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  1. 3 and 4 in your list seem “easier” for her than 1 & 2, so start there. From pats to snuggles. Maybe snuggles go somewhere else. Maybe not… but reassure her with touch that she’s what you want, the diaper just amplified your feelings.
  2. Depends on what you and your partner are into. There’s everything from over/under fondling play to full on frottage, to working yourselves up to ripping the diaper(s) off and having at it. See where things start and where they go.
  3. So I took a step recently and joined a FetLife group for local AB's, DL's, "regressives," etc. There was a social event tonight at a large, public place - a "get to meet the community" event where the rules of the road are "don't scare the vanillas" - so no showing off, etc. The purpose is to get to know others in the local community and start to find out about other events that provide a safer space for expressing whatever side/tendencies you might have - caregiver, little, regression only, diaper wearing only, etc. About 12 people from our local "community" showed up, several for the first (like me) or second time. Apparently there are a few of these a month, with varying attendance. About 50% men and 50% women, and about 75%/25% folks that were already partnered vs. those who weren't. The nearly even gender surprised me (and my partner, when we talked after). I was pretty tentative about going, for all the normal reasons - what if I see someone I know, etc. My partner/gf couldn't attend and we're monogamous, so I certainly wasn't looking for a play party, but I talked with her about going before I decided to go - I want her to be comfortable knowing I'm not looking to cheat, play on the side, etc. The short version? I met new people that share the same "fetish" or desire I do (I cringe at "fetish" because this doesn't interrupt any 'normal' desires for me, which is usually the definition of a fetish). I'll likely go to another social event, and my partner and I had a long talk about how the event was, who was there, "what next," etc. afterward (she's been aware of my primarily DL tendencies from the start and has discovered some of her own). It's been good in terms of finding more ways to explore how we like to provide for each other, be provided for, and where things might go as we indulge this side of things. So, if you're looking for more places to be able to express your AB/DL side around others, perhaps even negotiate a scene, etc., I'd recommend looking on FetLife for "ageplay" groups near you and see if they're active. Find a "vanilla" social and see who's there. And yes, I wore, but under jeans and a sweater, and nobody discussed much more than "what's your role in your relationship" or such.
  4. I’m not typically a messer. Don’t like the cleanup and it doesn’t do anything for me headspace wise. I’ve tried once or twice just to see what the fuss was about (no pun intended) and it just didn't seem worth the cleanup. It’s also required manual effort - an intentional push - so never really “spontaneous.” While not sick, my diet influences my gut consistency and when that changes I can get into “no warning” situations where I have less than 15 seconds to clench and shuffle to a bathroom. Not diarrhea, just immediate urge. Tonight my tummy gave me signs of one of those nights, so I got diapered up and was doing what I needed to around the house. Then it hit. Almost no warning, a brief moment of panic as a realized what was about to happen, and then a very quickly full diaper with no push effort on my part. Much more than I’d anticipated but it held. Now, after some wand play and a satisfying conclusion it's time to clean up and get ready for a Friday night out.
  5. ABU Cushie, my new preference over Bambino’s. I love working from home.
  6. Elfy - that's spun pretty hard. It includes criminal-on-criminal violence (gangs, drugs, etc.) which is going to happen anyway (remember West Side Story and the gang/knife fight?).
  7. I hadn't seen this posted here before but thought it was funny and wanted to share:
  8. I'm in the medical profession.
  9. So as I've been able to indulge more, I've discovered I'm not really into baby things but can enjoy some toddler things in an ageplay scenario. Toddler, though, not kid, because I'm still very much a DL vs "pull-ups" like "big kids" wear. Also, since I don't personally enjoy messing, I can be potty-training so that messes make the potty but other "accidents" happen... and still be ageplay-appropriate in my role. Not in the sense of labels or tags, but it's helpful in terms of explaining participation in this fetish to someone willing to engage with you. So, do you have a preferred age group for yourself when you're "little?" Does it influence how you "play?"
  10. If you can make a 30% profit ($20 -->$26) plus shipping (twice the cost of Priority Mail yet shippable as parcel post), more power to you.
  11. Only comment: you need to actually clean the mattress, not just let the urine dry.
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