"You can trust me, I'm not a troublemaker." <-- Said every troublemaker ever. 🙂 But you're a good, friendly troublemaker, and I hope things improve for you very soon. <Sends a huge, snuggly hug>
Several different Facebook sites have common admin ,therefore we #1 blacklist the person from all related groups and post exactly what scam they tried ,so others can learn .
@BrianI swear by Zenni optical.com I can get bifocal transitions with magnetic sunglass in frames with whatever I want engraved for under $100,for bifocal polarized mirrored abought $110 .
Because of my disability I am dual eligible .however after cataract surgery secondary doesn't pay so my first glasses after surgery my copay was $700.
Since then I found Zenni and have bought at least 10 pair from them .
The next munch is scheduled for June 20th, 1 PM, at Holidays Pub and Grill in Appleton. There will be a small blue dinosaur stuffie at our table (his name is Derp!). Hope to see you there! If you have any questions the day of the event, it's best to message me either here or on Fetlife under TyBearius; I try to keep an eye on both! Feel free to message me here prior to the event though! Event link is below!
https://fetlife.com/events/2026/06/20/fva-munch-june-20th-dywsph
If you CAN simply “leave” your DL side then I say good luck to you! Do so! Life would certainly be a LOT simpler for me if I wasn’t compelled to live it in nappies 🤣
Privately using pads or nappies to deal with OAB is hardly something society should be persecuting you about. That's just how you choose to deal with a limitation your body has.
I suspect however that the whole diaper-humiliation thing might not be that easy to walk away from though. These things in my experience tend to be baked in deep. It may well be that you might need to settle for having a plan that keeps it well hidden from others and managed in such a way so that nobody is harmed.