Posted 10 December 2011 - 11:11 PM
Did you ever accidentaly catch your parents making love? Did that make you do anything other than wise your brain could be erased? it is similar here. Very few will take any notice and even less will say anything about it.
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Posted 11 December 2011 - 09:49 AM
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Posted 11 December 2011 - 02:04 PM
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Posted 12 December 2011 - 11:38 AM
I have seen or heard many weird things in my life time, but it's their business.If they are worthy neighbors or friends it should change nothing. As a child I wore night diapers, a few times some friends caught a glimpse of of the laundry in the basement but said nothing, on the other hand I was always looking for a telltale sign that I had company.
Posted 16 December 2011 - 07:23 AM
Someone will quietly ask me sooner or later, and , well, one couple who are our friends? If you want to get a message out to the whole world- just whisper to them and it will be on the national news that evening.... I'm not saying they are blabbermouths or anything....... hey wait a minute, that is exactly what I am saying.
But my friends and neighbours know me as a gentle, different sort of person, and I think they see me as the little girl in my relationship with my partner who is 9 years older than me - people who don't know us actually often ask if she is my mother. I think that is not just from the fact that I look young for my age, and vise versa, but they see the dynamic.
I'm not trying to push my lifestyle out there or anything, I am just fed up with hiding it.
One of my partner ( mummy) 's friends said they didn't think it appropriate for me to not hide it as it would make people uncomfortable. My partner was just about to agree, then all of a sudden said, "hey wait! if t tohe gay lesbian community had stayed home so as not not make people uncomfortable, we would all still be in the closet". So, I almost feel a responsibility to be an "out" AB - a representative of our community ,someone who is a nice person, who just happens to like being a baby!
Posted 16 December 2011 - 01:31 PM
You may not "owe" anyone anything, but remaining silent = an admission of guilt in most people's eyes.
And those same people would be regarded as "judgmental" if they leaped to the conclusion of guilt. Do we have statistics that "most people" are "judgmental"? I'm unsure on that one, but anyone judgmental would not be a good friend to keep regardless of wether you have skeletons in your closet or not.
I'm late to this thread, but think that most others have said what I would say - If they don't bring it up and continue to come around, then the likelihood is very high that they were not offended or concerned about your play things and require no explanation. If either brings up the topic then feel free to give them whatever details you feel comfortable sharing, but mostly how the lifestyle has been positive in your life. Be sure to focus on yourself and not others since that might be construed as a way to bring them into the lifestyle. By all means, let them make that decision all on their own.
Posted 16 December 2011 - 03:58 PM
I was at my MILs cabin in the middle of nowhere in western ontario (on a bay with no road access and only 4 other houses), and was out in the screened in porch in only a diaper eating my cereal enjoying being free to wear whatever I wanted. I figured that I'd hear any boats approaching and would have TONS of time to pull on some pants if need be, or just sit down and no one would be able to see my diaper. I didn't notice one of the neighbors come around the point in a kayak! I have no idea if she saw me or not, but it scared the crap out of me. And Yes....I never said a word!
Posted 22 January 2012 - 05:04 PM
Posted 25 January 2012 - 08:18 AM
don't worry just be urself and above all be happy.
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