DiaperedElf

I wear what I think is cute, which is not always the best at hiding the diapers. I mean, I wont wear a skirt or dress that is to short, and I wont purposfully choose an outfit that flashes the waist line to the world. But I am a girl, and try and find jeans that come to your waist, hell try to find skirts that do so! As a result, I know the waistline gets exposed every so often, but no one really comments ever.

I mess almost everynight around bedtime, so it is wait for nightly mess, then clean up, new diaper, and into bed. If I can't mess before to late, I just change the wet diaper, and go to bed, and wake up already messy or it is the first thing that happens when I wake up.

Your choice is a valid one.

I just tell them that it is cleaner then peeing my pants, and let it drop. I made the choice to be in them at all times, and I am happy with the choice. If they press, that is what I tell them. I prefer to wet and poop myself over using toilets. It doesn't make my life easier, but it is what I am. If they have a problem, I just walk away and smile.

I go frequently, natural is best. It may be hard the first few times, but just sit on the toilet if you can't, keep the diaper on, and you will poop it before you know it. Standing is best if you can pull it off.

I do a lot, I also like to pat my bum if the diaper is exposed. I have to check myself if I am sitting somewhere with nothing to engage my hands, because one will always find its way between my legs and just feeling the diaper. (Not that this changed from before my diaper wearing. I got sent to the principals office for masturbating in class on more then one occasion. I wasn't actually doing that, I just like feeling fabric and the such down there. I always wore the more tight panties and tended towards smooth fabrics...

My friend and I went to a local theater that was doing all 3 hobbit films, then the three Lord of the Ring films back to back. There were 20 minute breaks between each film, and a one hour long break between Hobbit/LotR. After the first movie, my friend put one of my diapers on. It was a wonderful experience :-p. We were the only ones that never got up during any of the films... of course, just like them we did pee :-p

Here is the reason they do it. Eventually they find someone who says yes that way. They are not after anything but a quick short term indulgence in their obsession. When I was homeless, I would see this behavior among some of the homeless men. They would walk up to each women in a camp, and ask if they want to have sex. Most of us would just tell him no, a few reacted like he was creepy, but every time, the dude found someone. It is the same thing here. In my case, the guy had nothing to lose, I mean society has already taken pretty much everything a homeless person has to lose, so it emboldens those individuals to ignore normal social nicities. On the internet, anonymity offers the same consequence free approach. It is part in parcel with being a woman these days, and it is not ok, but it is something we have to learn to deal with.

Being a girl that does not make efforts to 'hide' my diapers, and what I mean is that I don't pick my clothing based on what hides my diapers best, but on what I think I look best in, etc. My diaper does get seen a lot. I also use public showers most of the time, and while I change into and out of them in a private bathroom normally, there is usually one with my stuff somewhere.