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#1 Spokane Girl

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Posted 27 July 2013 - 07:37 AM

This is a term I have heard and I wonder what exactly is it. I have looked it up and didn't really get any results.


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Nope. Those who go 24/7 aren't lazy at all. It's lazier to be a toilet slave! Hah!!

 

 

 

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Posted 27 July 2013 - 07:46 AM

I'm not a diaper slave, so I could be wrong. That said, I think it's a slave in a M/s relationship that is kept in diapers and/or baby clothing (or would the latter be a "baby slave"?). I'm pretty sure there's more to it than that though.

 

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Posted 27 July 2013 - 07:55 AM

Seems like an FL thing to me.

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Posted 27 July 2013 - 08:08 AM

There are quite a few stories that refer to Diaper Slaves. People who are kept in diapers - sometimes forced to wear them against their will - and used in a variety of ways as a slave. Few people here seem to like such stories. They are total fantasies - and for those with such fantasies they imagine themselves as either the slave or the master/mistress - and I can't imagine a sane person who would be anything but disgusted by a true, real-life case of diaper slavery. If you google "diaper slave" you'll find a few stories listed but you'll probably also find news stories about a few cases where parents have, for some sick reason, diapered and caged (or simply locked up) their children - in one case I believe teens.

 

Diaper Research is one such story, while stories of diaper prison or diaper jail are mild variations. There are also some very sexually explicit stories of diaper slavery.

 

I will confess that I am one who loves to read (and sometimes write) diaper slave stories. I don't go for the extremely sexual or extremely abusive (though how can slavery be anything less than abusive??) stories. In these stories, I always picture myself as the slave. There's no way I'd want it to happen in reality and no way that it is acceptable in any form. It is strictly something for my imagination. I might want to have someone do live role-play with me on this, but then it isn't really slavery and it isn't really forced diapering.

As with so many of our fantasies, it doesn't make any logical sense but still does something for us in some weird way.



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Posted 27 July 2013 - 10:31 AM

Would I be my husband's diaper slave? He keeps me in diapers and i love it. I have always wanted to be kept in diapers and not allowed to quit or use the potty.

 

 

I wonder how an incontinent person be a diaper slave?

 

Would House Rules be a diaper slave story?

 

I do like forced diapering stories just as long as it's not too dirty.

 

I have never written my own yet honestly. Or maybe I have when I was 17. Two girls were forced to wear diapers in my story and be a baby. Then I had decided a character in my story forces her husband to wear diapers for a week because of something he did but I leave it vague because it's told in 1st person view and I am sure readers may be able to tell her father was forced into diapers by her mother. Her parents have a secret behind closed doors the readers don't know about despite how they fight often and don't get along and they do abuse with each other.


Titanic is a good diaper movie, lots of flooding.

 

It's easier to use a toilet than a diaper.... Those things are high maintenance. Gotta change, take care of th skin, insure proper hydration so you don't stink

Nope. Those who go 24/7 aren't lazy at all. It's lazier to be a toilet slave! Hah!!

 

 

 

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Posted 27 July 2013 - 03:03 PM

We are all diaper slaves! :P we are slaves to our diapers! can't do with out them :blush:

Kidding aside, from what I have read in Fetlife a "diaper slave' can be any of the above to an extreme, but knowing one such person (Jenniebear) it is something that is in a D/s relationship, where the slave willingly and eagerly submits to the dom in exchange for what ever other things that they work out. This, like most other things is done on an individual basis, so there isn't a 'one size fits all' definition, much like here in the AB/DL world...no 2 people are the same in their desires or lifestyles.
Thats basically 'my' understanding of it, it can be or is a lifestyle for some, and a part time thing for others. It's done mostly willingly, but I 'imagine' there are those who like the 'forced' possibilities as well. Again, it's all done (hopefully) with love and respect to the slave. If not...then it just creates trouble for the Dom, and word will get out and he / she will find it very difficult to find another 'slave' to 'abuse', and sadly there are those abusers out there who do that...and they are terrible predators :badmood:
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Posted 27 July 2013 - 03:52 PM

square_duck, I think has it pretty well. Of course there's a difference between the fantasy, fictional diaper slave and the real life D/s relationship in which both participants are getting something positive out of the relationship. We know that there is true slavery in existence all around us. Some people are submissive enough (I guess maybe me included) that for some reason, they enjoy thinking about themselves as being true slaves kept in diapers. But fantasy only.

 

I can see a couple playing at diaper slave/master for periods of time and I can see a couple in a D/s diaper relationship almost or entirely full-time. But let's hope there are no real life situations where anyone is a true slave in diapers to someone else. 



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Posted 02 September 2013 - 09:26 AM

Within the BDSM community, a "slave" is often akin to marriage.  It's used when a submissive has been accepted by a Master, consensually by both parties and often symbolized by the submissive wearing something (a collar).  The key bit is that everything is negotiated and agreed upon by adult, capable parties.  There are abusive situations where one party may not understand or be of the mindset (drugs, mental issues, etc) that occur and the larger BDSM community shuns those situations.

 

With that said, my fiance and I are in a M/s situation where, in the bedroom, I'm her slave.  We met through the BDSM community and our relationship has been extremely rewarding for both of us.  

 

In the bedroom I wear an actual collar for her.  Outside of the bedroom a collar would not be publicly acceptable, so diapers has been the item that I chose to wear for her in lieu of a collar 24/7.  She loves it - the subtle shapes, noises and smell of powder remind her that I accept her in my life, and the bulk (and occasional rash) remind me that she accepts me and all of my own quirks and kinks.   

 

I consider myself a diaper slave.



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Posted 03 September 2013 - 04:36 AM

Pretty much what Duck said.  We have a significant other who makes us wear our diapers, then ups the "dominant / submissive" aspect of it.


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Posted 06 September 2013 - 07:25 PM

For me, a perfect diaper slave would be a young lady who wore diapers 24/7 and fixed me a ham sandwich when ever I asked....



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Posted 07 September 2013 - 06:21 AM

For me, a perfect diaper slave would be a young lady who wore diapers 24/7 and fixed me a ham sandwich when ever I asked....

 

Good point.  The master / slave roles can go BOTH WAYS.


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Posted 07 September 2013 - 06:30 AM

All submissive a are not always slaves. There is and can be a differentiation between the two. A diaper slave is a person envolved in a consentual power exchange relationship where they have limited/no rights. Either in everyday life, or just in the bedroom.

All of this sort of thing is fantasy, but the fantasy is very real for many individuals in the BDSM lifestyle. The level of what the slave is to do, or allowed to do is generally pre-negotiated and painfully communicated and maintained throughout the relationship.

My wife is my submissive, not my salve. As I want her to enjoy free will and I don't want to micromanage her life. For us this works, but for many the DS (dominate, submissive) relationship serves them no interest like a MS relationship does. (Master/slave)

I find it all beautiful and fun because it allows individuals to deepen the trust and increase the communication in their relationship. Granted, it not for everyone but it doesn't just have to be in fantasy. It is ok and I suggest encouraging you're ability to live out those fantasies. You only have one chance at life to try these things! Go for it!!!!




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