Thanks so much for the reply...! I have been into it since high school...with the feelings etc.. I feel it helps both people to talk...as you say, you are afraid of judgement. I have many stories to share...so I would like to help. I have been alone with this just like many others, and the older I get I had to accept this as part of my life. Talking and being open with someone helps to accept it...and doing so ment telling a few others so I could be open and not hide. Plus, it's fun to play when you find a person that doesn't judge... but says it's OK and lets you be you !!!