Ideally I'd have both, I'm greedy like that
At the moment I'd rather be diapered, but my gf looks really cute in them so I'd have no problem diapering her.
I've got 3. An ex gf who as far as I could tell just didn't get it, never heard it.
My current gf whom participates.
One of my best friends who was really curious about it she'd heard of many fetish's but not this. And was really happy when she figured out my current gf participates. we both wore our footed PJs to a PJ party
Neatly trimmed for me. I'm a pretty hairy guy, I've been called Chewbacca a few times and not because I hang out with han solo.. Never thought the long term effort would be worth it