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When I had a motor car accident at age 8, I was unconscious for 11 weeks, and so was in diapers. After I returned home, diapers were kept in my cupboard, and I guess that's where the fascination started... but to answer the question from a psychosexual and psychosocial point of view (I have respect for Freud and Erikson in terms of psychoanalysis), the primary areas of psychosexual satisfaction are oral and anal... in terms of psychosocial theory, one may find oneself wanting to return to a time or stage conducive to dependance for whatever reason personal to that individual. Personally, I view psychology from a holistic point of view, which means that these two theories work independently of each other concurrently, but they effect each other -- which makes saying that any one thing results in a person's desire for diapers, a little dubious.

For me,sometimes

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This is an important question because we all like to know who we are and how we got here. Michael and I have worked hard towards developing a model of ABDL behaviour, including answering this question. Our research ha lead us to believe that as very young children ie under 3 years of age, our normal childhood development has a 'hiccup' and we develop fixations that remain and as we get older, we are still drawn strongly back to this stage in an impossible attempt to resolve this developmental 'failure'. AS we get older these fixations develop a bit of a life of their own. We are constantly drawn back to this infantile state where diapers are normal and so we wear them. But this return to infantile state never resolves the initial failure and we continually return there - that is, we regress - and before you know it.... we are TBs or ABs

Probably the important thing to note is that knowing this, doesnt help. it might answer a nagging question but it does not resolve the issue. The reason what ABDL is in fact, incurable (horrible term) is that it is built into us at a very basic and fundamental level and so by the time anyone knows it even exists, it is set in stone and defines us strongly and is unchangeable.

I hope that answers the question for some.

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2 hours ago, rosalie.bent said:

This is an important question because we all like to know who we are and how we got here. Michael and I have worked hard towards developing a model of ABDL behaviour, including answering this question. Our research ha lead us to believe that as very young children ie under 3 years of age, our normal childhood development has a 'hiccup' and we develop fixations that remain and as we get older, we are still drawn strongly back to this stage in an impossible attempt to resolve this developmental 'failure'. AS we get older these fixations develop a bit of a life of their own. We are constantly drawn back to this infantile state where diapers are normal and so we wear them. But this return to infantile state never resolves the initial failure and we continually return there - that is, we regress - and before you know it.... we are TBs or ABs

Probably the important thing to note is that knowing this, doesnt help. it might answer a nagging question but it does not resolve the issue. The reason what ABDL is in fact, incurable (horrible term) is that it is built into us at a very basic and fundamental level and so by the time anyone knows it even exists, it is set in stone and defines us strongly and is unchangeable.

I hope that answers the question for some.

Has your research identified any common causal "hiccups" during childhood development?

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6 hours ago, rosalie.bent said:

This is an important question because we all like to know who we are and how we got here. Michael and I have worked hard towards developing a model of ABDL behaviour, including answering this question. Our research ha lead us to believe that as very young children ie under 3 years of age, our normal childhood development has a 'hiccup' and we develop fixations that remain and as we get older, we are still drawn strongly back to this stage in an impossible attempt to resolve this developmental 'failure'. AS we get older these fixations develop a bit of a life of their own. We are constantly drawn back to this infantile state where diapers are normal and so we wear them. But this return to infantile state never resolves the initial failure and we continually return there - that is, we regress - and before you know it.... we are TBs or ABs

Probably the important thing to note is that knowing this, doesnt help. it might answer a nagging question but it does not resolve the issue. The reason what ABDL is in fact, incurable (horrible term) is that it is built into us at a very basic and fundamental level and so by the time anyone knows it even exists, it is set in stone and defines us strongly and is unchangeable.

I hope that answers the question for some.

I would think that that finding a single theory that explains how we end up like we do is almost impossible, especially because the triggers occurred so early in our development.

Was my delayed toilet training the trigger, or a symptom of my desire?

Some of us had traumatic childhoods, and others were shielded.

I'm curious how many of us felt 'successful' as children.

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