Ab/dl That Dont Wet Or Mess In Diapers

[Guest]

I'm interested to know if any AB/DL's don't wet or mess their diapers at all

[Slim]

I don't do any of that

[DiaperKangaroo]

Yep. I'm one of those. I'll wet like, super rarely. But for the most part, I don't wet or mess.

[Dill_Pickle]

I have certainly discarded a few disposables after 24 or so hours with only sweat in them. I frequently wet and very occasionalyy poop, as I don't like the cleanup.

[rosalie.bent]

despite the few people here, our survey indicates almost everyone wets them and some also mess. DLs tend to eroticise their diaper only when it is being used (wet or soiled). Fully non-sexual ABs can sometimes not use their diaper for a period as they are not specifically fixated on the diaper, but they are not that common.

[Snugglebear]

I would fall into the category of those who never mess and very rarely wet. Wetting is pretty much only done within the context of a D/s scene with my wife. Speaking only for myself, the point of wearing but not using is related to the power dynamic between my wife and I. It establishes a different relationship which enhances sexual activity. Remember some things like decaf coffee, non-alcohol beer or clean diapers still have validity and positive merits of their own accord

[DavidMW]

When I wear Depends, it's usually just becuase I want the comfort of having a little extra diaper padding. Generally no intent to wet them as they're not for heavy wetting. I'll wet Abenas every time, though - Abenas are too expensive to not take full advantage of them.

[BabyJune]

Most of the time I wear cloth diapers and waterproof pants to bed for the comfort (and arousal) aspect of the garments. Only when I'm alone for any length of time do I get the chance to "use" the diaper--usually on the weekends. Generally, though, I wear simply for the comfort and to see how it would feel to be a baby, imagining what it must have been like when I was one. (Wearing a Onesie over the diaper/pants helps the effect, too).

[2sail2]

I think in the early days I did not wet as much as I do now. I still kind of don't like being wet, but mostly it's out of needing to use the bathroom. I rarely wet after I've taken a shower in the morning.

[blu4]

I never used to wet but due to the power/control dynamic between myself and my husband we have decided that I should use them for wetting but not messing. I have been wearing 24/7 for over twelve months anyway but chose not to use them but now I don't have the privelige of choice....so be it!

[LuchaBoyD2]

I dont,honestly it's a fear because the whole process took me almost 13 years to get down due to my disability,i just simulate with water but thats it...and strangely enough it works for me

[iluv2crinkle]

I get 100 % absolute pleasure from wearing a super thick snug diaper, once I'm in my diapers for the day I never wet or mess, I layer my diapers to get a nice padded snug waddle crinkle that is super thick,at the end of the day only the inner diaper needs changed and only from sweat, my thick diapers tightly cup my balls and butt and I waddle in pleasure as the bulky padding rubs my legs and I crinkle.sometimes people make comments about my obvious diaper and that's exciting,I've never considered giving up diapers simply because I was noticed 

[Little Sherri]

What a blast from the past - congratulations on exhuming this relic, @iluv2crinkle! 

I've been 24/7 for almost exactly 7 years now. I generally don't use my diapers for #2, but they see heavy fire in the #1 department. Back in the day before I was "out" to my family, I used to buy ABDL diapers in person, in cash, back when Rearz had a storefront, and I would tend to preserve those for a bit, and wear them largely unscathed, because I had a very limited supply, but eventually I would wet them. Now that I can order them by the case to my front door, I am truly "in diapers" - once they go on, they don't come off, until they need changed, unless #2 comes onto the radar, and that is but a brief hiatus (pun there...). 

I did travel in Europe for about three weeks a few years ago, where my diaper supplies were severely limited, because I didn't want to be carting around a large stash of them. I went local for sourcing, but by the bag rather than by the case, so I was wearing them, but still using bathrooms where I could, to try and cut down the number I was burning through. But in normal operation, I just use them and don't think about it. But I totally understand someone enjoying wearing, but not wanting to take that next step, either because of discomfort, or just to reduce consumption. 

[60's Style]

Count me among the wearer-not-user for pee and poop group, I just like the way they feel and look, and usually only change them once per day or every few days of wearing, almost always after they get a different little sticky mess in them 😉

[PaciLover]

That’s me as well. I only dress up in abdl for fetish reasons. I never use it.

[BBoy]

Yes I also don't pee in them that often. Also I will  wear my dips for #1 but never for #2. Two reasons I don't pee in diapers that much...

1) I prefer a nice dry comfy diaper. If I do use I usually change soon after. 

2) cost. Quality diapers are fuc+ing expensive. I usually will wear a disposable for two days before it begins breaking down. If I do pee, it will be in the 2nd day when I'm close to the end.

[Fakename4me]

I started out just wearing.  And that was fine.  But time and age caught up with me and I began leaking a bit.  And sometimes more than a bit.  And finally, because I was wearing a diaper, why not?