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Oh yes it can happen! - I get it quite a bit! Either way, it's not too easy, or hard. If that's what you want - here is how it's done with me:

Remove any pants, diaper, exc. so my bottom is totally bear.

Have me lay over ONE knee, use the other leg to sort of lock me legs, so "kicking" is not possible, and squirming is drastically minimized.

Use the hand that is not doing the actual spanking to hold both of this bad babies hands against his side.

Either with bear hand, or some reasonably sized object, strike my bottom repetitively, BUT not too hard!; that will only cause them to get tired and swore! Instead, go for more swats with less muscle behind them.

The naughty persons body can easily be re-adjusted during the session, so do so as needed.

Just keep it up, don't allow to move much - eventually, you WILL cry trust me!.

Has anyone ever been spanked as an adult till you actually cry .I would love to get spanked like that but i'm not sure it is possible.

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at least you have love one that do punish you. wish in had people like that.

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is there any other way, if you get spanked it needs to hurt so you remember it

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hmm......my husband once spanked me over the knee not as a little but as an adult because i had been on the computer for waaaaayyy too long when he was done i felt completely awkward around him it was just before bed......so i tried to avoid snuggling against him and he asks "are you mad...?" then when i didn't say anything he asks in a worried voice "did i hurt you..?!" then after awhile he realized what was wrong and said "come here....." he pulled me into his arms and said "the answer is 'no' i do not hate you.....you broke a rule and we both agreed on these rules and we both agreed what the consequence would be.......i love you and always will....." i actually was worried that he was mad and hated me....and i was still in adult mode...>.>

another time without any warning we were talking about how i was feeling i had a head cold and i hate dr.'s and my husband was trying to talk me into going and i said something along the lines of "if i ever get cancer i am never going to the doctor's.....i'd rather die.....then ever go through that....!" then he pulled me into his arms (we were laying in bed talking before going to sleep)he pulled me into his arms in a tight but not uncomfortable hug and said "what?" and i said "you heard me...." then he says "tell me what you just said." then i told him again and he said "so no matter what i do or say your not going to go to the doctor's?" (the more he talked the sterner his voice was becomming) then i said "no i am not." and he says" we'll see about that......love..." and he sternly tells me to hold onto him and not let go so i do and he starts spanking me and says the entire time "i'm not going to stop until you agree to go to the doctor's......" he actually wanted me to agree to go if i wasn't better by monday this happened on a friday. finally i agreed.....but yeah the closest i've ever gotten to an actual meant to be a punishment kinda spanking i've gotten are those two and only on the first one did i even come close to crying...>.> though i think it's because i hate being seen in a vulnerable state so i refuse to let myself get worked up....

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=( i feel left out i havent been spanked till i cried anyone want to change that ;)

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neither have i...>.>

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Wow some strong ideas flying around! I myself feel that the ability to cry in AB mode would be a very effective way of engaging with my AB side ( I may dress the part but feel silly acting like a baby without something to force me to) but here's the prob I know I'm emotional inside I feel hurt anger sorrow and regret all the time, but I never cry, even with the biggest fights insult or rejections it never happens, I'm about to turn 29 and the last time I cried I was 16 !and it was the day my gran died scince then not a tear has been shed! Other than when I actually do have something in my eye. When angry I wish I could let it all out but all I end up doing is pacing untill I calm down and sit quietly to myself, much as I'd like I don't think its possible to make me cry like that even with a heavy spanking.

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To be broken enough to cry would seem to repeat the damage such spanking did to you as a child. Perhaps being encouraged to cry, asked to 'fake' it and given a little help to make it become real tears, is another way to get that cathartic release that crying provides without all the drama/trauma. It *is* a consensual act or it likely should not be done.

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I would do some research on cathartic release. Find something that's deeply emotional that's been pent up inside and needs a release. When i`m going into a spanking scene , i tend to get myself in a head space that's relaxed. I love spankings and like fun spankings over punishments but i know there`s a place for them too, doesnt mean i got to like them , they are just consequenses for bad behavior . I don't know if other spankees are like this but i feel for you to reach that emotional level of tears you have to work past that comfy relaxed level and hit that emotional nerve. It might take some careful prodding and digging into his or her past. Of course its going to be different for each person. He or she has to be open and honest with you and give up some information that's useful to you .I think maybe you have to be tactful and skillful in getting just the right info because some are`nt going to readily give up something painful or deeply emotional .

As a little boy i`m much more emotionally responsive than when i have to be adult and wear my big boy undies and deal with adult things and wear a tougher skin so to speak. Our inner child part of our personality holds alot of emotions. Maybe thats a point of interest worth exploring? If i`m going to be brought to tears i have to be in my little space. Thats the key for myself but not everyone is a little .

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I don't have a partner sadly, so I don't know if I would. I had an online sister/mother/daughter but she lost interest in me. I've never really been given the chance to get into my little headspace, but I'd love to someday.

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Don't think so would like to be spanked till I cried but not sure if possible

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ive been spanked till i cried once

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I have definitely been spanked until I cried by my husband...as I have a funny quirk since I was never spanked as a child by my parents.

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I at times enjoy a spanking and have fantasized about being reduced to tears and made to wear diapers ect.....

But I feel that the pain required to reduce me to tears would be great enough to make the whole experience unpleasent.  I dont really want to have huge bruises on my arse for a week.

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It's about headspace.  I've occasionally done some self-spanking, and a couple weeks ago I decided I needed to punishment.  I have been down lately, have struggle with some self-esteem issues, and as a tool to keep myself from pulling punches, I focused on some recent personal failings that are very important to me.

 

After about fifteen minutes without much to show for it, I bent over the bed and start hitting as hard as I could/dared, while thinking very hard about my shortcomings.  The pain of each spank had me gasping with the impact, and then to my shock and surprise, I actually started crying.  I let myself sob for a minute or so, and then I finished my spanking (till you cry and then some, as I always say).

 

It was the combination of physical and emotional pain that did it.  I don't think an adult can cry during a spanking without the proper headspace.

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My next door neighbor, who has been spanking me for a couple of years now , is a single mom with a  24 year old daughter. She called my wife to see if I could come over and help her daughter paint her room while she was at work. My wife said"okay". So i went next door and my neighbor lady Linda indroduced me to her daughter Megan. Linda ,in front of me told Megan that she had spanked me naked or in panties and bra  many times in the last 2 years. Megan laughed and said' he wears panties and a bra?" Linda said" yes and his wife shaves all his body hair off and has him sleeping in a adult baby crib and diapers him at night on a adult baby changer ".  Megan said " is that right Heni "?, I said"yes it is",Megan laughed and laughed as I stood there with a red face wishing I could hide .So Linda and Megan showed me the room that was to be painted and Linda started off to work saying goodby and telling me to do what Megan says or she will spank you as your wife gave her permission too. I saw Megan give me a evil smile and showed me what to do. As we painted she talked to me asking me about my life style and I tensed up and messed up the paint and spattered paint  all over the both of us. Well Megan was livid and told me to strip and she was going to spank me good. I stripped down to panties and bra,then naked and she did also as she was laughing at me in panties and a bra and my hairless body. She told me to follow her to the kitchen and wash myself and wash her  also and put our clothes in the washer. While washing Megan a beautiful young woman,  standing there arms and legs spread apart naked,  I became erect and Megan screamed at me, made me masterbate .Megan caught my semen in her hand and made me lick it off her hand. Megan then shouting at me grabbed my penis and pulled me over her lap and spanked me until I was crying. Megan then got dressed but made me stay nude the rest of day while we painted her room telling me she was going to spank me again before I left. She then took me back to the kitchen and put me into the very large kitchen sink and washed me all over telling me how my shaved body made me look like a little baby.  Megan then put me on the counter and dried me off and spanked me again with a belt until my butt and the back of my legs were  red and purple I was screaming for mercy and crying and Megan told me what a big sissy baby at 43 years old I was. She  then  powered me and diapered me and sent me home telling me she would bring my washed clothes over later and tell my wife of the days events..

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As an adult I've been spanked many times but don't think I ever cried. As a kid I did almost all the time when I got spanked, whether by hand, with the hairbrush or with the belt. I think the issue is one of humiliation and that the crying is caused more by psychological factors than by pain.

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I've been spanked a lot over the years and sometimes I'd tear up, but usually wouldn't be full on bawling.

That changed last week though. I received a spanking from a paddle, which hurt, but it was bearable and well, normal feeling pain. But, then they broke out a cane, and the sting that leaves is something else! It brought me, not just to tears, but full on crying with snot and tears running down my face. The pain was so horrible.

And yet, I want it more.

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Has anyone ever been spanked as an adult till you actually cry .I would love to get spanked like that but i'm not sure it is possible.

Oh, it IS possible. The key, I've found, is not the PAIN, per se, but actually the SCOLDING! I have a very high pain tolerance (always have). I've found that I can take a lot (all doms I've had rate me in the top 5% in terms of pain tolerance). However, I can and WILL go to tears, if the dom spanks for a long time AND (here's the key) SCOLDS me for some REAL transgression. Works like a charm!

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Has anyone ever been spanked as an adult till you actually cry .I would love to get spanked like that but i'm not sure it is possible.

I think you are right, I too would love to experience having my bottom spanked until crying and have been spanked loads of times but no tears as of yet

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This got me thinking, I'm honestly not sure I could be spanked till I cry. I truly know what a level 10 pain is from almost loosing my leg, and often take oxycodone just so I can overcome my pain to walk and work normal again. Needless to say, I have an extremely high tolerance for pain. Quite often what other pain I experience is drowned out by what I already have. In fact, I just gouged open my leg with a piece of metal. The only reason I stopped for it was so I wouldn't bleed all over Home Depot, other than that I barely felt it. I'm also a disabled US Marine. Our very minds have been torn down and rebuilt to be hardened against verbal abuse. There isn't a kind of scolding around that can effect me. Out right torture- maybe, but I'll be d@m#e% if I'd cry during that.

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I've never cried from a spanking yet I'm hoping that I can one day

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It's hard to get a good spanking living in an apartment with thin walls. :(

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Yes I have actually been spanked to the point where I cry from a spanking but I must A) really trust the person, B )  it must be VERY hard and humiliatingly applied in a relentless "no nonsense fashion and (this is the MOST important part for me, at least)   C) The spanker MUST SCOLD me throughout, for real shortcomings of mine that I am genuinely ashamed of. I find that if all these 3 factors are combined I can SOMETIMES (rarely but it does happen) cry real tears during and after a spanking.

PS. also, any other domestic discipline element added BEFORE the spanking helps... an "active" mouth soaping seems to put me in a VERY submissive state of mind and primes me to cry.

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