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I have been saying this for a while and have been saying it directly to mods. There are people in the chat that I can't stand. Everyone has them, those that every time they come in either they actually say, or think to themselves "oh great THAT douchebag is here" and honestly, I am sick and tired of having to deal with it. I want to be able to simply click their name.... go down and click IGNORE. Not just "IGNORE PM'S" but IGNORE COMPLETELY! I've been here for so many years, and frankly I am tired of putting up with the lack of ability to remove people from my own sight. Can I just "overlook' them in the room? Well, if I could simply overlook them then there wouldn't be any reason saying this huh? I am just flat out tired of it. DD has always been my saving grace from BS in chatrooms, this is where I felt good, this is where I had friends, but frankly I don't feel like it is that way anymore. Filth from a competitor site has come back here, and I find myself wondering after being around here for 8 years if not longer..... wondering if I even want to be around here any longer.

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I have been saying this for a while and have been saying it directly to mods. There are people in the chat that I can't stand. Everyone has them, those that every time they come in either they actually say, or think to themselves "oh great THAT douchebag is here" and honestly, I am sick and tired of having to deal with it. I want to be able to simply click their name.... go down and click IGNORE. Not just "IGNORE PM'S" but IGNORE COMPLETELY! I've been here for so many years, and frankly I am tired of putting up with the lack of ability to remove people from my own sight. Can I just "overlook' them in the room? Well, if I could simply overlook them then there wouldn't be any reason saying this huh? I am just flat out tired of it. DD has always been my saving grace from BS in chatrooms, this is where I felt good, this is where I had friends, but frankly I don't feel like it is that way anymore. Filth from a competitor site has come back here, and I find myself wondering after being around here for 8 years if not longer..... wondering if I even want to be around here any longer.

I would agree that there should be a complete ignore button on chat, but I think that may be a software issue not within DD's control.

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I have to ask are these people personally bothering you, or it's just the post they make you don't "like"? I mean unless they are personally breaking any of the rules of chat and actually harassing you, not much anyone could do. Like was said, chat has limited function at present.

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ive already severely cut back on coming here due in fact to the over moderation of everything ..... much more moderation and im going to not come at all .... whats the point half of what you say gets deleted or the thread closed anyway because some mod was in a bad mood or didnt like you opinion

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ive already severely cut back on coming here due in fact to the over moderation of everything ..... much more moderation and im going to not come at all .... whats the point half of what you say gets deleted or the thread closed anyway because some mod was in a bad mood or didnt like you opinion

I have to agree and I can identify some threads that were closed unjustly, but at the same time, the moderators have to be able to tell the difference between someone posting their opinion and a bully. How many warning points does it take for the personal attacks to end? I have seen nothing really done about this. I post some political opinion, then I post a rebuttal defending my opinion or sometimes attacking someone else's opinion, but I do not attack the person. There is a broad line between calling someone a liar and saying, those facts are incorrect and here is why.

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I'd like to see some boards/sub-boards have their own moderator(s) and potentially their own rules. I think it would also help to for the boards to have a change of structure and maybe some policy on "aging out" content (i.e. archive off posts / topics older than a two years or so). This would mean major boards are still "free for all" with light moderation, but topic specific / geographic specific ones could have a moderation policy which more reflects the culture of the users who use that board.

Of course, if you're having local (board-specific) moderators, there needs to be some rules about what is acceptable moderator behaviour (e.g. never editing someone elses' post without explaining in the post you've edited it and PMing the user the reason why).

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I prefer light moderation and mostly free conversation; especially in the chat room.

I have to say that I do agree with you there. However, there may be times where there may be moderation needed in chat at a moment's notice I would like to suggest that there be at least 2 more moderators appointed that can intervene solely in the chatroom. This could be accomplished like this:

Set up an IM account on a service that can log in from multiple locations, such as AIM or Trillian Astra. Trillian has the added benefit of being able to receive IMs from a multitude of services. This would prevent needing to have mods in chat at all times, and only intervening when there is an argument or other serious issue preventing the chatters from having a quality time in chat. It'd also allow for freer chat by not having the moderator there constantly.

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I have the reports going directly to my Email, which alerts me just like a IM. But I do have to sleep let alone have a life. So how do you circumvent that? Even though the computer is on and chirping away doesn't mean I wake up. At present we have Mods set up in alot of different zones both US and abroad, but there is always going to be gaps for one reason or another. There is nothing on the site for the most part that can't wait at the most a hour for action.

Hit the report and it will be handled in a timely manner. This isn't a 24 hour sentry post peoples :P

And if you feel a post has been handled unjustly, you can report that too....just sayin. ;) One person is almighty on this site, he will be final say and that is that :whistling:

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if there are any more chronic reporters and moderators in chat room there won't be a point in having a chat room, might as well make it a private room for the elite few who already whine the loudest and call it good. Seriously, the last few times i have been in there, is either dominated by the same people telling anyone else what is and is not allowed and that they are going to report so and so and so and so better stop or 'else' or its those same people role playing and talking baby talk, and ignoring everyone else who attempts to start up a converastion..

and god forbid a new member enter and ask about diapers on a diaper site chatroom, lest the get branded a troll or suddenly have their age questioned by the gods of the chat room.

seriously, i used to love coming here and posting much more often and chatting daily ... but the past year, its become the playground of an elite few whiners and moaners and complainers who get offended at the drop of a hat and run around reporting, blocking, banning, kicking and locking on a whim....

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if there are any more chronic reporters and moderators in chat room there won't be a point in having a chat room, might as well make it a private room for the elite few who already whine the loudest and call it good. Seriously, the last few times i have been in there, is either dominated by the same people telling anyone else what is and is not allowed and that they are going to report so and so and so and so better stop or 'else' or its those same people role playing and talking baby talk, and ignoring everyone else who attempts to start up a converastion..

and god forbid a new member enter and ask about diapers on a diaper site chatroom, lest the get branded a troll or suddenly have their age questioned by the gods of the chat room.

seriously, i used to love coming here and posting much more often and chatting daily ... but the past year, its become the playground of an elite few whiners and moaners and complainers who get offended at the drop of a hat and run around reporting, blocking, banning, kicking and locking on a whim....

Agreed Sarah & well put as well. As you probably know, I used to come into chat a lot, & I'm never in there now, because of issues, & honestly a lot of times as far as the Boards are concerned, unless I have something I want to say or need to post, I don't even log in when on the site,

Rockies Fan.

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Ahhh...the epic battle between the moderator and the moderatee.....its been going on for some time now and there seems to be no end in sight :D

Unfortuantely there is always going to be bad apples that ruin the barrel. In trying to keep up, you run the risk of alienating those long term folks who make the site what it is....

However...it IS the internet. Its been around for a while now. If you get all bent out of shape over something that some stranger has posted about you online then....well...'You're gonna have a bad time!' Everyone has an opinion and it isn't always going to co-incide with yours. Doesn't make it any less valid.

I'm all for a decrease in moderation. Anonimity shows peoples true colours and THAT is what I love to see....not this phony persona that we throw on like yesterdays underwear every morning...the REAL you. If you're a dick here on the boards...then you ARE a dick in real life...no matter who you've fooled with your acting.....

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if there are any more chronic reporters and moderators in chat room there won't be a point in having a chat room, might as well make it a private room for the elite few who already whine the loudest and call it good. Seriously, the last few times i have been in there, is either dominated by the same people telling anyone else what is and is not allowed and that they are going to report so and so and so and so better stop or 'else' or its those same people role playing and talking baby talk, and ignoring everyone else who attempts to start up a converastion..

and god forbid a new member enter and ask about diapers on a diaper site chatroom, lest the get branded a troll or suddenly have their age questioned by the gods of the chat room.

seriously, i used to love coming here and posting much more often and chatting daily ... but the past year, its become the playground of an elite few whiners and moaners and complainers who get offended at the drop of a hat

.... and this is why I don't use the chat feature. Totally agreed for the quoted part Sarah.

I've never been kicked out of chat; but the whining, bitching and general immaturity of the whole place drove me away after less than 10 visits. The entire culture of the place seems aimed at driving the conversation down to the lowest common denominator and keeping it there (petty bickering, baby talk, hyperbole and general ignorance are welcome, as for anything else ... "you're new here, aren't you?"). The people who would raise the bar can't stand being there for too long, so you end up where it is now: a few whining regulars with nothing better to do and a bunch of perverts who drop in and out because they refuse to subscribe to a porn site.

At least the boards have some fresh content and opinion every now and again :)

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And again, I state... If you feel something is out of the norm or you feel a mod is not doing what he or she should be doing, then by all means file a report so that the big man if nobody else gets to see it. We are no more above action than the rest, this is his site. We try and do what he would do. Some have a bad day, or whatever. We try and do are best and stay neutral, but hey we are human. I have went off before and had to apologize, as have others.

But know we do receive errant reports all day long, and when I see enough BS coming from one source it is handled by PM and or warning to cease and desist with stupid reports. I think you all are wise enough to know what is allowed or not, and if a Mod seems a bit over zealous, the team here needs to know. I and (we) don't want you to think your not welcome anywhere on this site!!! Please report any and all infractions by anyone!

Thanks

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i agree the chatroom should be free game as long as its not getting completely out of hand.

The boards on the other hand, i believe should be moderated a bit heavier.

Alot of us that have been around for a while tend to just overlook the BS (while some of them get all butt hurt LOL) and move on, but their are some posters that really have nothing to contribute at all and it gets old seeing them post whoring the boards :)

You cant always please everyone, but a total lack of moderation is alot worse in the long run compared to slightly over moderating (hey, lets not forget how [That site]'s site went!). at least with decent moderation you will keep the people that deserve to be here, the rest either dont deserve the privilege or dont want to play by some pretty basic rules (whether they are post whoring trolls, idiots or just old time members that feel superior for whatever reason). Dont worry about pissing off anyone, if they dont want to play ball then stay home! As far as freedom of speech, its a private board, freedom of speech doesnt apply unless you want it to!

I know what its like from both ends of the argument, been there done that. but really, for the sake of the boards and yourself, moderation is best if not done too lightly, but you also dont want to be a post Nazi!

Lets not forget that these boards are especially sensitive in their topics, you get people here of all age groups/backgrounds and knowledge of the general subjects. The last thing you want, is people coming here for knowledge and help and only getting a pile of BS. Not good for you and not good for the 'community' in general.

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Alot of us that have been around for a while tend to just overlook the BS (while some of them get all butt hurt LOL) and move on, but their are some posters that really have nothing to contribute at all and it gets old seeing them post whoring the boards :)

but whoring is my major source of income and how i afford all my vacations...

wait this isn't the type of post whoring you are talking about it is?

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