Sorry to hear it DL-Husband (but you never know). I told my now wife about myself (a few days before I proposed). It was the most difficult thing I've ever had to do and I would be lying if I didn't say I was worried she would think I was a freak and leave me. However, fast forward and we're still together. Have gone through a good bit of discussions and arguments but she knows me and my desires and I know her. Out of many a discussion and mutual respect for one another we've worked out what works best for us. Just talk to your wife about everything without wearing and without diapers being present. Try to get on the same page and work out a solution together. It may not be easy or fun, but it is possible. Hit me up if you ever want to discuss further.