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I think I'm Gay or At Least Bi


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Try talking to another LGB people near you. As Elfking said wisely, only you can know. Don't try and rush things. They will work out in time. If your parents don't accept you then that's their problem not yours. My PM is always open if you want help with stuff like this. It took me about a year to figure out my sexual orientation.

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No, it's not bad for you. You should know though, that 99% of the time, gay porn doesn't actually have gay guys or girls in it. They hire two straight people to do it. Not every gay couple does the same things as another gay couple.

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Watching porn is a waste of time when you can be doing it instead :P Online porn is where lots of malware resides. If there's any tracks left behind there, someone can discover them. If you're doing that under your parents roof knowing they disapprove that's bad karma too :( Whatever good you can glean from it has been acquired already. You've opened your mind to a wider range of possibilities and you're in a place where the masses are congregated along with a full range of their diversity. Take advantage of that. Get to know those diverse people and see what happens from there. You'll not need to be told what you like and what you don't B)

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Question: how are switches viewed in the gay community?

Cause I think I could be either a top or a bottom depending on the scenario. I just don't want to appear as being kind of a slut.

As for the porn issue hehe...I always thought porn in general was kind of bad isn't it? Just whacking off to two people doing it (gay or straight btw lol.) Isn't it better to be spending time with someone that actually cares about you?

I can't say much about being a switch, though I would think that hardly matters. And no, porn is not inherently bad. Not everyone wants to be with someone else and that's just fine.

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As for the porn issue hehe...I always thought porn in general was kind of bad isn't it? Just whacking off to two people doing it (gay or straight btw lol.) Isn't it better to be spending time with someone that actually cares about you?

Where did you get the idea that porn in general was bad, especially in small doses?

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To the original question I was like you wrapped up in the diaper thing and didn't realise or actually pay attention to my sexuality. It was much later in life I realised that my feelings were totally homosexual. Don't waste your life like I did it's much easier being gay now than it was in my youth!

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I did not realize I was bi-sexual until I was in my 20's! Heck I did not even acknowledge I was a diaper lover until my 30's. So, being young and curious or unsure is normal. I suggest trying to find a male friend, and see where it goes. Male relationships are great, but different. Worth trying out. And what can make for a better rounded, and more fun life then enjoying what both sexes have to offer? Sorry about the religious mumbo jumbo, but Porn wont cause you to go blind and gay partners wont cause you to go to hell.

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Hey everybody I know I've been gone from the forums a lot recently and there is a reason for that. I've been doing some soul-searching and realized perhaps why I have been very angsty and frustrated the past few years.

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it took me a long time to admit I was bi but I knew when I was like 10 that I liked both men and woman I am married to a woman she is amazing been with her for 17 years I only told her about my abdl and gay side 2 years ago and guss what she don't care it didn't hurt eather one of us she told me to go out and try sex with a guy so with her pimisson I did give a guy Orel it was amazing I love doing it and the diapers she went out a got me some so yes I csn frrl for you its hard sometimes

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Well i always considered myself to be straight. However after acting on curiosities i find i always am seeking a man to use me as i do have sissy and cd tendencies. Sad thing is simply that i am not accepted here where i live so i usually am home taking care of myself which sadly isnt the same. And even after a few experiences i still have never had the elusive hands free orgasm. Want to still but like i said the city i live in is well not very welcoming. In that when trying to hook up and being new and nervous so you decide to not go and you let them know even they "blacklist" you so to speak. Really figured that everyone would be a bit more understanding and accepting in this group of people. Seems here at least in this city that simply is not the case. I no longer care to figure out if i am gay now or bi as it really doesnt matter for any of us as we are all human. 

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