I wanted to post as I have thought a lot about this. There are loads of people here that want to be incontinent. But very few stick it out for very long, most of the people ask for an easy fast way to get there.
I totally understand that, if I was incontinent. I would have no problem with friends and work colleagues knowing that I am wear, on the other hand if I had to say that I was wearing because I wanted to then I would find it harder.
Also I would feel really bad about wearing at lying to people that I needed to wear.
So I totally get it why people ask for a quick fix. I have used catheters, hypnosis files and I still have full control. I love the feeling with a cath in having no control is great. And if there was a way of making that happen with the flick of a switch then I would be there. I am not totally sold on wanting to have no control at all. I think that there are times in my life when having control is better than not. I do still use caths and enjoy the short times that I have no control.
I know this post is not making a huge amount of sense but I have been thinking about posting something like this for a while