How Did You Figure Out You Were Lgbt

[justagirl4fun]

Long story short, I was in denial for a long, long time until drunken bar shenanigans led to me kissing a girl...and I liked it! I've come to accept that I'm gay (well, I guess bi because I do definitely have a very specific type of guy that turns me on, but overall I am attracted to girls far more often than guys) but am still in the closet. My boss and a lot of my coworkers are, at worst, openly homophobic and, at best, act tolerant but occasionally make snide remarks about "fags" and "queers." My community as a whole is pretty conservative and strongly roman catholic. So I keep it to myself. A few friends know, and I'm pretty sure my dad suspects it (I don't think he'd care, but not sure how my mom would react).

[diaperpt]

Well, let's see. In 7th grade, I decided I wanted to dress in a girl's gym suit. I was always much more comfortable around girls than guys. I continued wearing gym suits for years and years and then I broke into wearing diapers. But even at that, I wanted to be an adult woman as a baby (some conflict there, huh?). I've since expanded my "cross-dressing" which after all isn't really cross-dressing!

[Guest YoungZeppelin]

For me, i consider

[Guest]

I might as well ask this.... What am I? i don't remember anything from my childhood that really tells me if I'm gay, bi, or transgender. I blurry remember high school and the only gay thing I remember doing as a kid was me and my friend eating bacon together; or the only seemly transgender I remember doing was wearing my grandma's silk nighties as a kid; or

[Rachel Emily]

I've come to believe now that my introduction to the world of ABDL was simply another means of denying my gender identity.

[Dill_Pickle]

Let me begin by saying that LGBT is probably not a good label for me -- male hetero fits better at least in public, and DL for purposes of DailyDi.

[Bettypooh]

Tresson:

Notice that although I have some labels, they don't completely fit.

[diaper_kat]

Back when I was 15 or so, I was on an L.J. Smith fanclub e-mail list and I made a friend through there. We chatted a lot about our favorite series, Vampire Diaries. One time I was rambling on about one of my favorite characters, Bonnie. Petite redhead with a heart-shaped face. I went on about Bonnie for a bit when my friend asked me "Are you bi?"

[diaperwearingwetboy]

I figured out I am gay b y fianly having one of m fantasy dreams come to life. Yes the man I was with was great and helped keep me diapered but he moved out of state.

[Dill_Pickle]

diaperwearingwetboy

Can you tell us a little bit more about how you met the person that made your fantasies turn into reality, and how that went from "just friends" to "way more than friends"?

[Shy-Diapers]

All throughout middle school I thought I liked guys. I never felt any attraction to them, I always thought that if you thought it would be nice to dat a certain guy, that meant you liked him. Ninth grade I met a gay guy in band. I talked to him and explained my feelings and he shared similar ones. It was gradual and by tenth grade I found a pansexual girl and my heart fluttered right away.

[spankediapered]

I am odd in that I will perform different sexual acts with men and different sexual acts with women. like oral sex... will give to women but not men...

I don't even know why. I am so quirky...

[Dill_Pickle]

spanked and diapered, let's just say you are quirky because you are YOU!

[diapersforyouplusme]

I have always been attracted to boys in elementary school but didn't really know what it meant just different. When I was around 10 or 11 I used to look at straight porn on my computer and then one day a magical moment happened and I found gay porn and that is how I made the connection. Kind of weird but it worked.

[whisko]

i identify as straight, i've got a wife and three kids, sex is fun and feels good, and i especially enjoy giving her oral sex, so i figure i'm straight. i'm not effeminate, and i don't go around talking about sex.

i don't like sex videos, or naked bodies in general. i have never even looked at a girl or guy and thought "damn!" except maybe when watching a nicely muscled guy in gym clothes, especially one who can climb up things monkey-style... but that's just because i know that level of fitness took time and practice and it is impressive.

i don't like women in diapers, and never wanted a "little girl / daddy" relationship. if my wife suddenly started needing diapers that would be okay, i would not mind at all, and i would give her no hassle about that, ever. but it just wouldn't turn me on.

i do very much like wearing and wetting diapers! and i also like "diaper rubbing/humping" videos starring guys in wet (not poopy) diapers. never any visible private parts, and sometimes no visible diaper either, but you know it's there. and the guy grinds on his pillow, or rubs his crotch (no slapping it though) or wiggles around on his bed... and you can tell when he explodes into his wet diaper. and i imagine afterwards maybe he falls asleep, or takes a shower and changes, or just goes on with his day. it's perfect and clean(ish) and harmless, and not even really pornographic. :-D

so, i guess i'm a straight diapersexual!

[Marcie_06]

I was raised as a diapered girl from about 8 yrs old. I enjoyed hanging around with girls and talking about boys, as only grade school girls can. I had a babysitter for after school until mom got home. He made sure I was bathed and diapered before bedtime. He called me his little girl and treated me as such. He 'taught' me how to make a boy feel good and took it easy with me as I 'learned'. I had my first 'BF' in 5th grade, he was in 6th. It wasn't a real BF/GF because I didn't know how it was supposed to be. One day he kissed me and when I kissed him back he put his hand on my diaper and felt the little bulge. He said I was a boy, not a girl and was going to tell his friends that I was a 'Janegirl', but we didn't have that exact term then. I got scared and cried for him not to tell. I promised to do anything if he wouldn't tell. He started to do things like my babysitter did, so I felt it was ok. During that summer, we would go swimming in his friend's pool and I got to know a few of his friends while in the pool.

[LittleMegan]

Only recently realised.

[Guest]

Every once in a while, I'll see a male who has delicate features and find myself attracted to him.

[Madlife]

I obsessed over this guy throughout high school... we roomed together at band camp for 2 years, but then he started catching on to me liking him. Sadly, he was really creeped out and stopped being friends with me (at this point i was still in denial about being bi). Then for the next 3 years I stalked him, collecting pictures, printing our conversations, driving by his house, etc. I finally admitted to myself that I'm bi, and I told him I loved him, and we still haven't fixed our friendship

[Nyte Kitsune]

Tried the dating a girl "Thing" in High School, Didn't like it. I admit I did experiment when I was real young (9-11yo) which at the time seemed ok to me. When I was 20 or so I caught a fried masturbating and convinced him that there was nothing gay about 2 guys doing each other (yes I was in denial) and so we "got it on". Though we never had a relationship I started to realize that no matter what I told myself that that was very gay. The idea didn't bother me.

Still no boyfriend, as I'm also a furry and 42, sure hope I find someone as my boyish good looks aren't going to last forever. Finding another, gay, furry, DL is proving to be a challenge, lol. I'm still not "officially" out as gay, but my sister knows and admitted she suspected it as I had little interest in her friends, who though are attractive, just don't interest me beyond friendship.

[wearer24/7]

I've always known i was gay. In fact when people ask me this (if they are straight) i ask them when did you know you were straight?

[Dubious]

Never had sex with either girls or boys so until I do I consider myself Bi as I get aroused by both sexes

PM me if your close to Trondheim, Norway and we can hook up

[Nyte Kitsune]

I've always known i was gay. In fact when people ask me this (if they are straight) i ask them when did you know you were straight?

lol, I like that answer. I'll have to use that sometime.

[Rachel Emily]

Still trying to sort out orientation--I've long thought I might be a heteroromantic asexual, but I've never been absolutely sure. I've had fantasies about particular men, but I can't orgasm when I think about them. Only thinking about diapers will get me to that point.

[lildreamer]

Strangely, I was doing a research paper for my sociology class in eleventh grade - that is when I finally accepted who I was inside. Though, I think the feelings started around when I was probably ten.