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By Little Sherri · Posted
Congrats, @oznl! Some days, I don't know whether to thank you, or curse your name, but either way, I wouldn't be where I am today, if I hadn't started reading your story. You are proof that an intelligent person can arrive at an illogical solution to a preposterous problem, and somehow, end up as a mentor. This really spoke to me, and I think it gets to the heart of something I have danced around a bit on my thread... the political capital we're expending. Neither of us live in a van down by the river, yet anyway, so I guess that gets chalked up in the win column, but it's more of an armistice than a treaty. I may be a bit more circumspect about it, because of the reality in my marriage that there are aspects of her that I at least strongly disfavour, if not outright hate, but I have to live with them and work around them, because they are areas that she's not seeking growth in. Some of them are well calcified. I have to take the good with the bad. I know there are people here who would say "I would never settle, you're not being true to yourself, you only get one life...", but the things I am talking about can take a long time to become apparent. And in the meantime, we built a life together, intertwined finances, and made people. Those things can be undone, of course (with the exception of the people we made, well, not legally, anyway) - armies of people do that for a living - but I know a lot of people, including a lot of divorced people, and the grass over there isn't necessarily greener. There's one guy I knew who blew out a battleax of a woman who entrapped him while he was a virginal nerd, but in medical school, who now has a penchant for running marathons, and a Porsche, and his second wife is awesome - she knows what she's got and so does he. But I know a bunch of other people who are either divorced, or their spouses have died, and they've determined that middle-aged people on the dating scene, like unemployed people, are often there for a reason, and the good ones aren't unaffiliated for very long. So would it be better for me to strike out for greener pastures? While towing a trailer full of diapers behind me? I'd probably end up being extorted by a Russian dominatrix who's actually a man. The corollary to that being, I bring some attributes to the table - income stability, an ability to function as the family cruise director, socially, a really, really long fuse, interpersonally, and, I can fix stuff. Could she do better? Maybe. But I'd bet it would take more than a few rolls of the dice. SO, I'm me, and I do some things really well, some other things okay, some things not well at all, and, I have unfathomable underpants preferences, to someone from Planet Vanilla. I guess she can hit the reset button anytime she wants to, but so far, she hasn't. However, for a couple blissfully in thrall to each other, as we were all told it was supposed to work, I could see macerating in pee-soaked nappies 24/7 as being like spilling a slutty vat of Pinot Noir in the middle of a soft white white goose down duvet. Whereas for me, it's more like spilling a slutty vat of Pinot Noir in the middle of a patchy lawn. -
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By littlebopeeper · Posted
Like thedman, I have a problem with this. As I write, Mike has received only $111 of his monthly $400 request. A contribution on your part would be a thoughtful gesture. -
Diapers and sex!! Plus making a Diaper Sex Diaper We talk everything diapers, sex and how we like to combine the two! Plus we cut a hole in diaper for a DSD - Diaper Sex Diaper. -
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