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  1. This partic. point has fascinated me for quite some time. Yes it seems irrational, contradictatory and all the other descriptive words used. I've realized very gradually that we all have a kind of "dual-personality", one we use to deal with the hum-drum everyday world, and another more primitive one where we 'enjoy ourselves'. At first I thought this dual-aspect was confined to fetish people, then on further reflection I realized it also applies to more conventional people, but in a different way. The final realization was that one's very core of personality, the person you THINK you are, your "ego" if you like, can actually transfer from one mode to the other, but at different times. A "switching" between modes if you like. So your 'primitive-personality' can be as a woman when you are physically a man ("I'm a woman trapped in a man's body"), or a baby/infant ("I want to wear a nappydiaper and wet myself") or -- "I want to be under someone else's control completely", when actually I am a senior manager and I tell other people what to do all day. Reactions welcome. Daddy Fred.
  2. Toddler Junior didn't come across like that to me at all. The underlying feeling seemed to be "I'm fed up with being alone". Not exactly unusual with this fetish, wouldn't you say? Daddy Fred.
  3. I really liked the posting by XyXy, it would seem he has introspected for some time to come to workable conclusions about sexuality,sex drive and choice of sexual object; it does seem to be a triumph of commonsense. For a long time I've been convinced that "sex" (meaning the activity not the gender) is Mother Nature's little trick to ensure the continuation of the species. (Ever noticed how your own thinking processes can get so distorted and biassed during arousal)? And XyXy analyses out the resulting consequences pretty well I reckon. Consequences that seem to be dominated by trouble. That one about female mentality also I have noticed, this instability I've put down to perhaps an excess of female hormones. And speaking of hormones, there are many, not just testosterone and oestrogen. E.g. andosterone also plays a part in sexuality. Opinion has it that testosterone also plays a big part in female sexuality. I still think for most people (not just the limited area of the fetishes as is the case here), the male hormone testosterone plays a major part in the sex-drive, the choice of sexual object being determined by personality factors pre-acquired usually during infancy and later. Hence the fetishes various, the one here of course being infantilism -- indicating the direct link to object choice. We need to be careful in NOT allowing our own biasses and distortions to affect our judgement of the situation in the general population. Daddy Fred.
  4. "And it seems the only people who want to talk bout stuff like this are guys". Isn't that exactly what you are? Did you not see the irony in what you put? Daddy Fred.
  5. Good old-fashioned bleach if they get whiffy or stained. Don't need to use it every time. Neat bleach on a stain, and watch it disappear. Then into the washer with it. Simples says the meerkat. Daddy Fred.
  6. With all those conditions, you'll be lucky! Not really the way to acquire a soul-mate. It's all about adaptability, compromizing, accommodating. Nonetheless, hope you get who you're looking for... Daddy Fred.
  7. It probably comes down to how much experience has the Daddy you have in mind? He will have lots most likely if he's an older Daddy. This might explain posters saying "no one under 40" or similar when advertizing for a Daddy. I'd say right from the off, tell your new Daddy everything -- that's something Daddies appreciate, partic. the kind you seek. Daddy Fred, Leeds UK.
  8. Hi Armybloke, as you're out of the army, you need to go to a civvy doc. PDQ., and let him/her examine you fully, and you must tell all, no holding back. He/she will be able to tell you if there is something physically not right with your waterworks. So it's EITHER everything there is ok, OR it isn't. If it IS ok, then it's something psychological, no alternative. Come back to me then. Daddy Fred.
  9. Kazakazi, the feelings you describe after orgasm are those that any and every male feels after the 'deed is done'. It's completely physical and shows up how sexual feeling ARE physical and really the result of hormones -- not implying that the psychological part (in the choice of target for your sexuality) is not important -- it is. Conventional girls don't feel the same at all after orgasm, which is less important for them anyway. A girl wants to hang around the man that's made her cumm, cuddle up close etc. "Closeness" is valuable to her, all the time. T/gurls react same as regular males. This probably explains why many t/gurls don't like to cumm during sexual activity. If s(h)e DOES cumm, the whole scenario collapses, giving him the conventional urge to "disappear into the night". It's over. My use of "t/gurl" implies no disrespect. There will exceptions to every rule to do with human sexuality, but the above is broadly true. Daddy Fred.
  10. Interesting discussion on infant psychology Jen, and it hangs together quite nicely. If an infant wants attention, it suggests to me that he/she is not getting the attention that he/she FEELS is needed. That infant may be getting the "usual" amount of attention like other children in that family had, but for some reason extra attention is needed. Very often, children not getting the attention felt to be deserved will be "naughty" in order to get that attention quickly, even if punishment is involved. (There's that old punishment thing again). And one way to be naughty is to wet and mess him/herself. There is one thing that seems to evade explanation -- and that is "how does sex get roped in here". How does sexual objective get mixed up in all this infantile behavior? And from my researches and direct experience, there is ALWAYS a strong sexual element in all the fetishes. I will read with astronomical interest any explanation of this sexual entanglement. Daddy Fred.
  11. Anal incontinence? Something a fetishist would like to bounce around in his/her own mind, can be very pleasurable whilst under the strong influence of hormones (I'm talking sex hormones here). But for everyday? On a grey and rainy Monday morning? Leave it out! That's not how it works. Daddy Fred.
  12. Well, I've wondered about this one -- why we like to mess ourselves. The feeling is very erotic and sexual, both genders seem to like it. It seems to be very much a "feeling" thing, we like the feeling of full pants, undies, nappydiapers. And there is a huge concentration of nerve-endings around your bum area, especially close to the hole itself. That's only matched in willie. lips, and fingers. A lot of people here think it's to do with something about when you were a baby, and first impressions being lasting impressions. When you're only one or two, life must be all about feeding, peeing, pooping and sleeping; maybe a bit of playing and experimenting too. I think that's all it is really, because that inner child-we-were is still there and wants expression of some sort. And this is the sort. Messing yourself, enjoying the feeling. Daddy Fred. p.s. Oh, and getting your own back for all that inconvenient potty-training when all you wanted to do was mess yourself and carry on playing.
  13. Many times I've answered this type of question, "why am I gay" "why do I have to wear women's clothes when I'm a man" "why do I like to mess myself/wear a nappydiaper etc. etc. etc". I just stopped bothering about it. No-one really wants to know. No-one is really interested in the roots of his/her fetish/orientation. People don't want to think, they want FUN! Some people are too scared to learn the truth about themselves -- it would be too disturbing for them. Others see their fetish as unimportant, a nuisance even, not to be treated seriously. Daddy Fred.
  14. There is a state of mind halfway between waking and sleeping -- don't they call it "lucid dreaming"? But yours sounds more like an hypnotic trance. Well, if you had fun, where's the harm? Daddy Fred
  15. If you're that kind of person, messing yourself feels just lovely, especially when you sit in it. Doesn't have to be in a nappy/diaper, feels just as good in pants/panties. Daddy Fred.
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