DLmach Posted November 14, 2013 Share Posted November 14, 2013 I met a girl about a month ago who was willing to try diapers. Within 5 minutes of meeting we got right into it. She ended up liking it, a lot, and now she wears on her own. Our 'relationship' is all sexual. I consider both of us DL's, although we have some AB tendencies when we play (I give her bottles and pacifiers), but only she wears. At first it was great for me, but now I'm starting to want more. I wore last time we played, but she doesn't really like when I wear because it makes her feel less submissive. I would consider myself a switch, so I wish she would enjoy participating in the other role, or even a mutual role. How can I try to get her to switch? Link to comment
DLmach Posted November 15, 2013 Author Share Posted November 15, 2013 Some people can't. I don't buy that at all. Some people don't want to..that doesn't mean they can't. Its a choice, just like they CHOSE to act submissive. Link to comment
erevu Posted November 15, 2013 Share Posted November 15, 2013 No, really, some people probably can't. Each person has their own style, and if they go against that style it is really awkward. They would really have to work at it. My wife really does not do the dominant thing. It works best for her when she tries the loving mommy angle. She tends to be extremely permissive though, which is her nature. If you then turn around and demand too much, their self defenses will kick in and they will feel hurt. Now on the other hand, my wife is a spectacular sub. She fits into that role very easily and naturally. 1 Link to comment
Toddler Pampers Posted November 15, 2013 Share Posted November 15, 2013 There's nothing quite as submissive as anal sex. Link to comment
Toddler Pampers Posted November 15, 2013 Share Posted November 15, 2013 The other thing you might try is to make being on top more appealing, even a reward. Link to comment
erevu Posted November 16, 2013 Share Posted November 16, 2013 I don't think it works that way. You can't provoke someone to change their nature. That does not work with my wife. I pull back her diaper and spank her until her butt is red and she's sobbing, but that has never provoked a vengeful reaction. She typically just begs for more. Link to comment
Toddler Pampers Posted November 16, 2013 Share Posted November 16, 2013 I don't think it works that way. You can't provoke someone to change their nature. That does not work with my wife. I pull back her diaper and spank her until her butt is red and she's sobbing, but that has never provoked a vengeful reaction. She typically just begs for more. Link to comment
erevu Posted November 16, 2013 Share Posted November 16, 2013 Well, your milage may vary, but typically torturing someone into torturing you back isn't exactly a sign of a healthy relationship. 1 Link to comment
Midwest Babygirl Posted November 16, 2013 Share Posted November 16, 2013 I don't buy that at all. Some people don't want to..that doesn't mean they can't. Its a choice, just like they CHOSE to act submissive. Some people are able to choose between Dom(me)/Sub. 1 Link to comment
Diaper_Angel Posted November 19, 2013 Share Posted November 19, 2013 here is an idea-instead of ruining the relationship by FORCING something on her-why not talk about it, TELL HER what you would like, and compromise. If she is not really into being the dominant one, give her a chance to learn slowly for you. Link to comment
DLmach Posted November 20, 2013 Author Share Posted November 20, 2013 here is an idea-instead of ruining the relationship by FORCING something on her-why not talk about it, TELL HER what you would like, and compromise. If she is not really into being the dominant one, give her a chance to learn slowly for you. Link to comment
Diaper_Angel Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 I would suggest grabbing a piece of paper and writing some key words/actions down that would turn you on, Link to comment
DLmach Posted November 20, 2013 Author Share Posted November 20, 2013 I would suggest grabbing a piece of paper and writing some key words/actions down that would turn you on, Link to comment
haemon Posted November 20, 2013 Share Posted November 20, 2013 I would suggest grabbing a piece of paper and writing some key words/actions down that would turn you on, Link to comment
DLmach Posted December 27, 2013 Author Share Posted December 27, 2013 Ok so I finally have an update. I mentioned switching roles again. This time she agreed to it, but only after I dominate her again once more (we haven't played in awhile). I just basically started asking her about what she would do if she decided to switch. I think just her talking about it made her get into the whole idea. I'm definitely looking forward to seeing where this goes. Link to comment
DLmach Posted December 27, 2013 Author Share Posted December 27, 2013 There's nothing quite as submissive as anal sex. Link to comment
BriGuy Posted December 27, 2013 Share Posted December 27, 2013 Attack it from this point of view. Have her rationalize what she is doing as submission to your needs and wants. That's how I get my wife who is my collard submissive to not feel like she's "dominating" me with my diapers. Instead she is submitting to my needs. G'luck. Link to comment
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