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#21 Blueeyedbabe

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Posted 21 September 2011 - 07:35 PM

If my parents feel I've been bad they'll spank me even though I'm 19. It won't end unless I cry usually. But I always do cause it really hurts. My dad uses a hairbrush

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Posted 08 November 2011 - 02:31 AM

Yes, a few times.

The first time was particularly hard. My girlfriend had been spanking me with an appliance chord, then she took a wire hanger from the closet and straightened it out, and switched me with it for what seemed like forever, leaving purple lines in places. I had tears in my eyes when she used the appliance chord, but the wire hanger took me right over the edge and had me crying into my pillow for the rest of the spanking. Until then I had never cried from a spanking before. Since then it's actually gotten easier to cry when I've received spankings, which is good, because man did that hurt!

For me it's definitely a headspace thing. If I feel ashamed or guilty, or especially little, it's much easier to reach the point of tears. Unfortunately, I don't get many punishment spankings, so I don't get to that point very often (there seems to be a real great emotional release that comes with tears).

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Posted 20 November 2011 - 09:48 AM

I've been spanked by my GF. I'm 30 and she's 42. I got drunk and took off from her cause I got tired of arguing with her. She just would not shut up causing me to stress out. I was already boiling and didn't want to boil over and I didn't know what to do other then just run from her. That made her mad when I came home. She grabbed an electrical cord and whipped me from behind. wooo! the intense of it almost caused my eye balls to pop out. I think I was only faking it crying. begging her to stop. Nothing like when I was a kid being spanked. As a kid there's more fear and being emotionally upset about something. I really didn't feel that as I am now as an adult being spanked by my girlfriend. She told me she's going to straighten my ass out cause sometimes I don't listen to her, and misbehave. I guess I'm a bad boy baby sometimes.

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Posted 21 November 2011 - 05:10 AM

Tears come from physical and emotional causes, so when both are strong enough, you're going to cry. Sometimes either is enough. As a child I learned that until tears flowed the whipping would continue and I can still turn on my tears when I want to. I'm finally getting over all my hang-ups and beginning to seen the spanking I've wanted for decades, but it will have to be with the right person- I'm not into such intimacy with just anyone. What I'm looking for is something a bit dangerous- I want to be made to cry as I resist it, and I won't allow belts, whips, or similar things to be used- and that is why the right person is so important to me. They must know and they must have my trust before it can happen. I'd also recommend that anyone wanting to go deeper into this topic join Fetlife- many of us here are over there too and it is a good website.
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Posted 23 November 2011 - 01:02 AM

I have not cried from any physical cause in a long time (like since I was very young), but I just recently cried due to an emotional cause. I also cry when I yawn sometimes, lol.

I will also definitely take a look at Fetlife.

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Posted 07 December 2011 - 04:42 PM

Oh yes it can happen! - I get it quite a bit! Either way, it's not too easy, or hard. If that's what you want - here is how it's done with me:
Remove any pants, diaper, exc. so my bottom is totally bear.

Have me lay over ONE knee, use the other leg to sort of lock me legs, so "kicking" is not possible, and squirming is drastically minimized.

Use the hand that is not doing the actual spanking to hold both of this bad babies hands against his side.

Either with bear hand, or some reasonably sized object, strike my bottom repetitively, BUT not too hard!; that will only cause them to get tired and swore! Instead, go for more swats with less muscle behind them.

The naughty persons body can easily be re-adjusted during the session, so do so as needed.

Just keep it up, don't allow to move much - eventually, you WILL cry trust me!.

Has anyone ever been spanked as an adult till you actually cry .I would love to get spanked like that but i'm not sure it is possible.



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Posted 08 March 2012 - 07:43 AM

at least you have love one that do punish you. wish in had people like that.



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Posted 08 March 2012 - 12:23 PM

is there any other way, if you get spanked it needs to hurt so you remember it

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Posted 12 April 2012 - 01:38 PM

hmm......my husband once spanked me over the knee not as a little but as an adult because i had been on the computer for waaaaayyy too long when he was done i felt completely awkward around him it was just before bed......so i tried to avoid snuggling against him and he asks "are you mad...?" then when i didn't say anything he asks in a worried voice "did i hurt you..?!" then after awhile he realized what was wrong and said "come here....." he pulled me into his arms and said "the answer is 'no' i do not hate you.....you broke a rule and we both agreed on these rules and we both agreed what the consequence would be.......i love you and always will....." i actually was worried that he was mad and hated me....and i was still in adult mode...>.>

another time without any warning we were talking about how i was feeling i had a head cold and i hate dr.'s and my husband was trying to talk me into going and i said something along the lines of "if i ever get cancer i am never going to the doctor's.....i'd rather die.....then ever go through that....!" then he pulled me into his arms (we were laying in bed talking before going to sleep)he pulled me into his arms in a tight but not uncomfortable hug and said "what?" and i said "you heard me...." then he says "tell me what you just said." then i told him again and he said "so no matter what i do or say your not going to go to the doctor's?" (the more he talked the sterner his voice was becomming) then i said "no i am not." and he says" we'll see about that......love..." and he sternly tells me to hold onto him and not let go so i do and he starts spanking me and says the entire time "i'm not going to stop until you agree to go to the doctor's......" he actually wanted me to agree to go if i wasn't better by monday this happened on a friday. finally i agreed.....but yeah the closest i've ever gotten to an actual meant to be a punishment kinda spanking i've gotten are those two and only on the first one did i even come close to crying...>.> though i think it's because i hate being seen in a vulnerable state so i refuse to let myself get worked up....

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Posted 12 April 2012 - 06:44 PM

=( i feel left out i havent been spanked till i cried anyone want to change that ;)

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Posted 14 April 2012 - 10:37 PM

neither have i...>.>

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Posted 19 June 2012 - 02:24 PM

Wow some strong ideas flying around! I myself feel that the ability to cry in AB mode would be a very effective way of engaging with my AB side ( I may dress the part but feel silly acting like a baby without something to force me to) but here's the prob I know I'm emotional inside I feel hurt anger sorrow and regret all the time, but I never cry, even with the biggest fights insult or rejections it never happens, I'm about to turn 29 and the last time I cried I was 16 !and it was the day my gran died scince then not a tear has been shed! Other than when I actually do have something in my eye. When angry I wish I could let it all out but all I end up doing is pacing untill I calm down and sit quietly to myself, much as I'd like I don't think its possible to make me cry like that even with a heavy spanking.
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Posted 10 July 2012 - 11:06 AM

To be broken enough to cry would seem to repeat the damage such spanking did to you as a child. Perhaps being encouraged to cry, asked to 'fake' it and given a little help to make it become real tears, is another way to get that cathartic release that crying provides without all the drama/trauma. It *is* a consensual act or it likely should not be done.

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Posted 12 July 2012 - 03:46 AM

I would do some research on cathartic release. Find something that's deeply emotional that's been pent up inside and needs a release. When i`m going into a spanking scene , i tend to get myself in a head space that's relaxed. I love spankings and like fun spankings over punishments but i know there`s a place for them too, doesnt mean i got to like them , they are just consequenses for bad behavior . I don't know if other spankees are like this but i feel for you to reach that emotional level of tears you have to work past that comfy relaxed level and hit that emotional nerve. It might take some careful prodding and digging into his or her past. Of course its going to be different for each person. He or she has to be open and honest with you and give up some information that's useful to you .I think maybe you have to be tactful and skillful in getting just the right info because some are`nt going to readily give up something painful or deeply emotional .
As a little boy i`m much more emotionally responsive than when i have to be adult and wear my big boy undies and deal with adult things and wear a tougher skin so to speak. Our inner child part of our personality holds alot of emotions. Maybe thats a point of interest worth exploring? If i`m going to be brought to tears i have to be in my little space. Thats the key for myself but not everyone is a little .

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Posted 24 July 2012 - 05:26 AM

I don't have a partner sadly, so I don't know if I would. I had an online sister/mother/daughter but she lost interest in me. I've never really been given the chance to get into my little headspace, but I'd love to someday.

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Posted 25 February 2013 - 10:59 PM

Don't think so would like to be spanked till I cried but not sure if possible



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Posted 27 February 2013 - 08:38 AM

ive been spanked till i cried once



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Posted 27 February 2013 - 09:15 PM

I have definitely been spanked until I cried by my husband...as I have a funny quirk since I was never spanked as a child by my parents.


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Posted 09 March 2013 - 09:52 AM

I at times enjoy a spanking and have fantasized about being reduced to tears and made to wear diapers ect.....

But I feel that the pain required to reduce me to tears would be great enough to make the whole experience unpleasent.  I dont really want to have huge bruises on my arse for a week.



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Posted 17 November 2013 - 06:40 PM

It's about headspace.  I've occasionally done some self-spanking, and a couple weeks ago I decided I needed to punishment.  I have been down lately, have struggle with some self-esteem issues, and as a tool to keep myself from pulling punches, I focused on some recent personal failings that are very important to me.

 

After about fifteen minutes without much to show for it, I bent over the bed and start hitting as hard as I could/dared, while thinking very hard about my shortcomings.  The pain of each spank had me gasping with the impact, and then to my shock and surprise, I actually started crying.  I let myself sob for a minute or so, and then I finished my spanking (till you cry and then some, as I always say).

 

It was the combination of physical and emotional pain that did it.  I don't think an adult can cry during a spanking without the proper headspace.


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