried every OAB med on the market and none worked. I also am autistic with Asperger's syndrome and NonVerbal Learning Disability (NVLD) and Abnormal Verbal Learning Disorder (often a side product of NVLD but separate in degree and types of learning) which complicated learning about my problem and how to control it. However, I did feel like I was jipped because 4 years later, when my brother went through bedwetting, he got goodnites while I had to wet underwear or jammies, never diapers. I think this is a large factor in why I love diapers so much, but I however don't feel like there is anything wrong with what I am doing or thinking of doing. This I told my girlfriend and I think because I explained it to her that she felt almost sorry that I had to go through that ordeal. I also never went on any sleepovers because of the fear that I would wet the bed or sleeping bag. Once I also stayed up the entire night at the age of ten to avoid wetting a sleeping bag on a church retreat/lock-in/sleepover. I then wet the bed when I fell asleep at my parent's house the following night. My doctor once recommended catheter bags but my mom and dad said that they wouldn't do that to me, since I did have one in me when I was 8. It did hurt A LOT back when I was that small, but now I can insert them and take them out with ease. My GF doesn't know that I like caths too, but hopefully I will tell her soon.