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Well first off silly goose, you're not supposed to be holding it while in a diaper in the FIRST place! :P Thats what a diaper is for, to pee in, so stop holding it and relax and let it go more often, and this 'problem' should diminish. ;)

Seriously, it just sounds like you are holding instead of relaxing, and or you might have a shy bladder. Location is also a consideration, in that you said you don't have a problem when in your crib, but do have a problem when in a regular adult bed.

Personally, I don't have a problem peeing anywhere or any position. It took me a LONG time to get to this level, but mostly it was due to me just relaxing, and knowing I'm in a diaper I can trust, just let go when ever I felt the urge.

As I said, location might be an issue because for you, being in your 'crib' means thats where 'babys' stay and play and pee and do all the other 'baby' things they normally do. they DON'T do that in an adult bed or other places (or thats the rumor anyways ) :P So you might try and relax, and put yourself in those "non-baby' places and concentrate on relaxing and letting go. Lay on your back in your crib...let go.....lay on daddys bed, (while in a diaper of coarse) and do the same, relax and let go (or what ever other position helps.

It sounds like you just need to get around 'old programming' and reprogram yourself into that mode to be able to achieve what you want. It also just takes practice, and trusting both yourself and the diaper etc.

As for the being able to hold or not hold, you again, might just need to do a bit of reprogramming here as well.

I just spent the last weekend and last 2 days diapered, and soaked several...stayed in them for hours and enjoyed myself, and loaded the last one :blush: (really had to go) but when I'm not wearing, I have no issues with holding and waiting for the bathroom when I have the chance...because I know and tell myself "I can't do that because I'm not wearing right now" etc. Though I do 'WISH" I was so I wouldn't have to wait and find a ^%$#@! bathroom :badmood: rather just go in my pants :P

ANY-ways tiggysport {{{{{{{huggies!!!}}}}} and I truly hope this helps....like anything else, it just takes practice and a bit of 'change-in-thinking" to get there, but you can :D

Hell, if I can do it anyone can...sheesh..

Also sounds like you might benefit from some pull ups or training pants! ;) if you think you might have an accident in between diaper wearing ;)

{{{{{{{huggies}}}} again and *licks* :P Hope this helps sweetie :wub:

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I usually cant pee forcibly, ive wet my diaper while sleeping a few times from not going toilet before bed but until today have not been able to pee in my diaper while awake even if i tried. However earlier I was speaking to a friend on imvu and she made me need to pee by talking about it and playing rp. I was laying flat on the bed on my laptop and it happened when i turned over to face upwards. It still came in stages so I think my bladder was trying to hold it back but because I'd already let a bit out once I turned it started to flow and I fully wet the diaper.b

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It's all about training yourself to be able to pee in any position at any time without having to think about it. I don't mean to be incontinent, but just so you can go at will without struggling. It's different for everyone but I find that practice and mental reinforcement helps the most. If you need to pee, get into a position you want to 'train' and then pee. For some of the more difficult positions it may take me a good while to actually wet my diaper but every time makes it easier.

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It's the way the brain is wired, you just need to relax as others have already stated. It took me a while to go sitting in my recliner while diapered but after just relaxing it flowed naturally (pun intended).

Enjoy and nice seeing you active on the boards again, sorry to hear about your dog.

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Or just do as mentioned and go with a cheaper brand to 'practice' with. Cloth are like disposables...it comes down to personal preference. Like me, I have this 'thing / preference (obsession?) with prefolds..just like them and how they look and function (stupid I know) :P so flat diapers don't 'do it' for me....they also have to be either gauze, Birdseye ....or Twill..NOT FLANNEL! (Y*U*C*K!) yeah...so I'm picky...but thats the way it is for me. :blush:

SO! like disposables..I know you L*O*V*E :wub: your Abenas.. ( I do to...they are great!) you have to shop around. it's not cheap, but if you buy 1 and try that...if it's not your cup of tea...try something else.

As for places I have tried and like try baby-pants...not cheap (but no cloth diapers are) her quality is very good, and she has different materials.. as well as a neet contour fit that i really (really) like :)

You can also try changing times diaper co. They are in the US, and carry the same twill diapers that Rearz does.. For that amtter baby-pants has a twill diaper as well....forgotted abouts that one :blush:

And then for plastic pants..thats wide open to what you are looking for. Personally again, I'd go with babykins for those as I don't like much else that is available, and what they have is 'close' to the Gerber ones I like :) (picky again)

I guess you could also hazard buying off Ebay, and maybe get a good deal...*shrug* thats where I found the twill ones I have and got a pretty good deal *shrug* just need to wash them real well when yo get them.

BUT THATS JUST ME! You r mileage will vary significantly, so you just have to do some digging and shop around andf see what you (might) like.. just like when you shopped for disposables...and if you don't like one..youhave a good rag to clean with....or a nice stuffer ;)

Anyways, good luck with all that and congrats on being able to wet daddys bed! :thumbsup:;) one step at a time as they say.

{{{{{{HUGGIES!!!!}}}}

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Im having huge issues using my diaper :blush:

in general, using the toilet in public areas... no, just... No! Can't. But i have been able to pee my diaper once, mostly cause i tried all day in my room and then was like "screw this" went into the bathroom and just felt the urge to pee so bad that i just simply relaxed.

I suppose thats where i have to work from to be able to use it where ever i want to, but at the same time, living with my mom is not helping! I do "leak" constantly and have to change underwear at oeast three times a day, i may have something wrong down there but i aint gonna go to the doctors for that :P

But I still need some help with this, i want to be able to use my diaper the second i put it on. Do i have to wear it 24/7 for it to be working? Currently i wear... maybe once a month, used to wear more before (24/4) but stuff came up n havent really gotten back into it.

I have issues when laying down, but when standing and putting extra much pressure on my bladder i can get out a few drops but thats it, then nothing else will come out and i still have the need to gomand eventually i give up trying due to the pain. :/

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Im having huge issues using my diaper :blush:

in general, using the toilet in public areas... no, just... No! Can't. But i have been able to pee my diaper once, mostly cause i tried all day in my room and then was like "screw this" went into the bathroom and just felt the urge to pee so bad that i just simply relaxed.

I suppose thats where i have to work from to be able to use it where ever i want to, but at the same time, living with my mom is not helping! I do "leak" constantly and have to change underwear at oeast three times a day, i may have something wrong down there but i aint gonna go to the doctors for that :P

But I still need some help with this, i want to be able to use my diaper the second i put it on. Do i have to wear it 24/7 for it to be working? Currently i wear... maybe once a month, used to wear more before (24/4) but stuff came up n havent really gotten back into it.

I have issues when laying down, but when standing and putting extra much pressure on my bladder i can get out a few drops but thats it, then nothing else will come out and i still have the need to gomand eventually i give up trying due to the pain. :/

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This is most likely because your potty training is so deeply ingrained your conscious mind can't yet overcome your unconscious mind. First, try wetting when you have a diaper on, and, are sitting on the toilet. (running the sink water at a trickle may also help). You already associate sitting on the toilet as when it's ok to wpee, so adding the diaper in that situation should not be too much of a barrier to overcome. Eventually your unconscious mind will get used to the idea of wetting while also wearing a diaper. Next, try wetting when you're standing in the bathroom. When you've mastered that, try it in the other rooms in your house, outside, and then eventually in public too.

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Thanks :3 might be as you say that my potty training is so deeply ingrained, i did get out of diapers when i was 2 and had never wet the bed after. And in additional to that, i do not trust my diapers at all, will never do that, maybe if im wearing 4 of them then yes.

Not trusting your diapers is actually quite common in our community, and is much more prevalent among those who first look for a "good deal" getting cheap diapers. I not saying this is you, but regardless; I highly recommend getting some premium diapers such as molicare supers, abenal xplus, or dry 24/7. This will go a long way in helping you achieve your goals.

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Not trusting your diapers is actually quite common in our community, and is much more prevalent among those who first look for a "good deal" getting cheap diapers. I not saying this is you, but regardless; I highly recommend getting some premium diapers such as molicare supers, abenal xplus, or dry 24/7. This will go a long way in helping you achieve your goals.

Thanks :3

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The only position I have trouble peeing in is lying on my back. I don't think it's an issue of being trained not to wet the bed, cuz I have absolutely no problem peeing while sitting on my bed or lying in bed on my side or stomach.

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