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By Beccathelittle · Posted
Hey DD!! I hope everyone is having a super wonderful week, time keeps flying by and i'm excited for a relaxing weekend. Today would be my 2nd year 7th month, and 10th day or 953 days of being padded. Ever so closer to my third year! As the time continues ever forward, I find myself writing this after changing out of a very soaked dip having just come home from a fun day at the office for a few in person vendor meetings. This morning though was a bit less fun, having to change from a messy dip at work as quick as possible before the meetings started. While i'm thankful to be a 99% remote employee, it does not spare me from various onsite meetings or projects at offices / data centers but I'd rate myself a professional ninja diaper changer and glad to have private bathrooms when needed. Makes changing much much easier! Life keeps moving forward and my body keeps changing little by little from what I can tell, even if it's subtle, it has added up to a life of constant leakiness and very sudden wetting/messing signals if at all. It's hard to really describe what has changed as things are subjective, but I do feel something internally has taken a hit when i'm leaking in between changes or laying down feeling my bottom growing warmer with no sense of needing to wet at all. Messing still is not at a state where I'd describe a complete loss of control. The warnings signs grow even shorter or more subtle/noticeable. Mentally I feel i've crossed a threshold where I'm feeling more on autopilot and dont give much thought to messing, there isn't a loud alarm or something trying to tell me HEY YOU'RE ABOUT TO POO! more just a very quiet subtle "oh I have to to go, so go." While my body is already relaxed and ready to let go. The warning is subtle, the feeling is becoming more automatic, and while I still feel I could stop it if truly wanted too, I've yet to actually test it. It's more just I have to put little effort into relaxing like I used to way back when i first started. Take this morning for instance, I found myself needing to mess after having just gotten out of the car at work. I found myself letting go and instead of heading to the office, instead heading to change first. I'm unsure what will happen in the future, but if this was as close to "incontinence" I could achieve without surgical intervention, I'm happy. I wish it wasn't an odd request to have scans or something performed, or just ways to see just how different my muscles have adapted / changed / weakened over time without going to a doctor or having something on my medical record. It just would be a neat to see for my own sake just to learn how much has changed without giving subjective writing. Anyway I hope everyone has a wonderful month ahead, and that you all have a great weekend. If you have any questions please let me know as I sometimes just don't know what to write. You're all loved ❤️ -
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By EroticAvenger · Posted
One of the worries or frequent things brought up which disturbed members of that community were those regarding ABDL individuals who abandoned relationships as well as perhaps jobs to satiate this desire. Course, the specifics of those harrowing stories which put them off weren't given in detail. Sometimes its the most contrary positions which may reveal the most about your thinking. You aren't wrong that some of it seems, off. On their discord spirituality thread one of them writes in response to another noting rampant misuse of tolerance in Christianity that, Take that as you will. Sometimes we require molding by the strict hand of mental authorities. Depending on the situation and people's responses it; it could however look more in line with self-harm than self-improvement. Yes, their are lots of religious tones and talk of highly valuing 'self-denial' but I'm to assume everyone their comes voluntarily. There is also no overtly judgmental attitudes of one to another merely shared stories of successes or failures and talk of support all around. I fully agree as to the abundance of contrary positions which fill the internet. Its not the freedom of the internet without it. Such negative self-concepts are my morbid fascination and I also wonder what the 'objectively' correct lens is. Perhaps those from that community would cite my inability to immediately throw the gavel down but instead ask 'why' questions as part of some mental/spiritual issue which I haven't sufficiently dwelt with. So I enjoy playing a game with myself with regards to such thoughts. Though it might seem harmful, perhaps we should occasionally entertain such thoughts or feelings to the highest extant possible. Only to rebound and realize in what manner our previous equilibrium wasn't as balanced as we thought it was. However, we could also realize the strength of what was before as well. That's the thing! Aside from those who actively seek such help whether to embrace ABDL or repress it such pursuits are limited to highly personal, un-advertised, choices. Dissenting voices may fall on deaf ears to those who drink if not because they are addicted but rather because they are already in control of it. Course, that doesn't stop the chorus of such voices. -
By EroticAvenger · Posted
I full heartedly agree. I'm to assume as well that they have their own collection of extremists and dreadful people with which the moderators stay busy. I'm also one of those homemade diaper people, 😁! When I was rather young and couldn't get my hands on them through the internet, didn't have a debit card, or was unable to really leave the house alone so I had to get creative. Thick blankets, towels, and even those pads used for floor wetting pets. All fashioned as best as one could under tightfitting clothes/underwear to get close to what I thought the feeling would be similar to. Course, I was spoiled with a debit card along with disposable money and the glories of the internet such as Bambino or Rearz by the time I reached Highschool. Currently for me the desire to do so is there and comes in minor waves mostly when I'm in bed. Otherwise, I can function just fine without them for weeks to months or years if needed but I'd definitely have them in the back of mind. Intriguing. . . perhaps I should also make a call back to what experiences I have with unhealthy obsessions or coping habits to keep me in check as well with regards to ABDL. Course, for me it wasn't hardcore drugs but rather alcoholic beverages. Some people disagree on this point despite those rather upstanding and rigorous medical/psychological analyses. For every, "I accepted myself and it all turned out alright," you can look hard enough and you'll find someone saying they left it behind for the better. Regardless of whether they may a rather restricted minority. For me this is rather completely the opposite. It is highly sexualized and I've been wondering if that is in fact a problem waiting to snowball itself into obsession or 'porn addiction'. Ergo, why I'm taking a hiatus and even if I do get back into the saddle I'd consider getting into more the AB side of things or involve some kind of play related to edging/chastity. Mostly or in relation only to a partner of whatever standing. Ha! Those from the quitting ABDL subreddit on their discord would say something similar but phrased in a negative standing to your position. As they noted at the beginning of their discord place of spirituality, So, your point is rather proven I'd say unless someone else of a religious tinge wouldn't mind chiming in to give their own opinions on this verses' interpretation. As one of the commenters then said in response in that thread, -
By Little Giammy · Posted
Despite pouting, the child allowed his mom to put on the harness. Meanwhile, nanny and Lydia were already beyond the gate. Then, the child took his wallet from his purse and pulled out a 5 Tye note to give to Stephanie for her ticket. It would have been really embarrassing for her to have one of her clients pay for her ticket.
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