Heres my wish list for Santa!
My little pony stuff like the wedding castle or figurines of them. I really like pinky pie alot so anything with her!
I also want the Repunzle or Belle disney animation princess from the disney store
Disney movies
American Girl dolls or accessories for them, like clothes or pets for my dolls
Stories for bedtime, my favorite is rainbow fish
diapers
ABDL clothes
As for my non abdl self I like books, and jewelry, and shoes, and umm...i really enjoy drawing and even coloring . But getting her a non abdl present might be kind of hard, and you could probably just ask her what she wants, or take her to like walmart or target and see what she looks at or plays with. Thats what my mom used to do with my brother and I.
Anyway I hope my list helps you in some way, she is very luck to have you as her daddy with all the effort you seem to putting into finding her a gift.