WeaselDiaperBoy

Same

I like clean or wet. I don't mind messy, as long as I am not looking at actual fecal matter. A lumpy diaper where one is free to assume it is messy is fine.

I went 24/7 about 4 years ago. I rarely mess in my diapers since it involves more work than I care for. I recommend that you protect your skin. Rashes are a pain to get rid of. I told my urologist and my primary care physician that I was doing this as a choice, not because of any medical issue. I didn't want them trying to cure a nonproblem. Outside of that, I have been fortunate to mostly work from home or work in my own office. The gym was tricky, but it is only a big deal if you make it one.

There are so many good disposables on the market today. I love Trest for their absorbency, and the throwback white color. I have also done their other colors. I love my new Potty Monsters from Tykables. ABUs, REARZ, Bambinos, and from the medical side, North Shore MegaMax all work well. Try out a few and see how well they work.

I'll be there along with quite a few of our COVID LockDown Zoom groups (Diaperbois/Boston Babies, SoCal, and Melbourne). I look forward to meeting folks from this forum.

Is it possible that the fact that you barely fit in the Goodnites and probably had space in the Assurance could be related to the leakage? It may have to do with the tightness of fit and the ability to leak around a looser fit diaper. I'm just asking because I am curious. I wear regular disposable diapers 24/7 because I have never been satisfied with diaper pants, and also, Hey I'm ABDL.

I just wanted to share some thoughts on being myself while juggling the rest of my life. I've been open about it with my family, best friends, and folks in the local kink scene. They've been awesome about it, and it's been great to be me without holding back. But, when it comes to work and the outside world, I keep it private. Not because I'm not proud of who I am, but let's be real, not everyone gets it, and I don't want it messing with my job or how people see me professionally. I've never been much for needing approval of my life choices, but it feels good to not have to hide with the people who matter most to me. I'm not the only one walking this tightrope between personal truths and professional life. It's all about finding that sweet spot where you can be true to yourself with the people who get you while keeping things private where it counts. So, to anyone out there figuring out how to balance their life, you're not alone. It's all about doing what's best for you and finding the people who support you no matter what.

I once went 24 hours in a dirty diaper. The rash that followed sucked. My worst experience was when I delayed changing until after mowing the lawn. The heat, the friction, and the mess combined to create a rash that was bloody, and took weeks to eliminate.

If you don't waddle like a duck, it's not thick enough.

Ahh, the blissful life of the self-owned.🤣

This purge sucks. I plan to resubscribe to the content providers who I was subscribed to. I cancelled all of my Patreon subscriptions today and deleted my account. F... Patreon.

I just wear the diaper under the sheet. Sometimes I have a plain medical style diaper, other times it is an AB/DL style, but the therapist keeps the sheet over the diaper, so they don't really have to look at it.

I go to Massage Envy routinely and I wear 24/7. It's no big deal. I informed my first massage therapist before we started, but in the last two years, I stopped bothering with it. It's underwear. I make it a point to be clean and dry before the appointment starts. No one has ever raised it as an issue. It is no different from going to a doctor appointment. I try not to impose on the therapist, but they are professionals, and I am not their only diapered client.

Old Maslow and his dog. This was a joke in one of my classes while in the military. We were learning about the hierarchy, and while discussing it in the cafeteria line, one of the cafeteria workers mentioned that he remembered learning about "Old Maslow and his dog." We commented that eventually, when you ring the bell, the dog self-actualized.