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Posted 21 September 2011 - 07:35 PM
Posted 08 November 2011 - 02:31 AM
The first time was particularly hard. My girlfriend had been spanking me with an appliance chord, then she took a wire hanger from the closet and straightened it out, and switched me with it for what seemed like forever, leaving purple lines in places. I had tears in my eyes when she used the appliance chord, but the wire hanger took me right over the edge and had me crying into my pillow for the rest of the spanking. Until then I had never cried from a spanking before. Since then it's actually gotten easier to cry when I've received spankings, which is good, because man did that hurt!
For me it's definitely a headspace thing. If I feel ashamed or guilty, or especially little, it's much easier to reach the point of tears. Unfortunately, I don't get many punishment spankings, so I don't get to that point very often (there seems to be a real great emotional release that comes with tears).
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Posted 23 November 2011 - 01:02 AM
I will also definitely take a look at Fetlife.
Posted 07 December 2011 - 04:42 PM
Remove any pants, diaper, exc. so my bottom is totally bear.
Have me lay over ONE knee, use the other leg to sort of lock me legs, so "kicking" is not possible, and squirming is drastically minimized.
Use the hand that is not doing the actual spanking to hold both of this bad babies hands against his side.
Either with bear hand, or some reasonably sized object, strike my bottom repetitively, BUT not too hard!; that will only cause them to get tired and swore! Instead, go for more swats with less muscle behind them.
The naughty persons body can easily be re-adjusted during the session, so do so as needed.
Just keep it up, don't allow to move much - eventually, you WILL cry trust me!.
Has anyone ever been spanked as an adult till you actually cry .I would love to get spanked like that but i'm not sure it is possible.
Posted 08 March 2012 - 07:43 AM
at least you have love one that do punish you. wish in had people like that.
Posted 08 March 2012 - 12:23 PM
Posted 12 April 2012 - 01:38 PM
another time without any warning we were talking about how i was feeling i had a head cold and i hate dr.'s and my husband was trying to talk me into going and i said something along the lines of "if i ever get cancer i am never going to the doctor's.....i'd rather die.....then ever go through that....!" then he pulled me into his arms (we were laying in bed talking before going to sleep)he pulled me into his arms in a tight but not uncomfortable hug and said "what?" and i said "you heard me...." then he says "tell me what you just said." then i told him again and he said "so no matter what i do or say your not going to go to the doctor's?" (the more he talked the sterner his voice was becomming) then i said "no i am not." and he says" we'll see about that......love..." and he sternly tells me to hold onto him and not let go so i do and he starts spanking me and says the entire time "i'm not going to stop until you agree to go to the doctor's......" he actually wanted me to agree to go if i wasn't better by monday this happened on a friday. finally i agreed.....but yeah the closest i've ever gotten to an actual meant to be a punishment kinda spanking i've gotten are those two and only on the first one did i even come close to crying...>.> though i think it's because i hate being seen in a vulnerable state so i refuse to let myself get worked up....
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Posted 12 July 2012 - 03:46 AM
As a little boy i`m much more emotionally responsive than when i have to be adult and wear my big boy undies and deal with adult things and wear a tougher skin so to speak. Our inner child part of our personality holds alot of emotions. Maybe thats a point of interest worth exploring? If i`m going to be brought to tears i have to be in my little space. Thats the key for myself but not everyone is a little .
Posted 24 July 2012 - 05:26 AM
Posted 25 February 2013 - 10:59 PM
Don't think so would like to be spanked till I cried but not sure if possible
Posted 27 February 2013 - 08:38 AM
ive been spanked till i cried once
Posted 27 February 2013 - 09:15 PM
I have definitely been spanked until I cried by my husband...as I have a funny quirk since I was never spanked as a child by my parents.
Love is the greatest gift of all
Posted 09 March 2013 - 09:52 AM
I at times enjoy a spanking and have fantasized about being reduced to tears and made to wear diapers ect.....
But I feel that the pain required to reduce me to tears would be great enough to make the whole experience unpleasent. I dont really want to have huge bruises on my arse for a week.
Posted 17 November 2013 - 06:40 PM
It's about headspace. I've occasionally done some self-spanking, and a couple weeks ago I decided I needed to punishment. I have been down lately, have struggle with some self-esteem issues, and as a tool to keep myself from pulling punches, I focused on some recent personal failings that are very important to me.
After about fifteen minutes without much to show for it, I bent over the bed and start hitting as hard as I could/dared, while thinking very hard about my shortcomings. The pain of each spank had me gasping with the impact, and then to my shock and surprise, I actually started crying. I let myself sob for a minute or so, and then I finished my spanking (till you cry and then some, as I always say).
It was the combination of physical and emotional pain that did it. I don't think an adult can cry during a spanking without the proper headspace.