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  1. Amy, The only ones i'm aware of in the US with three tapes on each side are Depends. i personally prefer the Depends Overnights fitted briefs, which i think they now call "maximum protection". As Repaid mentioned above, one brand of disposable diapers do not fit everyone equally well. If you read the diaper review section here, i'd concentrate on the comments about absorbency and ignore the rest, because what really should matter to YOU is how they fit YOU. Many people rave about how wonderful the Attends brand is, but they just do not fit me very well. You may have buy packages of different brands and experiment before you find what works well for you. i hope that helps... Latexman
  2. AutieAB -- i absolutely do NOT mean to challenge you or disagree with you, since everyone is entitled to their own opinion. However, i'd like to point out something in what you've said above. It is very clear from your comments that you sincerely did NOT believe in hypnosis or the power of hypnotic suggestion on your subconscious. That's perfectly fine, but please consider one thing. There is a mountain of evidence that hypnosis does work, and there are hundreds of thousands of people who have been hypnotized for a variety of purposes over the last five to six decades since the increase in popularity of hypnosis. All of the evidence and participants will agree on one point -- it may OR may not work on every single subject who tries, but it definitely will NOT work if you've convinced yourself ahead of time that it is not going to work. Other than extreme cases of true brainwashing through the use of drugs and/or enforced long-term captivity, hypnosis is an activity that requires a belief and a willingness to participate in the success of the procedure. If you truly believe ahead of time that it will not work ("well like that was going to happen (and I knew it wouldn't)"), then i can pretty much guarantee you that it will NOT work. But, if you approach it with an open mind, you might be surprised at how effective hypnosis really is! Best wishes...
  3. Dprby162 -- Hypnosis absolutely CAN help you accomplish what you seek! Socal's products are VERY good and i highly recommend them. i think the lady who vocalizes his "female voice" tapes has an extremely relaxing and hypnotic voice, although i am not familiar with the male-voiced recordings he offers. i have used hypnosis for years to help achieve diaper incontinence, and it WILL work, but only if you WANT it to. Most people who have hypnosis-induced incontinence products understand that they must provide an "only when diapered" version, since few fetishists really want to be helpless wetters 24/7. The human mind understands what you are trying to do, and the "only when diapered" recordings will train your subconscious to recognize the difference between when you are diapered and in the mood and mode to lose control and when you are not. i've never had a moment of indecision when "play time" is over; i immediately regain full control when switching to grown up underwear. However, when i am diapered, i don't even give wetting a second thought -- it is just as natural as it can be. Depending on how much and how fast i'm drinking, about every 15 to 20 minutes, enough urine has been produced that it just comes out. No gushing, no pushing needed, it is just like no one ever closed the drain and when the liquid is produced, it just flows out. In fact, that is much more "baby-like" and will ensure that your diaper is best able to absorb your output. Few diapers can handle a surge of pent-up liquid all at once, but they are excellent at small and regular quantities. So, check with Socal (or a few others) and see what they offer. i don't think you'll be disappointed!
  4. Hey buddy, As i've already told you privately, i really did enjoy this story! You did a great job of creating the characters and molding them into a wonderful storyline. Please keep up the terrific work! Latexman
  5. Mary Ann, As has been mentioned in another reply, the best way to say it is "they don't stay on" too well. Without getting too explicit, imagine a very thick condom-type product that does not have a tight ring at the base to hold it onto a part of the male anatomy that does not exist on a 24/7 basis in the type of rigid condition that typically keeps a contraceptive condom in place. Even considering the increased possibility of infection, an indwelling balloon-tip catheter is really preferable for someone who is ambulatory. A condom cath might be marginally usable for someone confined to a bed, but not for someone with even a sense of an active lifestyle (like standing, walking, bending down, etc.). Plus, from a fetish perspective, nothing can give you more of a feeling of helpless incontinence than an indwelling catheter inside a thick diaper. The only way you know anything is coming out is that the diaper gets wetter and thicker and warmer. Also, if the AB/DL is wearing disposables, catheters are perfect to replicate infantile diaper dependence. Many voluntarily diaper wearers will "hold back" until the urge is strong and then "let go", suddenly releasing a large volume of liquid. If you think about the way a child wets, it is a more constant flow whenever urine even begins to collect in the bladder. People who wear disposables will tell you that a sudden "flood" will not be absorbed quickly enough and can leak. Since the catheter allows liquid out as soon as it appears in the bladder, the quantity is never a flood, but more like a dripping faucet. At the rate of release through a catheter, i've found that disposables hold an AMAZING quantity of liquid!! But, as the warnings above stated, cleanliness is important, because you are creating a completely open pathway straight into the bladder. So, pooping into the diaper is not a good idea, and good hygiene of the exposed end of the catheter is crucial. And, here's a little tip i figured out years ago. If you're going to indulge in cath play, there are obviously going to be times that you won't be diapered (if for no other reason than the fact that you're changing your soaked one, or when taking a shower, or...) while that lovely little tube is still hanging there dripping. The perfect "stopper" for those interim times? A golf tee! Yes, they are just the right size to slip into the end and the increasing upward taper of the diameter means that it will slide into the open end of the cath for about 2/3 of its length and then will get very snug. The stretchability of the latex or silicone of the cath will allow the golf tee to become nice and tight in the end of the opening, while still leaving enough of the head of the tee for your fingers to grab to pull it out. My recommendation is the plastic ones and not the wooden ones, because they are easier to clean before inserting into the end of the cath. Even though they are painted, the wooden ones are porous and can retain germs that you don't want incubated in the nice, dark and warm environment inside that tube. So, play safe and have fun!
  6. i'm sure that if someone remembered the name of the story, they would have offered it. The problem for most of us is that we don't read everything out there, and if we get into one that isn't pushing our buttons, we probably will stop reading it. So, if others here liked the story as much as you did, i'm sure they'll get you an answer.
  7. To save a lot of typing, here is a post i made tonight about catheters in response to another question: http://www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.ph...st&p=151180 In reading this thread, i see some good comments about one topic i failed to mention. Sizing IS important -- if you try a catheter that is too large in diameter, it will be hard to get it in and will probably hurt coming back out. If you use one that is too small, it won't work as well. Most guys would probably be okay with a 12 or 14 French. i've used a 16 Fr. before, but it is pretty snug. The larger the number, the larger the tubing. Guys, don't get all macho here -- it's not about how "big" you are or how "well hung" you are. We're talking about the inside diameter of your urethera, which is not an indicator of your manliness! Someone asked about what to do with the excess...i just very loosely coil it up inside the bottom of the diaper. Pointing it "up" towards your navel means that the output will head into some of the thinnest and least absorbent areas of the diaper. i've had the best success for long-term wear (>2 - 3 hours) with gently coiling it and letting it rest next to where my testicles will be. Think of a garden hose when you first buy it -- a loose coil effect. As far as feeling it, once i have my diaper on, i certainly can't "feel" the catheter, so i don't think it would disturb whoever that was who asked above... Play safe and have fun! Latexman
  8. Well, i could have said, "your clogged up sh*t", but i was trying to be polite... LMAO
  9. Catheters are a fun and erotic way to play, but can also be a source of trouble. This is no different than many other forms of sexual escapades. People routinely wind up in hospital emergency rooms with beer bottles, door knobs and a variety of other things inside their rectum or chemicals in their blood stream, all from "play" that got out of hand. Caution is VITAL, education is NECESSARY, and good common sense is REQUIRED. The use of catheters can be enjoyable, but as my pal Botox said above, even people used to them can have problems. The overriding caveat is CLEANLINESS!!!!!!!!!!! i cannot over-emphasize that. If you are going to insert 15" worth of tubing through an opening in your body all the way into your bladder, you do NOT want to insert a bunch of germs along with it. Outside of a doctor's office or hospital, it is hard to be totally sterile, but do your best. Antiseptic wipes around the opening of your urethera (whether you're male or female), wearing and changing pairs of latex gloves, not touching any more of the catheter than you have to, lots of lube and going slow are some key points. When you insert a catheter (male or female), it will travel a fair distance before you encounter the sphincter muscle at the bladder. You'll know you're there because you'll feel a sudden resistance in the acceptance of the catheter down your urethera. At that point, you should push down with your muscles as you would when you need to pee, and that pushing will open the sphincter, and you can slide it the rest of the way in. i've always used Foley catheters, which have inflatable balloons on the end, because in my experience, a well-lubricated rubber or silicone tube WILL slide back out of you as you move around. So, a small syringe is used to inject sterile water through a port on the catheter to expand the balloon on the inside of the sphincter, so it doesn't slip back out. It is important that if you do not buy a complete kit, but assemble component parts, that you check the size of the reservoir balloon. If it is a 5 cc balloon, you do not want to fill a 15 cc syringe with water and shove it all in there! i've always used slightly less water than the rated size of the catheter; for example, 8 cc will expand a 10 cc balloon large enough that it is not going to come back out. The fun part of wearing a catheter inside a diaper is that if you've done it correctly, you'll have ABSOLUTELY NO sensation of peeing. You will truly be helplessly wetting as soon as any pee reaches the bladder, which is more "baby-like" than the typical adult diaper wearer who holds it in and lets loose with a big stream in their diaper. Babies just wet constantly, which is what you'll be doing, and you'll find that disposable diapers hold MUCH more fluid when released in smaller, more regular quantities than if you flood your diapers. What you probably will feel is the change in warmth in your diaper whenever pee comes out, but not necessarily. i've worn catheters for as long as 36 hours several times, and ~48 hours once. During that time, i'm changing diapers and each day, i've taken a shower, using plenty of lathered up soap "down there" to keep the part that is hanging out as clean as possible. You should NOT mix catheter play with the release of an enema in your diaper, however, since that is an open tube that could allow fecal matter to migrate into your bladder. Remember that body fluids from one area do not belong in other areas, and can cause problems if they wind up somewhere else, where they will be treated as a foreign object, even though it came from your own body. If you want a good example of that, the next time you have a large cut on your body, try putting lots of your saliva around the wound. Saliva is not harmful to you when it is in your mouth, but in an open wound, you'll get an infection quicker than you can imagine. After it is time to bring your catheter play to an end, remember cleanliness in reverse, too. Latex gloves, careful handling and disposal of all of the items you've used is important. As a precaution against infection, many people who regularly play with catheters will routinely drink large quantities of cranberry juice to help ward off UTIs. The only other warning about catheters is that if you leave them in too long (for example, a few weeks... ) your sphincter muscle could become lazy and lethargic by being held open, resulting in some REAL incontinence after you remove the catheter. i've never personally experienced any true post-catheter loss of control after just a day or so, or heard of it happening, but it is always possible. Having said all of that, i happen to LOVE the knowledge that i am forcibly being made to wet and that my control has been removed from me. Although with hypnotic conditioning i've achieved some level of that helpless incontinence, a catheter is 100% effective and cannot be resisted, no matter what! Play smart and have fun!
  10. Botox, Well, buddy, here's one more area where we share a fetish! Like you, i've fantasized for years about going to get a colonic. i've also had a fetish for enemas for a long time, and thought this might be like the "ultimate" enema. So, recently, i took the plunge, and have had five sessions so far. Since you asked, i'll share some of my experiences with you. WARNING -- the following contains very specific and frank descriptions of the actual mechanics of a colonic. If such things do not interest you, or you get grossed out by things like enemas and injecting water into your rear end, please skip this post! First, i did research like you did, and concluded that an open form where i sit in a room by myself was probably not what i wanted. From what i read, a closed system is more like an enema in that instead of a continuous in/out flow like a douche, the closed colonic IS retained inside for a period of time. Plus, in my area, the closed ones are administered by someone else, and the places i looked at online had pictures of the female staff members to look at ahead of time and to allow you to select your "facilitator"... hee hee As to the hardware, i was very disappointed in the equipment used by the place i've been to here. Whether it is the universal type nozzle used, or just their selection here, it surprised me quite a bit that the metal nozzle, which is about 1" O.D., is a straight cylinder shape. It is the same diameter at the tip as the hose end, unlike most kinky nozzles, so there is nothing for your sphincter muscle to grab. i had expected a nozzle that flared out and then tapered in, or something with an inflatable retention collar/section on the end, but this is about 6" of smooth metal. Because of that, at some point during every session i've had, the contraction of my bowel muscles has just pushed it right out. i've asked the lady who has been treating me, and she said that it is fairly common for that to happen. Although i didn't want to sound like some expert on nozzles and kinky colon play, i asked why there wasn't a shape that would have less tendency to slide out. Her answer was that if you had a "problem" with a clog or sudden build-up of pressure, you'd want it to be able to be removed easily and quickly. In my case, i've had hour-long treatments, which consists of being filled, holding it and releasing it back through the fill tube approximately 12 - 15 times. The quantity of water in each "fill" is much less than you'd probably take in an enema, so there is no sensation of bloating, even though you can clearly tell you have a full bowel up to your intestine. Each cycle takes about 3 minutes, with a bit of a rest inbetween. My therapist massages my stomach/lower torso area during the cycle to help distribute the water and to dislodge the impacted fecal material as it is going through the soaking process. Needless to say, this is all very much on the "up and up" and just like a professional massage therapist (as opposed to a "massage parlor"), no touching of sexual areas occurs (unless, like me, you consider your anus to be a sexual area...LOL). At the clinic i've been going to, i'm only wearing a hospital-type gown and am draped with a sheet and light blanket as i lay on my back with my knees bent up in the air. The insertion is done while the patient lays on their left side, away from the therapist, who gets a good view of your bare rear end, but that's about all. Personally, i've done several because of the health benefits and NOT because of any sexual benefits. i've had professional dommes administer enemas to me that were quite sexual, but this was nothing like that. It might be different for you, though, and i hope that you enjoy it. At the place i go to, with the minimal amount of covering, i've wondered if they have male patients who get erections, and assume that it does happen. i also assume they would be quite professional about ignoring it, just as a nurse would in a doctor's office (all of those kinky erotic nurse/clinic/sexual stories online to the contrary...) who is about as likely to feel compelled to take matters into her own hands and seduce you as pigs are to fly. i'd love to hear from you after you go to get your comments and reactions. Oh, about the aftereffects -- i've generally had almost no discharge or leaking after leaving other than my very first one. That was the typical post-enema "i-think-this-is-just-gas-so-i'll-go-ahead-and-gently-allow-it-to-escape-oops-it-was-more-liquid" type of discharge, and i even tried to steer the conversation on my second visit when she asked how i felt after my last one. i embellished it a bit and said that i had leaked a fair amount in my pants and had almost wished she had diapered me before i left the clinic. i gave a chuckle so she wouldn't read too much into that, and had some wild notion that she might say, "oh, that is pretty common, so we are glad to wrap a large, thick disposable diaper around you before you leave if you'd like...", but naturally she didn't say that! Enjoy! Latexman
  11. Thank you so much for posting this!! In my opinion, that is one of the best-written, intelligent and clearly explained methods to becoming incontinent that i've ever read. It makes a great deal of sense and is not offering some pie-in-the-sky fantasy pill that you can take and instantly lose your bladder control. Instead, it offers a logical process that will retrain your body while it also retrains your mind to forget about potty-training. Yes, this program takes some time, but anything worthwhile doesn't come easily. You've been potty-trained for many many years and now you want to switch to wearing diapers; did you think that you'd "unlearn" that habit in ten minutes? Of course, i would also recommend supplementing this program with a heavy dose of SoCalAB's hypnosis recordings. i think that his excellent resources in the area of hypnosis and hypnotically-altered behavior are very worthwhile and if you are eager to lose your bladder control, the combination of SoCalAB's recordings along with the process outlined in this pdf document should insure success!! Best soggy wishes, Latexman
  12. Dr. J -- what a treat to find that you've already posted the next chapter!! This story just seems to grab me and keep me riveted on the topic of wondering what is going to happen next. Your writing style is very easy to read, and the sensual eroticism of this chapter seems to foretell some sexy escapades to come! Thanks for your great work and for sharing it with us! Latexman
  13. Goerge, This is an interesting, thought-provoking and controversial post that you've made. i will give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you ARE being honest about what you want to do and that you are NOT yanking our chain. If i may, i'd like to make few observations. According to your profile, you are 21 years old. You are obviously at a point in your life when you are starting to truly be able to experience some adult freedoms and the opportunities to indulge in your fetishes in a way that wasn't possible before reaching the age of majority. That can be a heady time for someone, and even at my advanced age of 52, i am finding myself in a situation that allows me to freely enjoy things that weren't regularly possible just a few months ago. However, one of the realities about "wanting" something is that the craving DOES get stronger the longer you do with out it, but also, it gets more sated and weakened if you have it all the time. If you would allow me a quote from a 1967 episode of the American TV show, "Star Trek": (spoken by Spock to explain his sudden loss of interest in being married) "After a time, you may find that having a thing is not so pleasant as wanting it. It is not logical, but it is often true." Now, i'm not suggesting or advocating that you should NOT pursue your desires and enjoy them as fully as is practical, but...what you are suggesting is a very major commitment to a current set of "feelings". You might read through some of the posts that have been made on this Forum in several threads, but specifically the ones dealing with induced incontinence, and find that those who had no choice in the matter, such as those with birth defects or who are victims of an injury or accident, repeatedly say that after experiencing first hand the need for diapers 24/7, 365 days of the year, and not JUST when they are feeling horny or want to play in their diapers, they would NEVER have purposely done that to themselves. Many of us have a variety of fetishes that would not be quite as appealing if they were a constant in our lives. i could choose to wear latex clothing all the time, but there would be some circumstances where i would not wish to wear latex. For a variety of reasons, i would opt for "regular" clothes at some events. Now, if that were like what you are proposing to have done, i'd NEVER have the choice to NOT wear latex. i would literally be forced to, regardless of the event or situation. Several others have made what i think is an excellent suggestion -- find a way to induce complete temporary incontinence first. Whether you decide on botox injections or a constantly-indwelling catheter, you could achieve the same results on a 24/7 basis without being permanently committed to it. If, after several months of ALWAYS having to wear diapers and carry spare ones with you and find places to change and deal with occasional leaks with wet spots on your clothes, you decide that you still love it and can't imagine going back to ever having control, then go for it. But, from personal experience, and from discussions with others, i suspect that, just like Mr. Spock discovered, once the uniqueness and initial eroticism starts to wane, "having" full-time incontinence may not be as pleasant as "wanting" it. If that turned out to be true, would you regret having made the choice you did? Regret and remorse can be worse than an infection from a catheter in terms of eating you up from the inside, and i'd hate to think that you'd possibly find yourself in that situation after a short time. Please give this some more thought, and please recognize that the warnings being posted here are not because we don't sympathize with the desire to feel helplessly compelled to wet our diapers, but rather, they are because we don't want you to make what could be a mistake that you'd have to live with for the rest of your life. All our best as you decide, Latexman
  14. Dr. J, This story is coming along quite nicely! Of course, we're all pulling for Jill and John to get back together, and the ending of this chapter puts a hopeful light on that possibility. Now, if it just turns out that she has become dominant, or has secretly learned hypnosis with the intention of making his babying a bit more permanent than just for the weekend... LOL Seriously, this is great, and i appreciate all of your hard work! Please keep tapping into your inner writing muse and keep these wonderful stories coming! Best soggy wishes, Latexman
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