How many of us here have actually spent time in a nursing home? I know when I spent two weeks at one for rehab from knee surgery on both knees at the same time they didn't diaper me. Even though I told them about my bedwetting problem. They just put a couple of bed pads under me and helped me change my jammie bottoms when I wet them. They were good about not making me feel badly about having the bedwetting problem. Being diapered would have been nice though that is how I deal with it at home. But I wouldn't have wanted to get aroused around them though, they were very professional about helping me clean up and I wouldn't want to make them uncomfortable.