Ya I'm going to play it off for when she gets back and I'm sure I'll know when the time is right for it. I don't see her going back to civilian life more like garrison life. Gnarley, I'm sorry to hear about what happend with you, but you do have some really useful insight and experience that I do appreciate you passing on. Does anyone have a clever method of hinting at it? we both talk to each other with just about anything. I was thinking of just telling her something along the lines of "hey want to experiment in bed and try something kinky?" and sort of spin it off as something fun adventuress we could both do. Hell I might even learn that she has some kind of fetish of her own or find something new that we both like. I'm just going go with the flow I suppose. again thanks for the support everyone.