KatelynG

Alright, I am officially crazy and will be leaving. Thanks to the few people that have been awesome. My message from the mods was basically "it's not a big deal; avoid this person or fuck off" so whatever. I'm just going to cause drama if I stay, and this isn't really a place anyone seems to like me while I have plenty of other spaces that do. For full disclosure, the mods' official stance seems to be that I am making way too big of a deal about nothing, so for those of you who thought that, it's confirmed. Also, feel free to involve someone in your roleplay that has explicitly stated that they don't want to be involved with you, as that's perfectly fine according to the site rules. Goodbye, people. I expect a ban will shortly follow.

Elfking, I'm talking about consent as a concept, not specifically in those instances. Obviously sexual assault and rape are not the same as sexual harassment via the internet, and I apologize if it sounded like I was equating them. The point is that a lack of consent in physical activity related to AB things would count as sexual assault, and refusing to respect consent and boundaries in an internet chat will make me not only leave but ensure that I recommend to others that they leave this site alone. Just because it isn't as bad as sexual assault doesn't make it okay. I'm almost certainly going to move to non-internet spaces only or spaces moderated/able to be controlled by myself (my subreddit, Skype, etc.) because of how common this is in AB spaces on the internet. I don't wish to fault the mods for not being there. Truth be told, there's only so much you can do, and I didn't help by not reporting most people who did it. It just seems to be a very common thing on this site's chat specifically.

DailyDiapers as a site, specifically in the chat room, seems to have a problem with the idea of consent. I've regularly had people not respect my boundaries in RPs as well as PM me for sexual favors in chat. I took an extended leave from this site for these reasons. It looks like I will be taking another, as within an hour back in the chat room a user was explicitly refusing to respect my boundaries. Consent is not a joke, even digitally. It is what separates us from rapists and those who sexually assault others. If the DD chat cannot respect that, I don't expect I will be coming back.