Yeah I've been wearing now for almost 4 months straight I still have control (i have accidents too) So i call bullcrappo on the 14 day regimen. and as to coming out to people about it i felt the need to last month so i did that, wasnt as bad as i thought it was gonna be either "half my friends already knew apparently" not too understanding but accept it. i wear them for anxiety, i used to call / go to the er like 2 times a month, now im like er free for 3.5ish months!