Figuring out where you fall in the abdl community

[Minibcooper]

Hi everyone. I'm Minibcooper and I very recently found out about the abdl community. Brief background of me is that I've basically always been a bedwetter and my parents eventually started using diapers and I started to like them in ways more than just for the dry sheets. I never knew that other people could feel similarly until I gathered up the courage to do some digging online at my college a couple weeks ago since my school is far from home. I want to know more about the community and how people are able to determine exactly where they "fit" into it. I know abdl is adult baby diaper lover but how do you determine exactly which one you are? I'm sorry if some of these questions are a bit silly but until recently I was embarrassed about the way I feel about diapers and was terrified to look into it especially at home and I was also afraid for awhile when starting college since the schools give you long lectures at orientation about how going onto certain website can get you temporarily banned from the Internet. Sometimes I'm just afraid cause I feel like I'm some freak and what will happen if someone finds out I wear diapers at bed time and then finds out I'm considering wearing them more at times I really don't need them? I have to have them at bedtime because of my enuresis or more blatantly called bedwetting. Have other bedwetters developed these feelings too? How do you know exactly how strong your feelings are? Thanks for any advice or help in advance. If this is who I truly am then ignoring it is pointless.

~Minibcooper

[carsfan]

Hey Minibcooper, welcome to the site.

[phl655]

Hi

[SammaraShradder]

Hey,

[Little BabyDoll Christine]

Whne you sign up, You see something called "Previous Fields". Look over those variables and select the one that best fits. Wlhat you will have is not an exact descriptio, but a "best fit" with quite a bit of wiggle room. For me. "Adult Kid" and "LG (Little Girl) is very different from someone born in 1970 and beyond: For me there is no such thig as "vintage Pampers" they are too new. How many of you born after 1960 know about "mama" dolls. Wehn I was a Little Girl, Disney did not suck the air out of whereever it went. On the boys' side of things: HOw many of you know who Buzz Corry was? or Fort Superior?. Or Richard Greene's character?

Categories here are not, nor can the be, exact. Theyy are, and most be to be useful, only approximate: Towns and cities; streets and avenues rather than houses. I am part of RUFFIES & RIBBONS GIRLS' HOME. I could create, or mor correctly,assist inthe creation of, the equivalent LB site with far more direct input from the times,

[Baby Brian]

My advice if you want to find out where you "fit" here is to start reading these forum threads. A lot of people here have given great insights and advice that will likely help you too.

[Bettypooh]

It's all shades of gray (or grey if you prefer) and besides, we're all in just one category: humans (though that's a far stretch for some of us ) Just be who you are and don't worry about labels or categories. They really don't mean much anyway