Lol - I can't believe some of these replies. Here's this woman, she is definitely very interested in what you are, she is eager to play, explore and understand. I think she really likes you and, being a giving person, wants to really, really make you happy. Not just, "here's a lollipop" happy, but "we are gonna see if everything you want to happen can come true" happy.
I would be coy and make her force the hand... diaper you somewhat non-consensually, but, um, if you can't tell, that's my personal prejudice.
And about the snooping. Humans are curious about stuff. It's natural.
Enjoy.