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[Pamperboy94]

I have a few, they don't care.

[BabyFergstar]

I've got more than a few, mostly girl friends, but nobody cares either. They got to know me first, and found out during drunken escapades...lol.

[puffybedwetter]

Maybe I usually post on facebook plugging the fact that I need diapers lol

[Angela Bauer]

Ever since I participated in my first Adult Baby party in October 1990, I have been in-person friends with lots of AB/DL.

Growing up with bladder control issues, I have never made my urinary incontinence a top secret. At university all four years my dorm mate not only knew I wore diapers, she was also incontinent. During those years many of the other women living in our dorm would borrow diapers from us. When I moved to law school, I found that a lot of the other students in my dorm (not all law students) did not bother even putting boxes of Attends out of sight.

I did not find out about AB/DL until a couple of years after I graduated from law school. Since I began using AB playtime to relax and feel better about being incontinent, I do not remember ever deliberately discussing AB/DL with an outsider.

[drynot]

I've got a few friends that know as well. It hasn't been a big issue....

I should clarify...they know I use diapers for bedwetting. No one besides my wife knows of my DL side.....

[diaperedandspanked]

None of my friends know...but the wife does now, and really hasn't had much to say except "are you still wearng those diapers?" that was a couple weeks ago and my reply was 'yes". The three month hit with the kidney stone stent must have done some damage inside, can't get to the bathroom in time. That was the end of that.

[Eir]

I have one special friend back home who knows that I wear, and am AB

[peepeepants]

4 friends know, no real reaction

[Pangaea]

I told about 7 people now. No bad reactions either. Nobody really seemed to feel any different about me after.

[Julie_J]

they know I wear diapers -- only a special handful know of the DL side in me. Since I have a disability, maybe some just expect me to be incontinent!

[Dirty Diaper/Maxipad Lover]

I have a few that know--most of them are female friends.

Girlfriend: Knows for obvious reasons--was more then open-minded when I opened up to her about this.

Female Friend #1: Knows because we once had a random conversation in the middle of the night and wound up sharing our fetishes with each other. She was very open-minded about the fetish too and didn't judge me at all.


Female Friend #2: Knows because I decided to tell her before she could find out another way--both of us have shared plenty of secrets before so this was no different.

Male Friend #1: Knows because I've share secrets with him almost as frequently as I've shared secrets with Female Friend #2--also knew his fetishes so I felt it was only right to share mine. His reaction to the idea of the fetish itself was negative, but he admitted that he was indifferent to my enjoyment of it.

Male Friend #2: Had no problem admitting that he had a small porn collection but would only tell me what fetishes were in it if I told him what my fetishes were. I agreed to swap fetishes and found out what was in his porn collection--his reaction to the fetish was pretty positive.

[Baby Brian]

I have one friend that does, we actually met through DPF. (I need more friends).

[shydiaper2]

No one I interact with lately knows. An old GF knows, and she told her roommate, who is her best friend (a male). Wasn't happy about that, but I also knew it wouldn't matter as they're both very liberal / sexually open minded, and on top of that they lived a couple hours away from me and didn't know my other friends. But even if they did, I'd be surprised if they'd have told anyone else. That was (God) eight years ago. I haven't regularly contacted either of them for a long time.

I wish I had people I could trust with this right now. It's admittedly pretty lonely. I'm just more used to that now than before so it doesn't hurt as much, but boy is it nice to imagine having an open relationship with an open minded girl about this.

[diaperlad]

My family kinda knows but never says anything. I think they do know I like wearing diapers. It's my choice that I like too and they respect that so it's never talked about.

I had a friend I use to live with back in the late 2000 and lived with his daughter too who was a year older than me. They both knew and never said anything about it. They told me to keep your diapers in your room when your in them, "We don't want to see you wearing them in front of us out else in the open of the house".

I had another male friend who found my diapers one day accidentally left out and asked if I was a diaperlover after discovering it, but I denied it after he confronted me about it.

I had a GF who accepted me as a diaperlover and we had our own apartment we shared. She wasn't into the diaper thing and said she will not ever wear one for me, nor ever try one on. She was supportive, even bought me diapers when I was low. She diapered me, changed me a few times, I had fun with her when we were together. Sadly we split up and she moved on, and it wasn't about the diaper thing. I'm just glad she didn't use this against me when she left. It's kinda rare to find women who was like her (my -EX) I know lots of women would not accept this.

Now I'm back single and I don't really have alot of friends in real life. All my friends are guys but hardly see them.

[DaStickman]

I actually had a Positive experience today telling (of all the people I interact with) a female colleague at work. We were sharing our stress relievers, she is dealing with some pretty heavy outside influences so I just up and told her. She was so awesome about it, was so impressed I had a way to manage the day to day stress of our job.

She really got the stress relief of regression and praised me for being so open, honest and comfortable with it around her. And it was warts and all telling, so she knows I wears, wets and messes. To quote, "you'd be one stinky boy mister"

[RoyalDane]

I'm strongly debating telling the girl I'm presently crushing on. She knows everything else about me, and even my closer friends would give me hell over it, but she wouldnt.

[Eir]

I'm strongly debating telling the girl I'm presently crushing on. She knows everything else about me, and even my closer friends would give me hell over it, but she wouldnt.

I hope your instincts are right, mister!

[Luscious07]

ive only told 3 people in my life that im a DL

GF: she was surprise when i first told her. but after a long time of letting her know more about what it means for me to be DL slowly she became okay with it. She had her concerns and alot of questions (ex: do you pee/mess in it? do you wear it all the time? do you get arouse from it? are you going to stop using the toilet due to laziness? etc etc) i answered them truthfully and in the end she said she was totally okay with what i do, and she thinks i look super cute in a diaper. now a days she even asked if she could be the one to put me in diapers instead of me putting myself in one. and once in a while she'll even want me to put her into one so we can look cute together ^__^

Sister: she basically said "diapers? is that it? i thought you were gonna tell me you were into some weirder shit like beating women or something." but my sister had always kinda knew ever since we were little. (me stealing diapers from younger cousins etc etc)

Closer guy friend: his words exactly "oh. what ever makes you happy. everyone's into some weird fetishes" and we never talked about it anymore.

[Craisler]

Yes. But they have the same problem, too.

[oliver d]

Real life friends no the only person I ever told is my wife,not even my parents or sister they would not understand