Posted 01 January 2012 - 08:24 AM
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Posted 01 January 2012 - 02:33 PM
Just have a nice warm soak and it will feel better soon.
Posted 01 January 2012 - 04:42 PM
fanks thong5 for the advice me will start with a small butt plug at first for a hour or 2 at first i havnt got a partner at the moment but feel i need loosing up a little ive tried tampons but need to get used till something bigger
Congrats on your first time, Glad you enjoyed. Remember this tho that the butt hole is an exit hole not an entry hole so it's going to take some time to get your muscles used to being penetrated. I don't know how big your partner is but maybe get a butt plug you could practice with so your muscles will learn to relax more when you do it again. Speaking from experience it does get easier and with less soreness. Have fun.
Posted 20 January 2012 - 09:22 AM
However I did use a rock-hard silvery metal vibrator once which bloody hurted as it was rather too thick and long, may have shoved it up a bit too far and too hard.
And despite having IBS(a few extremely severe IBS times) which has split the lining of the arse a few times and made it very uncomfortable to sit down on for a day afterwards.
i'm still not that loose though as I never had anal sex before, I would think over time the IBS and using vibrators,dildos will make me more loose up there lol.
Posted 21 February 2012 - 05:02 PM
Posted 23 February 2012 - 05:41 AM
One cannot expect respect until one respects other people's choices.
Everyone deserves freedom, it's just logical.
Posted 23 February 2012 - 08:20 AM
Posted 02 May 2012 - 11:13 AM
So I just had my first true anal experience and now my bum is really sore. It felt amazing while he was in me but it's been like two hours since we got done and my bum is aching. Is there anything I can do? And does it always get sore after sex?
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Posted 05 October 2012 - 08:43 AM
,You shouldn't really feel much soreness, afterwards, with some experiences; maybe a sort of feeling of being 'empty', afterwards, perhaps a little discomfort tied in with that maybe... If your doing an enima first, to clean out down'in there, make sure you do so an hour or two, before hand, or it make make things messy... of course... messy can be good too...
Posted 06 February 2013 - 01:19 AM
I found that glass sex toys are a good warm up tool for anal. I'm hetro, but like having anal toy fun. I bought this glass toy that has graduated glass bubbles. The first one is small enough that it goes in easily without needing to finger first. It can be a good warm up just to keep sliding the first one in and out, so you can get used to relaxing the sphincter. And as you get more experience you can go further up to the bigger bubbles. Though you can only go so far up as it is to long. If you do get to the point of taking bigger stuff you can also turn it around insert the big bubble "handle."
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