Ever Had Someone Change Your Diaper ?

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Maybe this has been discussed before but, have you ever had someone else change your diaper? (obviously, any of us who use our diapers have changed ourselves before)

If so, was it wet or messy ?

Also, describe the circumstances under which you had your diaper changed.

I started this thread because I've only had someone else diaper me once and it was pretty different from the fantasy I had in my mind. (I guess its not all that uncommon for those who try to live their fantasies the way we do. What you have pictured in your mind is often different from real life) Still... I've never actually had someone change my diaper in 'adulthood' and I've always wondered what it would be like. I know many of us, both DLs and ABs, would love to experience a diaper change from someone at least once. I'm not only curious what the experience is like but how you actually arrive there. Specifically, because I think lots of us would love to someday convince someone whom we are very close to, to care for us like that. Anyway... what have your experiences been?

Is getting your diaper changed all its cracked up to be? (no pun intended)

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Yes

wet and messy, sometimes both, sometimes just one or the other.

its great, i mean nothing will ever be exactly like a fantasy.

sometimes people are disappointed, because they forget that a fantasy is just that, and its never the same in real life... but in real life, its always better, because its real, and not just imaginary.

but don't forget, its also awkward at times, and its ok to giggle and laugh and 'break' role when something funny happens.

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I don't mean to pry but I'm curious about the details. Who changed you? Its always kinda nerve wracking telling someone about the fetish/lifestyle for the first time. How did you bring up the subject with the person who changed you? Was it awkward asking someone to change your diaper? Was it tough to convince someone to change a messy diaper rather than a wet one? How does all this fit into a relationship?

Sorry to ask so many questions. I'd just love to be changed by someone someday and I'm curious not only what the experience is like but the practical aspects of talking about it and making sure that the person changing you is comfortable with it.

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I've never had my diaper changed, but one summer, in band camp...

I developed a condition called "rectal prolapse", where part of the rectum protrudes through the anal sphincter. It wasn't terribly bad, as far as conditions go; but it was remarkably painful.

Anyway, if I had to have a bowel movement, and tried to hold it, I'd break out in a sweat from the amount of pain; and ultimately, would lose the fight anyway. This lasted about two-weeks, and while the pain and leakage was disturbing, I was thrilled to use diapers as a need rather than a want (that said, I'd never, ever wish fecal incontinence on even my worst of enemies. okay, maybe the worst, but no one else.....)

I went to see a doctor as soon as I could get an appointment, and while there, he did the usual exam.

I work in medicine, so I am not exactly bashful or easily embarrassed about such things; but in this case, I was uncomfortable to say the least. During his exam, he undid my diaper to perform his exam; and after finishing, retaped the diaper in place.

In addition to Metamucil fiber packs and hemorrhoid creme, he gave me a pack of Prevail diapers.

This was a clinical situation, by no means a fantasy either before or after, and I'd be happy to never relive this particular experience; but all told, there was a thrill to it as well.

I never have had someone change me, this was the closest I did get to that; but I don't think I'd mind it so much...

And for what it is worth, get plenty of fiber and don't force a movement. I have a very high pain tolerance, and this was the most pain I've ever had. It felt like a knife being pushed out of my butt every time I had to go...

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Yes

I have to agree with Sarah.... it is nice being it is real. Uncomfortable at times, however took to get use to at first. Messy and wet, i have been

on the receiving end, and also have changed alot of adult baby diaper lovers diapers myself....

All in all though it is the best, i feel everyone should get the chance to have their diapers changed by someone else.

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i met my now boyfriend on diapermates.com.... we've been together for four years. he was the first person to put me in a diaper and first person to change me.

of course it was terribly awkward the first time... because we'd never done anything like that together.... i mean sex is terrible awkward the first time too...

but as we on diapermates, we never had to have that 'converastion' about diapers .... course we talk about sex and diapers and our likes and dislikes all the time... its not awkward or weird for us....

not sure theres really much in the way of details... the first time he put me in diaper, my face was so read i had it hidden behind my arms, and there was a lot of giggling on both our parts, and i don't think i could look directly at him the entire time....

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Failed attempt with my ex-best-friend (not ex because of it though) ... she bragged about having been a certified "in home health aid" and I was going to get surgery and though that since they would send me home right after it would be nice to have a bit of help. So, I wanted to see if she could .... wound up doing it myself the whole way. >.< She must have been asleep during that lesson. LOL

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My last ex girlfriend in fact dumped me because I asked her one day if she would change my wet diaper. I admit it did confuse her and stun her, as this was my way of coming out to her, so she didn't know. She had got off of work at the real estate office and went to change her clothes for the evening. I had decided the days before that I would come out to her, so while she was upstairs I had set out the powder and fresh diaper and changing pad and also flooded my diaper before she came down. She did, and I asked her if she would mind changing my wet diaper. It took awhile for her to calm down, and I explained what was going on, then she left the house and came back the next day with some boxes.

So much for close personal diaperlations.

I do on a regular basis rent hotel rooms and order "prostitution" services to send out an escort. I know the are used to odd requests, and only two escorts have bailed out on me before changing me. The others are very willing to change me. I usually set up the hotel room like a nursery with basically everything like a nursery, and when they come in I typically am already wet and also messy and needing to be immediately changed.

Those are no so close relations.

I had my mom change me many times out of a messy and wet diaper when I had broken both of my legs in high school. It was very difficult almost impossible to use the toilet (well...okay, IMPOSSIBLE( and I needed diapers 24/7 for about 5 months for bathroom using. My mom was the onyl way who could stand my messy diapers and honestly, I would not have wanted any other person to do it anyway. She is pretty nice and gentle with the hands.

And myself. I change my wet *or* messy diapers everyday.

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My boyfriend diapers me up sometimes. He is paranoid of dirty things, however, and would never change me. That's fine by me.

I've had ABDL friends change me, and the feeling has been wonderful. Yes, it's what it's cracked up to be your first time. Then the magic kind of wears out.

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The magic does dies off. Its only natural, regarding fetish fantasies.

You build and build and build the fantasy up, and then when you act it out in real time at first it's ECSTACY. Then it tapers off and only the truly diper freaky fanatics keep up the fantasy, which it is after all just a fantasy.

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I've been really lucky and in my short life time so far (im 26) I've had 3 girls change my nappy and another girl who started me off using towels and stuff.

The girl after that brought me the first pack of drynites when I was 16 and we were together for a few years and must have got through a hundred or bags! At that time I didnt really know where to get adult nappys. I once messed my nappy and she went along and changed it. How I miss her, my first really true love! She had a little baby bro with a highchair and when her parents were out once she made up a mush of baby food and mash potato and I sat in the highchair whilst she fed me. Once, when she turned up at my house really drunk, I forced her into a pull up and had sex with her in it. It was amazing, the most vivid memory was making her crawl round the house, and calling my penis her 'dummy'. Weird I know, but she was still the most amazing person I have ever met.

The next occasion was when I was about 20 and lived in the flat by myself. I made contact with an old school friend through facebook and she used to come round and we would spend the nights together. I once surprised with a huge wet nappy that initially she refused to change. Then a few days later when we were at her house and I brought a nappy with me, she actually put it on me and made me walk round the house all night with just the nappy on. That was an mazing experience, my first sorta proper nappy session.

After that the next time was with my current gf, she found a stash of tena slip maxis in the cupboard and didnt really say much about it, giving me the chance to explain. It didnt really bother her and ever since she has nappied me often. She sometimes wears but only when I am away and she sends me the odd picture just to keep me happy!!

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Nope. I have yet to even land a girlfriend, let alone take it that far...

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As an incon yes up until around age nine/ten after which I was taught and expected to change myself. I was in care home at that time and so there was always staff (always female) that changed me.

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My then girlfriend and later became my wife has changed me. I do not like to bm, YUCKKYYY in them and have told her it'd totally suck for me to be bowel inco. I've done it a couple times, thought it was a great idea at first and then paid for it on clean up. I can't stand it and even have trouble changing baby poopy diapers. GROOOOSSSSSSSSS! Sorry for those that like that but I just don't get that one. EEWWWYYY!!

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My wife puts mine on me at night and takes it off in the morning. Does that make a change?

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Wife knew I wore b4 so when I was bad sick I'd make sure to wear a diaper to bed. Being sick I didnot feel like getting up so I dirtied it alittle b4 falling to sleep.:blush: I woke-up to her changing me but did not say a word. I figured she would wake me when she seen it was dirty; she didnot. But later on she did say she'd change wet 1s only. Getting changed is alot better than doing it yourself to me.:smiley-baby-boy:

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My exgirlfriend used to change me but only when wet.It did lead to some very fun times on occasion but on others it was just a change aand go. Alas as she is no longer my girlfriend it's up to me to change them.

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To above user: that would be niceand the ultimate baby experience. To drift off to sleep and silently wake up to find your SO is changing your dirty diaper, and just fall back asleep. Just like a baby!

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I had one gf who didnt necessarily like me wearing diapers all the time but she really wanted to make me happy. I'd say she changed my diapers about a dozen times or so in the time we were dating. A few diaper changes when I had the flu and I told her once that it would be awesome to wake up to her changing my diaper. Well The next night she did just that, though she sorta woke me up as she was getting a fresh diaper but preceded to change it as I was falling back asleep. The only down side? She didnt really know how to change a diaper so I usually had to fix the tapes after she was done so it was even and snug. But I wouldnt take that experience back for anything.

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My then girlfriend and later became my wife has changed me. I do not like to bm, YUCKKYYY in them and have told her it'd totally suck for me to be bowel inco. I've done it a couple times, thought it was a great idea at first and then paid for it on clean up. I can't stand it and even have trouble changing baby poopy diapers. GROOOOSSSSSSSSS! Sorry for those that like that but I just don't get that one. EEWWWYYY!!

Though it may seem like it on occasion, you're not alone. I'm also on the "Ew! Gross!" side of the "going #2 in your diapers" side of things. I've tried it and it isn't for me.

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My wife does change me on a regular basis....it is a give and take situation though. She does something special for me and I return the favour......

Although I would much rather return the favour 'in kind'........

Alas....not so fortunate in that department ;)

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Nope, but I'm getting changed by my new daddy soon! :3

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My gf and I change each other. Neither of us mess, but I've had to get her out of a wet diaper many times, and she changes me whenever I 'need it'. A lot of fun and a bit of extra spice to the relationship and sex life. I'm a VERY lucky guy.

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Yes. I have had my ex's change me and my husband. They were both wet and messy when my husband did it. Occasionally he will put one on me now just because he wants to.

With my ex's my last one didn't change me that often and he only changed wet ones. My first ex changed both but I always wet in them.

And back when I was meeting men from Diapermates, I was having them changing my diapers and they were all wet. I don't remember if any of them were messy. Now my husband doesn't want any men changing me because he sees that as cheating on him.

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My ex-wife changed me a couple of times. She would wear and wet for me every once in a while and so I changed her. Never a #2 either way. I keep those for alone times. It was a fantasy to be changed for sure and it lived up to expectations for me...though some parts of the anatomy and fantasy prevent proper diaper taping and position. It was fun and diapers were all about foreplay. Current GF has no diaper interest but is okay with my wearing when I want...just not part of the sex routine.

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