I agree. I wear a onesie all the time, and sometimes will not put another shirt on over it. Now granted they're nothing overly babylike, just like loony tunes characters on or something, but it does go down into my pants like a tucked in shirt. To me, that's not being overly obvious, but I would think another AB/DL seeing me would wonder and probably look a little closer and probably hear my diaper rustling. I make no effort to wear quiet diapers either, my need for them or lack thereof is no ones business but my own. If I do baby talk to mommy in public, I do it quietly enough that no one else will hear it.