DL-Husband Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 A few weeks ago I asked my fiancée what she did for stress and after she told me what she did it was my turn I tried to tell her later but she really wanted to know, so I told her I like to wear adult diapers as they comfort me and make me feel good. She was in shock and confused and scared for about a week. She did research during that week and finally came to turns that it's not going to hurt us or anyone. She loves me for me and now we're getting married tomorrow . I have never worn a diaper in front of her and I don't think I ever will. But the fact that she knows has taken a lot I stress away from me. We talk about it once in a while and it actually makes me feel good. I love my very soon to be wife and I will do anything to make her happy everyday of my life!!!! 2 Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 I'm glad you did that before getting married. Afterwards could have ruined it for you. Congrats too by the way. Link to comment
babylin Posted April 4, 2014 Share Posted April 4, 2014 All you have done is "Told" her. Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 Awesome Just always remember how special this person is and be ready to give of yourself in return- even if that means taking a break from diapering for awhie if that's what she wants. Let her be the guide in how you make progress- no need to rush things since you'll have a happy lifetime ahead of you to put everything in where it fits best Link to comment
DL-Husband Posted April 7, 2014 Author Share Posted April 7, 2014 Many thanks for the congratulations all. Your right I have yet to wear them around her, I guess I am just waiting till the urge gets strong. She has told me a few times to buy a pack of diapers and keep them in our closet but I am still holding off. Been a month now. She is No.1 at the moment. Coming out was the best thing ever. We love eachother. Wedding day was fantastic I'll keep updates as soon as I can!!! 1 Link to comment
DL-Husband Posted April 8, 2014 Author Share Posted April 8, 2014 Thanks for the replies. She is extremely special to me. I have not worn diapers for over a month now. But I do grave and think of them a lot. But she does mean more to me. She has said when I crave them to let her know my feelings but also that if I need to buy a pack just to calm me down so I know I have some here that I can and keep them in our closet. She doesn't really want to see me in them, I don't blame her it's not really a turn on for her. But she has read a lot into it and understands that I need it for me. She's positive with me on this subject now. I will keep you updated for sure. Peace Link to comment
SoakedinTexas Posted April 9, 2014 Share Posted April 9, 2014 Congratulations on finding someone to love. Diaper desire as you have said and she has learned doesn't just go away. She may not want to see you in diapers but in order to help with your cravings you may do as she has suggested and get a pack of diapers and keep in the closet. Sometimes just having the items near is enough, Link to comment
AwakenEvil Posted April 15, 2014 Share Posted April 15, 2014 Honesty is the best policy! Great Job bro! Link to comment
Huggie Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 CONGRATULATIONS on both your recent marriage and for bringing your diaper wearing in the know to her. That will help both of you whether she participates or not and it showed that you are honest and that she isn't judgmental. Link to comment
kellysbaby Posted May 3, 2014 Share Posted May 3, 2014 Good for you! I was in a similar situation but was still in the binge and purge stage of acceptance with myself. I opened up to my wife and she had more than a few discussions with me to help me accept it. I do think that you still have a few huge steps to take in this though. mainly buying a pack of diapers that she ends up seeing. thats when things will get real. at some point shes going to see you in one, either on accident or on purpose. it's scary but worth it in the long run to take the risks. Link to comment
DL-Husband Posted June 13, 2014 Author Share Posted June 13, 2014 So far so good. I wore a couple at my parents house which I told her but never brought any into our house yet. Link to comment
DL-Husband Posted August 22, 2014 Author Share Posted August 22, 2014 And that's the end of that. She seen a thick diaper in my closet (Abena M4) and freaked out. Total turn off etc. well now I have to get rudolf them all I'm scared. I was so happy to receive and stock up on diapers that I have always wanted. I want my wife to be happy so I need to lose the diapers. This will not be easy Link to comment
SoakedinTexas Posted August 22, 2014 Share Posted August 22, 2014 I am confused as to what happened from April till now. Back in April you said that she was excepting and even said if you needed to buy diapers for your craving then you could. Now you say that since she has seen one it is all over. You also mentioned that she Link to comment
dl1036 Posted August 23, 2014 Share Posted August 23, 2014 Sorry to hear it DL-Husband (but you never know). I told my now wife about myself (a few days before I proposed). It was the most difficult thing I've ever had to do and I would be lying if I didn't say I was worried she would think I was a freak and leave me. However, fast forward and we're still together. Have gone through a good bit of discussions and arguments but she knows me and my desires and I know her. Out of many a discussion and mutual respect for one another we've worked out what works best for us. Just talk to your wife about everything without wearing and without diapers being present. Try to get on the same page and work out a solution together. It may not be easy or fun, but it is possible. Hit me up if you ever want to discuss further. Link to comment
kellysbaby Posted August 27, 2014 Share Posted August 27, 2014 I've been down that same road. The good news is that I still wear diapers and she does too. Although "she" isn't the she that hated diapers..... The rest of your life is a long time to hide a secret. Wether it's from her or yourself, forever is a long time. Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted August 27, 2014 Share Posted August 27, 2014 People can and do change their minds Since there was already some discussion (and hopefully some agreement on this) you need to have a serious discussion. Remind her that she made allowance for this and that you've done no wrong. Don't focus on that though, it will onlty bring an argument What you need to do is set a future course which includes your diapers If she doesn't want to see them that can be arranged. If she doesn't want to have them in the house that doesn't fly unless you have somewhere else to keep them that works for you. Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted August 29, 2014 Share Posted August 29, 2014 Definitely try and get her to understand your wearing diapers better, but be ready to accept she just won't like them. You may need to come to some sort of agreement where you only wear them in a very limited capacity (maybe even when she isn't around), but she may also need to accept you did tell her about them and she did agree to be accepting about them. Most likely the two of you will find a happy medium though, or at least I hope so. Link to comment
DL-Husband Posted October 12, 2014 Author Share Posted October 12, 2014 Guess what!!!! Well my wanting of diapers have gone crazy stress levels went up and I bought a case of abena m4's and she found out as I told her when she asked me if I was craving them. I told her yes and that I bought diapers. She wasn't happy but wasn't mad, I think she realizes now that they are a part of me. She lets me put them away in our walkin closet . Yesterday she seen me looking at the costco adult diapers as we went shopping to buy out soon diapers. We had a discussion in the car and it was all good and even funny. I'm in a happy place Link to comment
kellysbaby Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 My stress level effects diaper wearing too. My wife also knows this and responds accordingly. We didn't lay down ground rules or anything. She just notices things and gets out the powder. It takes a lot of communication, and me not bringing diapers up every 5 minutes. She's helped with my insecurities a lot. Good luck and enjoy the roller coaster. Link to comment
Stroller Posted November 3, 2014 Share Posted November 3, 2014 It's an up and down ride for a lot of us I think. Link to comment
Boston_Daddy Posted November 8, 2014 Share Posted November 8, 2014 wow thats an up and down cycle...i hope to find someone already into the ABDL scene so i dont have to go through all that stuff. Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted November 10, 2014 Share Posted November 10, 2014 wow thats an up and down cycle...i hope to find someone already into the ABDL scene so i dont have to go through all that stuff. Link to comment
kellysbaby Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 I told my wife within the first month of dating. She'd never heard of ABDL's and wasn't the most receptive. Now she loves our special secret and plays regularly. Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 I told my wife within the first month of dating. She'd never heard of ABDL's and wasn't the most receptive. Now she loves our special secret and plays regularly. Link to comment
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