They are great. Honestly my initial problem was when I saw that ab episode of tlc "my strange addiction"... it's like the second I heard him say he liked wearing diapers I thought of him dressed up like a child, walking around and acting as a kid (which I have nothing against, I'm just not into that relationship wise.) But after he told me more I realized it wasn't as terrible as I suspected, and honestly after joining this site and doing research, I find that tv shows like that really blow this whole thing out of proportion.