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I want you all to know that I am not a diaper hater, but it is a little hard to love them sometimes. I love them alot better than wet pants but today at work (i work at subway) the top part of my abena was showing and customers were shameless staring me, and coworkers to. To make matters worse I am the manager here I don't want little punks disrespecting me because of my underwear you know. Any way that sucks but like most of you, when I am alone, or in public places and no one knows about my diapers, I like them a lot more than the alternative. My point is that the stupid stigma of them really sucks.any thoughts?

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Had that happen with a neighbor he asked what is the white stuff sticking out of your pants. I played dumb and didn't answer and pulled shirt down. I was wearing a shorter shirt that day. It's embarrassing when that happens.

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First, let it blow over. In a few days you will have forgotten who that customer even was. Your employees will also stop thinking about your diapers in general too. If not, just remind them that being disrespectful to your boss is grounds enough to get someone fired. If it does continue then let them know they are making your life harder than it already is, AND that you can make their lives harder too.

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You can't undo what has been done, but don't let the incident interfere with your job- maintain a positive, confidenrt, and strong management style and if something is said a simple "So what?" or "and your point is?" response will set them back in their place :P Discretion should be a part of your coping strategy even if only to minimize possible glitches like this. One need not be ashamed of dealing any medical problem though some of the less 'mature' people haven't had enough experience in life to understand that :(

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Besides the above advice this is what I do sometimes;

wear boxer shorts and pull them up a couple inches above your pants and the diaper. Your midriff may show occasionally but seeing boxer top is totally not memorable to most people.

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Rusty Pins brought up uniforms I forgot that you may not be able to get a longer shirt. If that's the case you can wear a longer t-shirt underneath and tuck it into your pants. That should take care of the problem.

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Not sure about subway, but many companies have a "buy up" option to get a better made shirt that also has the longer length. Most people don't get them though since it costs you more money.

If not, you should talk to the manager and see about getting that option implemented. Oh wait...

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You guys are really helpful and nice, that is refreshing. I'm the head manager here and unfortunately there is no office. But I do have a regional manager who could conduct a sensitivity training for me.

One of the two employees that were with me is either feigning ignorance or is too nice to say anything or didn't see it. And the other one saw it for sure, but has been relatively quiet about it. At the time I started the post I was afraid of the disrespect. But it hasn't been that much of a problem.

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I want you all to know that I am not a diaper hater, but it is a little hard to love them sometimes. I love them alot better than wet pants but today at work (i work at subway) the top part of my abena was showing and customers were shameless staring me, and coworkers to. To make matters worse I am the manager here I don't want little punks disrespecting me because of my underwear you know. Any way that sucks but like most of you, when I am alone, or in public places and no one knows about my diapers, I like them a lot more than the alternative. My point is that the stupid stigma of them really sucks.any thoughts?

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  • 3 weeks later...

I wear nappies all the time now and to be honest I don't think anyone either notices or really cares. My wife says you cannot see when I'm wearing one but I always feel you could. I was out in the public eye all day yesterday and wore and used my nappy all day without any problems.

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