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  1. Well ... the argument of using which bathroom coming up when this is a diaper forum is a bit ironic, but I still support Munchkin and think it's awesome the progress that has been made at her school.
  2. I don't understand your point. So by your reasoning, we should get rid of all of the following special accommodations as well for handicapped people BECAUSE THEY GET SPECIAL PRIVILEGES: handicap parking spaces, ramps, special doors that open automatically at the push of a button on the wall, SPECIALIZED HANDICAPPED STALLS, parking permits, etc that are all mandated by law at the expense, i might add, of everyone's money in public facilities/government offices, etc. We should do away with special payments to veterans disabled in the line of duty, we should get rid of anything that anyone receives based on a special circumstance so that we are all treated equally without respect to anything whatsoever. By your reasoning, these people should hand their special permits back to the state, tell the federal government they don't want their assistance to help them function just a little easier in a society made for the non-handicapped and disabled veterans should turn down any additional disability, etc they receive from the government just so they can "be like everyone else." Pull your head outta your ass man. Being TG is not a handicap, but it does hold its own set of complications. A non-gender bathroom is just that, call it unisex, call it what you need. How is it adding anything at additional cost more-so than if they would have called it a "Family Restroom" except for the fact that it's on an educational campus so they called it something different.
  3. Well ... I guess I don't really have a good answer for this one. I remember back to high school I had no interest whatsoever in sex with anyone ... guy or gal. I remember my first encounter was when I was a junior and found my way into a m4m channel on IRC that was connected to my local area (this was in the early 90s). Sure, it was just a BJ, but it was my first encounter with a guy. At that time, I viewed it as an experience I enjoyed, but more of a chance to get a need fulfilled. I tried to be "normal" at that time and a couple years later, I ended up dating a couple of girls and enjoyed the company, but found sex with a woman to be rather disgusting (I couldn't stand their smell, even when clean) and too much of a chore (it wasn't enjoyable). It was at this point that things kinda turned on in my head who I am... at least until I let my friends, family, and church convince me it was a "phase" and that I wanted to be/should be with a woman. This is where I made the biggest ... I won't say mistake, but misguided decision ... of my life. I met a woman whom I did love emotionally, but not sexually and spent 8 years with her and did what I had to do to meet her needs, even if it wasn't enjoyable to me because of the companionship. No, I didn't cheat on her once to meet my needs because I was brought up to be faithful, no matter what the consequence. I finally came to terms with who I am after we separated and have thoroughly enjoyed being able to be myself freely. Now that I've told you more than what really matters, my point is that you have to do what feels right for you and makes you happy. If that means experimenting to find out what works for you, do it safely. Think about it thoroughly. If you truly feel this is the case, then maybe it is just a way for you to satisfy your needs and urges. I'm of the mindset that while there is the sexual component to hetero- and homo- sexuality, you also have to be sure that whatever happens, once you get into a relationship with someone, that it satisfies all your needs, sexually, physically, and emotionally. Don't make any decisions based on what will please your family or friends, do what is right for you. Maybe you're bi, maybe you're gay, maybe your curious. Who cares? Do what you have to do to answer that question for yourself. Just don't lead someone on to believe it could become a relationship if you are just trying to meet a sexual need. That will do more harm than good, for both sides, believe me.
  4. I guess I wouldn't necessarily fit into the true category of asexual as I don't mind sex, but I find that I don't need it to survive. I'm more than happy just being with another guy and sharing the intimacy and company moreso than HAVING to have sex to make a relationship work. I don't view intimacy as sex, but to actually be so much more than that and view sex as more of a category of it's own. Unfortunately, I find it difficult to find another guy that is happy without having sex like a jackrabbit and can accept my desire to be diapered.
  5. You're not the only single guy that is looking, but I am not hetero either, so I can't really say I know what that is like. I tried to be "straight" for the longest time and I finally came to terms with myself and realized what I really felt about myself. I agree with Baby Sophie that you are still young and discovering your sexual identity. Maybe it's not so much of a "widening" of your dating pool as much as it is you possibly discovering what you really enjoy.
  6. D_Drew, It sickens me that people think everyone should conform to what society's norms are and not respect that everyone is different and has their own differences. I think you may have missed the point when it was stated they are getting Gender Neutral restroom facilities. Gender neutral means exactly that. For some, it is difficult to grasp, but gender is not only Male/Female. Some people do not feel they fit into the male/female genders that society deems as standard, they view themselves as gender-neutral, non-binary, or another view and don't feel they fit into either category of the generally accepted of society's "standard" genders/sexes. I know this is a very general explanation of it and does not do it justice, but I hope you get the idea and can understand that people shouldn't have to bend to your will to feel proper about themselves. For those who are in transition, it is also great because if they have anxiety about their situation, it gives them an option to avoid the awkward situation of using a single-gender restroom as well as keeping them from being outed inadvertently and creating a hostile situation (as we know there are many a-holes in this world). The fact that the school is taking such a step in recognizing these types of issues is stunning and a huge step forward. As someone else said, if you can't be constructive, you shouldn't even have came into this forum to bash what someone has put out. I think this is along the same type of idea as a Family Restroom that has begun to become standard at many shopping venues. These are great for families with young children so they don't have to take them into an opposite gender restroom as well as giving them privacy for diaper changes, etc. For those in the incontinent world who want privacy to change when out of the house, it gives them what they need to function without fear of being discovered or embarrassed about their condition. I'm beginning to ramble and go on pointlessly so I'll end, but congratulations MunchKitten. That is great news!
  7. Sarah, I apologize. My intent was not to hi-jack your thread, the ignorance that comes with the stated ideals really gets under my skin sometimes and I had a trigger finger =) I am rejoicing as well because it's another battle won and a great step forward. I never would have expected it in Iowa, of all places. I grew up in Nebraska, so I know how stuck in their ways the general ideas are in that region.
  8. I respect your opinion Redneck, but how about those of us who are gay. Try replacing everything in your response where you refer to "gay" or "alternate lifestyle" to mean "straight." Why should we have to live our entire lives hiding our love and passion for someone just to prevent making someone uncomfortable. How uncomfortable do you think it makes us feel having to stand there watching two "straight" people freely able to express their love for each other with nobody complaining about it. There are two sides to every issue, I urge people to take an objective view. Just think ... maybe we should try to push for laws banning "straight" marriage too.
  9. I'm not in the city, but i live up near albany
  10. From another Gay DL to another, welcome! =) ----- Edit: Guess i should update my location. heh Moving to Upstate NY this week! wooohooo!
  11. It is my guess that these questions are control questions used to validate further responses.
  12. OK ... I realized I went and followed the off-topic discussion as well. Back on topic in relation to the OP, I agree. We definitely need to speak up to defend ourselves when intolerance is evident. If we don't have the guts to do this, people will continue to walk on us. To put it into perspective, when you were a kid in school and people start bullying you around and they see they can get away with it, they will continue to do this because they know you won't do anything about it. Most bullys are just that and if someone were to have the guts to stand up to them, they'd back down. (or at least that's the way it was many years ago when I was in school, hell, they probably just pull out a gun now). Anyway, yes, I think we need to have the courage to stand up for our own group when it comes into negative view in a situation. I'm learning to actually have the guts to do this as I become more comfortable with my own sexuality (I was kindly shoved back into the closet almost 12 years ago and the door slammed in my face and more or less told I was just going through an experimental phase. I was 19/20, I think I knew what I wanted. In the effort to make my family happy, I lied to myself and lived a "straight" life as long as I could before it caused turmoil in my relationship). Hopefully the more people that can show the courage needed, the more will see that it's OK to defend ourselves as a group. I hope this came off right. I have a habit of reading too much into a post sometimes and then rambling on. lol God Bless!
  13. I'm curious as a whole though why everyone insists that being GLBT is leading a sinful life? I am a Christian, I struggled with the idea that I was going to hell after I came to terms with who I am after a failed marriage and getting back to the feelings I had been having for over 10+ years. It wasn't until I did a lot of study and research that I came to terms with myself and who I was and got back in touch with my spirituality and found that I was going to be ok. The idea of homosexuality being a sin is something that human beings interjected into the biblical scripture. The original texts didn't reference this in any way, shape or form. Biblical scholars have gone back and looked this over greatly. So many people are led to believe we are living in sin because of the way GOD MADE US! We are all created in God's image, is that not what he said? If this is the case, then why would he make us this way, then condemn us to hell? Sure, everyone recites the same handful of scriptures ... before firing off those scriptures, they should look at the context not just what they say. If someone chooses a lifestyle of lust, that is sinful. When it's a lifestyle of love, we can't help who we love. If we participate in acts of love with another, that is not out of lust, that is not a sinful relationship. People also recite the old-testament laws ... Let me ask you this ... how can you choose to enforce one law, but not enforce them all as a whole? These old testament laws were meant to be followed as a whole, not picked and chosen. Look into some of the others ... one that comes to mind is that "if it is discovered that a bride is not a virgin, the Bible demands that she be executed by stoning immediately." Why do people turn their heads from this one if they feel they must enforce a different one? Again, it comes down to being taken out of context! Here are a couple links to very informative and thorough documents I used to help me get a better insight into this when I was struggling. Sure, most people will damn and condemn this information as blasphemy. Why? If you ask me, it's because they are afraid, and they don't want to open their mind to new and unconstrued teachings. http://www.soulforce.org/pdf/whatthebiblesays.pdf http://truthsetsfree.net/study.pdf
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