Abu's Freaked Out My Wife

[nhdl]

I like the ABU diapers with the one tape. They fit me well and are comfortable. I have obviously ordered them before. My wife never saw them before. Yes she knows I wear diapers and I like to wear diapers. She doesn't like the idea but deals with it. Well, I decided to order a pack of ABU Cushies. She walked in while I was putting one on and at first chuckled and then told me every shape that was on my diaper. I shrugged it off as no big deal. She then had a look like she was freaked out about the designs on my diaper. When I put it in the trash this am, she stared at the rolled up cushies in my hand as I tosses it in the trash can with the same freaked out look. I have been wearing diapers nearly 24/7 for about 3 years so me in diapers is no big secret. However, I usially wear bambino biancos or dry 24/7 or a diaper with no prints such as tje ABU diapers. I guess no more ABU diapers for this guy My wife said that the cushies were strange which is what she said when I told her I like diapers and think they are comfortable. I will never understand why if something is different or nor "normal" people get freaked out. Maybe my wife was just caught off guard not being used to seeing baby pront diapers on me. She knows nothing about ab/dl that I know of and I would only discuss it if she brought it up. Sorry for the long post. I needed to vent.

[Bettypooh]

There seems to be a communications problem (insert staticy sound here) She may have been OK with her adult mate in adult diapers but when you sprung these on her she obviously wasn't ready to see you looking unlike an adult Were I you, I;d be getting the discussion going to find out what she feels and what you will need to do to keep the home life a happy one With someone who knows you as well as your partner, you are not going to be able to hide any feelings you have for babyish stuff forever- at some point it will become known. So open the communications, tune in and listen carefully, get through the static, and discuss this ASAP before she confides in a divorce lawyer instead of you

[Zuesbaby]

My wife had the same problem, I dont know what to tell you another better communcation.

[drynot]

I told my wife a long time ago that I will wear whatever works.

[d_drew12]

Turn this around. Lets say your wife likes to wear screen print shirts around the house. Your like, whatever, great, who cares, I'm fine with it. Then one day she wears a screen print shirt with little kids on it or baby prints (we're under the assumption you're not into ab/dl). Or say its cats or has offensive language or whatever. Maybe starts wearing rock band shirts, idk. Anyway, something is different, it's changed, maybe you don't care at first but then, maybe you start thinking about it and you don't understand, why, why the change. What does this mean?

Put yourself in her shoes. See it from her side. She is probably wondering, my god does he like kids, babies, is this the turning point, I'm nervous, I don't want this. Etc.

Talk to her about it, you're doing yourself a favor!!

[nhdl]

Thanks for the advice. I think I'll just stick to wearing the diapers I have been wearing. The reason I tried the cushies was for my own curiosity and to see her reaction. I got her reaction. So now I know to not buy them.

[nhdl]

Turn this around. Lets say your wife likes to wear screen print shirts around the house. Your like, whatever, great, who cares, I'm fine with it. Then one day she wears a screen print shirt with little kids on it or baby prints (we're under the assumption you're not into ab/dl). Or say its cats or has offensive language or whatever. Maybe starts wearing rock band shirts, idk. Anyway, something is different, it's changed, maybe you don't care at first but then, maybe you start thinking about it and you don't understand, why, why the change. What does this mean? Put yourself in her shoes. See it from her side. She is probably wondering, my god does he like kids, babies, is this the turning point, I'm nervous, I don't want this. Etc. Talk to her about it, you're doing yourself a favor!!

She can wear whatever she wants. I prob wouldn't notice anyway. You got some valid points. Thanks.

[nhdl]

There seems to be a communications problem (insert staticy sound here) She may have been OK with her adult mate in adult diapers but when you sprung these on her she obviously wasn't ready to see you looking unlike an adult Were I you, I;d be getting the discussion going to find out what she feels and what you will need to do to keep the home life a happy one With someone who knows you as well as your partner, you are not going to be able to hide any feelings you have for babyish stuff forever- at some point it will become known. So open the communications, tune in and listen carefully, get through the static, and discuss this ASAP before she confides in a divorce lawyer instead of you

[Nat]

You can still wear the ABU ones but just don't let her see them on you. Problem solved. Also when you dispose them, put them in a plastic bag and throw out.

[nhdl]

You can still wear the ABU ones but just don't let her see them on you. Problem solved. Also when you dispose them, put them in a plastic bag and throw out.

[Sarah_Hillcrest]

Sounds like you have about the same relationship I do.

[rosalie.bent]

I think we need to remember from time to time that there is close to zero understanding of the regressive adult baby out there in adult-land.

[nhdl]

I think we need to remember from time to time that there is close to zero understanding of the regressive adult baby out there in adult-land.