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I'm guessing that was a typo and was meant 28 days. Usually the amount of time it takes to create a habit (min) for behavioral issues if repeated daily. However this is again different, your breaking a habit, and creating a new one, during a period that you are unconscious. Your also going to be fighting with long learned behaviors that are engrained, and will have to deal with the mental barriers as they come up, as well as the baseline of getting comfortable with being in bed in a diaper, and sleeping through the night, in any position without it bring an event, being able to wet in any position, dealing and overcoming leaks, and then trusting the diaper, finally learning to sleep through an occasional leak, not worry about it. Once you get to that point you can work on wetting when Judy barely waking waking up, and from there, it's habit creation. -Blake-

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i got myself used to peeing in the shower using the same kind of conditioning. pee in the shower, praise yourself mentally, pleasure yourself if you want to and have time :-) and encourage yourself to do it again next time. now when i take a shower i don't pee automatically, but if i have to pee at all it becomes a sudden and urgent need. i enjoy it greatly! if i am at the gym or someone else's house, i just pee before i get in the shower.

if my bed were protected, i were in a diaper, and i had sufficient time and privacy, i'd follow the same strategy to become a bedwetter. the big trick is in reducing your bladdet capacity so it will wake you up in the middle of most nights. if you don't wake up, you can't practice!

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congratulations, on that first night 3 weeks ago when you wet your bed, you had become a bed wetter!

...?! you're an adult! it's all about how you present yourself. they won't check your medical records... and there is no membership card. :-P

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And even if they do check your medical records you can say it's a new thing and that you don't have any problems with it. The Doctor is there to assist you with your healthcare- you are always the one who makes the decisions of what will be done in the line of diagnosis and treatment. If you don't want it, they can't force it on you :P

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so if i went and told my doctor that i have been having issues with keeping my bladder from leaking (happens ocassionally, not as often as i would hope for tbh) and i wanted to wear diapers to keep from having to change clothes and shower, they wouldnt be able to force me to take meds to make it stop?

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so if i went and told my doctor that i have been having issues with keeping my bladder from leaking (happens ocassionally, not as often as i would hope for tbh) and i wanted to wear diapers to keep from having to change clothes and shower, they wouldnt be able to force me to take meds to make it stop?

Generally a doctor can't force you to take meds.

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so if i went and told my doctor that i have been having issues with keeping my bladder from leaking (happens ocassionally, not as often as i would hope for tbh) and i wanted to wear diapers to keep from having to change clothes and shower, they wouldnt be able to force me to take meds to make it stop?

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Absolutely not. You and only you can decide on your treatment.

I brought it up with my doc because my wife was concerned it could be a symptom of something more serious (no idea LOL). The reply; "if it were you'd already be dead.". She said that most likely I just sleep so deeply I don't wake up if I have to go and it just flows out. She wrote me a prescription that she said I could try or not as I seemed to be managing otherwise. Of course I didn't.

That said, do you feel you need to bring it up with your doc? If you're managing it and are not worried about it, seems you're all set. Although, doing so for me helped reinforce my self view "I'm a bed wetter".

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I think it's a mind game. IF you for prolonged time, do wake up with a need to go, and decide to go in your diaper, eventually I think you'll still wake up in some sense, but only to emty your bladder, and then fall asleep again. That's what I'm experiencing for now. Hopefully as time goes by, my mind will be reprogrammed to not wake up anymore...and then I'll have the best sleep for the rest of my life - as a true bedwetter

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Wetting in your sleep will take years to accomplish if you're starting from "normal" bladder function.

But, the process relatively easy, if you are really committed.

First step, reduce bladder capacity and get used to peeing with less volume. No more than two hours between voids in the daytime.

Next, wear a high absorbent diaper to bed every night. Your bladder currently holds a lot, heavy absorbency is required.

In time your bladder capacity will reduce and become easier to empty at low volume.

At first, you will wake up with a full bladder and need to go right away, try to before you get up. If you can't, no worries, get up and go in the diaper.

It takes a while to defeat years of continence training.

Eventually, you will wet in your sleep, and have urgency issues in the daytime, maybe even leakage.

Going to sleep without a diaper is not going to be an option for the rest of your life.

Bonus or bummer, depends on your view.

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Bonus I would say, can't wait to I feel my soaking diaper in the morning, with no memory of going.

Must be a big bonus, sleeping deeply throughout the night without getting up anymore....knowing your clothdiaper will take care of it.

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Bonus I would say, can't wait to I feel my soaking diaper in the morning, with no memory of going.

Must be a big bonus, sleeping deeply throughout the night without getting up anymore....knowing your clothdiaper will take care of it.

I totaly second this. Although I only get this when I'm cathed overnight and draining into my diaper. Still, it is an awesome feeling.

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