My Boyfriends A Baby And Im His Mommie I Need Advice!
Posted 20 August 2008 - 09:30 PM
Posted 21 August 2008 - 09:41 AM
He can make a list of things he is "up" for and then you could review the list and check off those that you would do. There are several Checklists about the web at several AB sitter services that you could use to accomplish this. Can give ya one at the moment..Google is your friend.
looks something like this. I find this is most helpful for your little one to play out the age if he doesn't want to talk you through it. Which I find takes you out of character and spoils the feeling.
Babysitter Preference (circle one)
Big Sister/Big Brother
Toileting (check off one or more):
Needs diapers always
Occasional bed/pants wetter
Behavior (check off all applicable):
Needs to be fed
needs toddler nap
Plays by self
Sissy baby, sissified
Feeding (check off all applicable)
Strained baby food
Eats most "big person" food
Playtime (check off all applicable)
Playpen - baby toys
Older child toys
Public Outings (check all applicable)
Dressed as baby
Hold Baby's Hand
Goes out alone
Discipline (check all applicable)
Taught to use diapers like a real baby
Trained to be helpless, dependent baby
Punished for disobedience
Make mommy/daddy "happy" as instructed
Other Training (check all applicable)
Cute, baby behavior
Hope this helps somewhat, I'm sure others will chime in soon.
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Posted 21 August 2008 - 10:45 AM
But i also re-recommend asking him personally for his own list of things he would enjoy eating, playing with, what to wear, public appearances, so forth... and then go from there. His personal preferences are probably the fastest way to make him happy.
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Posted 01 October 2008 - 04:55 PM
Just do what is done naturally and trust in yourself and you will be fine. i hope this helps.
Posted 01 October 2008 - 10:56 PM
Posted 16 October 2008 - 02:02 AM
Let me explain how it is for me and see if this helps you.
You've been a mommy for 3 weeks, and I am going on my 3rd YEAR with Peter.
I met him online in another (non-ABDL) chat room. But he used his screen name Pampers Pete in there as well as in here. He was a regular to that room and I used to chat with him late nights whenever I saw him there.
One night my curiosity got the best of me. I PMed him and asked him if the "pampers" part of his name was what I thought it was. His reply....a very definate "HELL YES !!!! " . A response that sort of impressed me, because I like genuine people who are not afraid to express themselves regardless of what others might think of them. I further asked him some questions about how he felt about his identity as a baby, and remember one very curious thing he said....."but I'm still a man ! "
That's when I knew that his baby side was just a "part" of him, and it was something that you either accept or don't, much like if someone likes or dislikes football. It is a part of his personality and character, and something that you are either attracted to or not. I was. For reasons I will explain later.
The more Peter and I chatted, the more I asked him to tell me about his lifestyle. He was eager to share links and articles with me to help me better understand some of the details about mommy/baby relationships since I showed a real interest in learning. I think someone already touched on this about asking what your man likes or is interested in.
One of the reasons I was attracted to this man was because I am in a very bad marital relationship right now that I am in the process of changing. My marriage is void of intimacy and communication. Peter moved out here from the midwest to meet me, and to make a really long story short, I became romantically involved with Peter and learned to be his mommy.
Part of the mommy/baby bond for me is that intimacy connection. It is a process of giving and receiving between two individuals, much like love itself.
There are things I know about Peter's life that I won't share here, but I will say that I know some of those things have been intensely stressful for him. When he and I engage in mommy/ baby roleplay and when he gets his diapers changed, you can see the stress leave his face and he becomes very, very relaxed. He is receiving that attention that he so badly needs and so am I. It is extremely fulfilling for me when I can give this type of maternal attention to him.
That connection is what bonds me to the relationship as well. It is very much like a real maternal bond. I feel that I am providing the man I love with a physical satisfaction that only I can give him, because let's face it, you only have ONE mommy. The roleplay becomes real the more you engage in it. That's basically it. You need to learn as you go, just like a new young mother does with a newborn. Of course, my boy is already a toddler and that in itself presents other challenges LOL
For us it has been a lot of experimentation. We try new things. Just last month we did some new games and playtime and I read him a story for the very first time. Yep first time in three years. I found a story book that I liked that identified with our relationship as well as with his baby side.
Shopping in the infant and toy sections will help you. Playing the customer role when you shop will help you to connect to your AB very quickly.
Just one more note about that maternal connection. It IS real. or it becomes real. Peter and I have been having some difficult times right now, because as I said earlier, I am in the process of changing my personal situation. And it has added to a strain in our relationship.
I feel threatened by some others in his life right now who I feel are trying to distract him or take him away from me. It's much like that story in the Bible about the two mothers fighting over the infant and the king wants to cut the child in half to settle the dispute. One woman agrees, but the child's real mother cannot bear to see her child hurt so agrees to give him up to save his life.
That is how I have been feeling lately, like my child is being taken from me and I can't bear to lose him. I feel torn and like I am losing a very real part of me.
My point is that you will get involved if the connection is the real thing. You need to become involved in his fantasy as part of your own and it can become really a beautiful experience.
I hope that helps you. It has helped me quite a bit to express my feelings on this.
Good luck to you.
Posted 28 October 2008 - 02:43 AM
I'm new here too. I'm here because my bf has recently told me he likes to be treated as a baby girl - so I thought I'd find out a bit more about it.
At first it was a bit of a shock, but I'm pretty broad minded, and it seems to me that if we both enjoy it then why worry about it?
The replies here are really useful, but they mostly talk about someone's need or desire to be treated like a baby. My bf is very specific that he wants to be treated as a baby girl. In fact he's told me he wants to pretend that I'm forcing him to dress and behave like a little girl, even though he's a boy.
I guess from looking around this and other sites that this isn't too uncommon a scenario.
Is there anyone else who's in this sort of relationship I could chat with? I've taken the leap of faith and put my big hunky guy into nappies and frillies, but it'd be nice to chat with someone else who's also doing this.
Posted 11 June 2009 - 09:59 AM
I really can't offer much advise- I came here looking for some myself. But if you're guy isn't shy about it you are incredibly lucky and just be careful not to make him feel embarrassed. He must trust you SO much to have shared this with you and your understanding probably means more to him than you realize.
As far as dealing with the demasculinization of your man...It's the most beautiful thing in the world! He's letting you see him very intimately- return the favor. It is weird at first but if you really love him, boy! does it become wonderful to know that you're the only one he lets see him this way. You know him in a way no one else does.
Best of luck to you sweethearts!
Posted 16 October 2009 - 06:55 PM
Posted 18 October 2009 - 10:09 AM
I can't imagine having missed this thread fora whole year but, WOW, its great!
I'm a married guy (6 yrs)(third time) who's got a Little Boy inside (3 - 5 yrs of age) myself.
Long story short, my wonderful wife has been so nice to me and I am going to share this thread with her.
In a relationship there's always so much to discuss on a daily basis and much of that never gets said.
This thread might help me explain myself better to her so she might get a glimpse of how important she is to me.
When in "big man" mode I tend to treat her and those around me a bit harsh.
When in "LB" mode I can express my true feelings and let my love and respect for others show through.
I hate being this way and would rather be her little ABDL boy all the time.
I love wearing feminine clothing,especially underthings and I like being treated like a little girl sometimes.
I have always had these cravings, since early childhood through adolescence, so the "real man" is really
a "mask" of behavior that covers up the true me.
Like others here, I had to adjust to this wierd way of being but I'm ok with it these days. I can deal with it and
it doesn't stop the world. Life goes on. I just would like to clear the air in my marriage so my wife can see it
from my perspective. I totally love her and would be lost without. So I need to share my true self with her.
As always, I am thankful for the voices and opinions of others here - they support me amd life is better for this.
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Posted 02 September 2011 - 10:22 AM
...just my .02 cents
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