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I would urge you both to consider adoption, there are so many beautiful and loving children just waiting for a chance to bring happiness and love into your lives. I know you are thinking of doing the right thing, but I would caution you not to go with any option until you both have weighed all others. Best of luck to you both. I went through a similar situation in my first marriage.

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I think ab role play with your wife would be fun for you but very hurtful to her.Like suggested above,adoption is a good option.With so many children in foster homes,group homes ,etc that need loving parents to love and nurture them it's a win win for you and the child. Side note I was adopted and thank God that I was . I had a great childhood had great opportunity that I wouldn't have had and a great family that loved me. Who knows what would have happened had I not been. I was to young to have ever known my birth parents.But my true parents the ones I call mom n dad are my adoptive parents that's my true family.I wish you n your wife all the best of luck.

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Depends on the person. When i had my baby, i didnt worry that i might not have kids of my own and i was happy. I would get sad but cuddling my monk healed that. But whatever works for u both i wish u the best. :)

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Sorry to hear about your situation but I have to say no as well. A baby and an adult baby are completely different things. Yes it might distract her but it's not the same thing at all. If, deep down, she wants a baby, then an adult version isn't going to be a substitute I'm afraid. I apologise if it sounds harsh but that's how I feel about it.

I sincerely wish you all the best in sorting things out.

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These are two different things. While she may gain some satisfaction with you, the other must be fulfilled on it's own. There is no shame in not being able to have kids, there are a lot of couples like this but with women this is a deep innate desire which usually must be addressed somehow. I'm sure you're aware of all the alternative approaches ;) Before giving up on doing this yourselves, be absolutely certain that the medical end of this has been exhausted; there are relatively new ideas and possibilities occurring with this and more hope than ever before :thumbsup:

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I go with what Repaid says, look at adoption. Years ago my sister had to give a child up for adoption for various reasons and it was the best thing she could have done. My other sister works in placing foster children and there are many children that need a good home. Something to look at and think about.

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Have you discussed this with your wife at all? Maybe she would be open to it as a stop-gap, but adoption may be a more viable alternative as stated above. Communicate with her you desires and feelings toward you being the stop-gap and see if she's open to that option? The other alternatives is to find another avenue to satisfy her craving for a lil-one, maybe a daycare worker or babysitter for the smaller variety?

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