I've been in a wheelchair since my burns in April 1990. For the first 5 years I had bowel issues and was only made to wear diapers during my time in hospital and once at camp when I was 14. I was in foster care starting at 13 and logiclly I should have been diapered but with other kids around I wasn't about to ask or force it.
Fast forward to about 5 or so years ago when they upped my morning diuretic a friend of mine who is a nurse mentioned a "tube' or catheter. I was like HELL NO. First of all, I hated using those things after surgeries. Just hated it. Secondly I have sensation down there, you can stick that tube somewhere else-the trash. She asked so are you just gonna piss yourself? It hasn't been an issue, just increased urination for a few hours during day.