Backindiapers Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 Well I don't really want to start an argument. This was an evil ploy to get people's opinions on bi's and if you think its real or are they gay or straight or crazy. But first.... Let me tell my side of being bi. I think my side of bi started at an early age by my horrible uncle who was also very bi. He could not make up his mind. And one day he's like, "wanna watch some porn?" and I'm all like "hell yeah I like porn". I was a teenager and probably not the best idea for my uncle to be showing me porn. Anyway it turns out to be gay porn and some pretty hardcore stuff. So later on in life my sisters boyfriend and I were joking about having sex and being gay and he's like, "wanna have sex for real?" and I'm all like "sure, could be fun". It was not much fun but as it went I never lost the desire to have sex with guys. For years I loved the thought of penis's and anal sex and such. Gay porn has always been the best. BUT...the strange thing is I"m not attracted to men in a relationship kinda way. When I've been single I've tried multiple times going out on dates with guys but after the sex I'm done...lol. Maybe I hadn't met the right guy but it doesn't matter now because I'm happily married. Still bi, kinda sorta. My wife slowly is coming around to the idea of strapons, yay! And I don't watch porn anymore. So am I crazy, gay or straight? Who knows? lol. I'm sure my bi'ness is from environment and not from a predisposition to being gay. But does it change someone being bi even if they are not born with it? I guess then it becomes an argument of nature verses nurture and all that psycho babble. Link to comment
leafy kille Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 well since i concider myself to be bi and crazy i dont think they are mutualy exclusive. im not even going to try to do the whole nature nurture side of things. however my idea of bi is rather different from yours since i have little interest in genetalia of either gender and simply concider gender to be irrelavant to a relationship! Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 So am I crazy, gay or straight? Who knows? Does it really matter? Aren't you pretty darn happy with the partner you have now? Then why should it matter- to you or me or anyone else Go be yourself- you can't be anyone else can you? And don't worry about the 'nature vs nurture' stuff. The deeper they look the more the psycho-atric people (pun intended) are finally beginning to understand that it's more nature than nurture which is throwing their long-held hypotheses out the window along with all they money they spent on their education to learn that fact Nurture reinforces the already-established and unchangable nature in all of us even when we think the nurture was negative somehow It's just nature showing us that we had the wrong ideas about it and that we need to be seeing things differently Bettypooh Link to comment
DailyDi Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 I think we are all bi by nature as sexual creatures. But our brains are wired to prefer one over the other (most of us anyway.) Link to comment
Pollyanna Fleshman Posted May 8, 2009 Share Posted May 8, 2009 I'd say that you are merely bi. And just because a person is bi does not mean he is crazy. Crazy is merely how haters describe a person living an alternative lifestyle. Haters consider it to be crazy to be bi or gay. However, it is not crazy. You are who you are. If you swing both ways, then you are bi. If people cannot accept you, I have two words for them. "Screw them." Link to comment
anondl Posted May 9, 2009 Share Posted May 9, 2009 All interpersonal sex is disgusting. That's why I prefer diapers. Yea, I said it, and I have always thought so since my dad explained sex to me. Link to comment
redneck diaper boy Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 What you do, in the privacy of your home, is your busines only. Wine is fine and liquor is quicker. You can drink all your liquor in Costa Rica. Aint nobody's business but your own! Well I don't really want to start an argument. This was an evil ploy to get people's opinions on bi's and if you think its real or are they gay or straight or crazy. But first.... Let me tell my side of being bi. I think my side of bi started at an early age by my horrible uncle who was also very bi. He could not make up his mind. And one day he's like, "wanna watch some porn?" and I'm all like "hell yeah I like porn". I was a teenager and probably not the best idea for my uncle to be showing me porn. Anyway it turns out to be gay porn and some pretty hardcore stuff. So later on in life my sisters boyfriend and I were joking about having sex and being gay and he's like, "wanna have sex for real?" and I'm all like "sure, could be fun". It was not much fun but as it went I never lost the desire to have sex with guys. For years I loved the thought of penis's and anal sex and such. Gay porn has always been the best. BUT...the strange thing is I"m not attracted to men in a relationship kinda way. When I've been single I've tried multiple times going out on dates with guys but after the sex I'm done...lol. Maybe I hadn't met the right guy but it doesn't matter now because I'm happily married. Still bi, kinda sorta. My wife slowly is coming around to the idea of strapons, yay! And I don't watch porn anymore. So am I crazy, gay or straight? Who knows? lol. I'm sure my bi'ness is from environment and not from a predisposition to being gay. But does it change someone being bi even if they are not born with it? I guess then it becomes an argument of nature verses nurture and all that psycho babble. Link to comment
timmyc Posted May 10, 2009 Share Posted May 10, 2009 When I was in my teens and twenties and didn't like gay people, I think at the time society programed us that way. I told gay jokes I did not want to see any dudes in porn, and hated the thought of seeing other guys in diaper pics. I could be friends with other diaper guys, but their would be no changing of each other. When I was in my thirties, my thoughts were, I am straight I like women but I could really care less what consenting adults do behind closed doors. As long as it isn't forced upon me or in my face, it really doesn't bother me. to each his own. In my early 40's hmmmm ok yes I prefer women. I love how the look, I love how they feel. Nothing in the world sexier than a sweet ab girl looking into my eyes and calling me daddy. I love it. I also love the idea of a mommy giving me a little humiliation and some diapering. Maybe it wouldn't be so bad having a daddy do that either hmmm. I find myself looking at dudes in diapers more and more. I enjoy some gay porn from time to time. I have been changed now by a couple of men and it wasn't so bad. I have offered to change a couple of boys (adult) haven't yet but again I probably would. Sometimes I even have fantasies involving other guys. When it comes right down to it I consider myself straight. Maybe a little bi curious, not sure if at them moment of truth I would want to actually do anything sexual with a man. But it no longer offends me like when I was younger. Most of my sexual thoughts usually revert back in some way to diapers. I live alone and currently am celibate though very sexual. I am in love with a woman but circumstances beyond our control are keeping us apart. I do not plan on cheating on her at all, so I guess it is a moot point anyway. Link to comment
Criss Posted May 13, 2009 Share Posted May 13, 2009 I found out a couple years ago that I lean to being bi. I thought I was straight before that. It was with another cd. I just melted into his arms!!! I was very suprized that I enjoyed it!!! Thats the only time it happened. If I find another cd into petticoats and diapers that will probably be it for me!!!! Link to comment
diaperboyMKE Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 well I "explored" with a friend of mine when I was in 6th grade and LOVED every min of it. Before that, I never thought of gay or straight, I just assumed I was straight. Once I got a dose of playing with other boys, I knew from then on that I liked it. Just to be fair, I played with girls later on, and enjoyed that too, and continue to today.. In an awsome straight relationship, but I still enjoy the playtime company of a man, and the companionship and passion of a woman. Link to comment
SecondLook Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 The whole bi/gay/straight thing to me is moot, doesn't exist. I'll go after whomever I want. Tends more to be men, but lately I've gone out with a few girls. Fun, but I couldn't do a serious long term with a girl. Y'all have too much going on upstairs, I don't like complicated things clouding up my life. I have more of an emotional attraction to men, but more of a physical attraction to women. Maybe I need to start dating again 1 Link to comment
CandiPiglet Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 I am definitely bi. There is straight, there is gay, there is bi. (in my opinion) I will argue tooth and nail about the fact that bisexuality is genuine. NOBODY is going to tell me that I don't prefer either sex, or that I do prefer one or the other! I think it all comes down to how honest you are with yourself. I love lots of things about both sexes. I've always been a rather androgenous person, so maybe that's a reflection of my sexuality. As far as role-assumption goes, I am a pretty submissive person, but at times enjoy being the dominant one. The same with baby/daddy. It all depends on who I am with at the time! I am, in sexuality, a pretty flexible person I guess. Some people lean towards one sex or the other. I am purely a middle of the road bisexual, and proud of that! Link to comment
Frink Posted June 22, 2009 Share Posted June 22, 2009 I am bisexual ergo bisexuals are horrible people. :emoticon denoting humourous intent: Link to comment
Mingo Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 To me bisexuality had it's problem because it is hard to express itself. The structure of relationships as they are now, only allow for one partner, so you have to choose. When the fight for the legalization of polygamy comes around, bisexuals will have a venue to exist. But I do believe you don't have to be one or the other, live is too complicated to be so black and white especially concerning human sexuality. Link to comment
PampersPete Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 OR...you could do what I have done and sworn off marriage to one or the other,live life and say fuck it all and no regrets Link to comment
Codymoogle Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 Bi-women (and post op GRC transwomen) can give blood, Bi-men and pre-op transwomen & Bi-transmen cannot. Why?? ~ moogle Link to comment
Codymoogle Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 Because the NHS is Homophobic towards anything that either has or wants a penis. Wonderful - so I can't give blood according to the NHS - I bet it's like that here in the USA too... ~ moogle Link to comment
gbw_dl Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 i am not one of those people who are freaked out by homosexuals, or bisexuals or lesbians. i have been interested in having sex with man a time or two, im definatly not into the lovey romantic kissy kiss thing that happens to men when they are in love, the truth is, i love women the most, sometimes i like participating in anal play on myself. i think it feels great!!!! whether i get it from a woman with a strapon, or a man with a big dick, it doesnt bother me none. if that means im a bisexual then so be it. i just love anal lovin just like any other lady or man! BI = OK! Link to comment
sarah_ab Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 ok so back when there was this big aids scare and people werecalling it the 'gay cancer' etc.. the american red cross and other blood donations centers added in a few questions regarding having had sex with men.. mainly "if you are male have you had sex with a man?" "if you are female have you had sex with a man who has had sex with a man" and other such questions... is this prejudiced ? yes... and considering what the medical community NOW knows about aids and hiv, and how the fastest growing demographic to have hiv/aids in the usa are african american women between the ages of 18-25 is this a stupid policy? YES so do what so many of my friends do.. LIE> they test your blood for pretty much EVERYTHING before it gets to donation... I dont agree with this policy, i think its stupid... but to not donate blood because of this policy doesn't do anything to hurt or change the administration who makes these policies but DOES hurt the people who need the blood. remember 1 pint of blood can save four babies. Link to comment
Frink Posted July 2, 2009 Share Posted July 2, 2009 I actually used "Hey I fucked a man" to get the Red Cross to stop calling me. The blood-sucking fiends wouldn't give me a moment's peace. Link to comment
meghan_baby Posted July 7, 2009 Share Posted July 7, 2009 Well I don't really want to start an argument. This was an evil ploy to get people's opinions on bi's and if you think its real or are they gay or straight or crazy. But first.... Let me tell my side of being bi. I think my side of bi started at an early age by my horrible uncle who was also very bi. He could not make up his mind. And one day he's like, "wanna watch some porn?" and I'm all like "hell yeah I like porn". I was a teenager and probably not the best idea for my uncle to be showing me porn. Anyway it turns out to be gay porn and some pretty hardcore stuff. So later on in life my sisters boyfriend and I were joking about having sex and being gay and he's like, "wanna have sex for real?" and I'm all like "sure, could be fun". It was not much fun but as it went I never lost the desire to have sex with guys. For years I loved the thought of penis's and anal sex and such. Gay porn has always been the best. BUT...the strange thing is I"m not attracted to men in a relationship kinda way. When I've been single I've tried multiple times going out on dates with guys but after the sex I'm done...lol. Maybe I hadn't met the right guy but it doesn't matter now because I'm happily married. Still bi, kinda sorta. My wife slowly is coming around to the idea of strapons, yay! And I don't watch porn anymore. So am I crazy, gay or straight? Who knows? lol. I'm sure my bi'ness is from environment and not from a predisposition to being gay. But does it change someone being bi even if they are not born with it? I guess then it becomes an argument of nature verses nurture and all that psycho babble. bi = greedy, but that's ok , sort of like a spanko that likes to be top and bottom. Link to comment
babytommy1981 Posted August 12, 2009 Share Posted August 12, 2009 guess I can say im BI. as I am married to a female. but i also love to have sex with men. not because i love men. but because i enjoy having sex with men. I love my wife, she gives me everything i ask for. but she knows i enjoy having a male partner to explore with. is that wrong. i say no. but to some it is. Link to comment
redneck diaper boy Posted August 13, 2009 Share Posted August 13, 2009 Why would this start an argument? What you do, in the privacy of your home, is your business. Well I don't really want to start an argument. This was an evil ploy to get people's opinions on bi's and if you think its real or are they gay or straight or crazy. But first.... Let me tell my side of being bi. I think my side of bi started at an early age by my horrible uncle who was also very bi. He could not make up his mind. And one day he's like, "wanna watch some porn?" and I'm all like "hell yeah I like porn". I was a teenager and probably not the best idea for my uncle to be showing me porn. Anyway it turns out to be gay porn and some pretty hardcore stuff. So later on in life my sisters boyfriend and I were joking about having sex and being gay and he's like, "wanna have sex for real?" and I'm all like "sure, could be fun". It was not much fun but as it went I never lost the desire to have sex with guys. For years I loved the thought of penis's and anal sex and such. Gay porn has always been the best. BUT...the strange thing is I"m not attracted to men in a relationship kinda way. When I've been single I've tried multiple times going out on dates with guys but after the sex I'm done...lol. Maybe I hadn't met the right guy but it doesn't matter now because I'm happily married. Still bi, kinda sorta. My wife slowly is coming around to the idea of strapons, yay! And I don't watch porn anymore. So am I crazy, gay or straight? Who knows? lol. I'm sure my bi'ness is from environment and not from a predisposition to being gay. But does it change someone being bi even if they are not born with it? I guess then it becomes an argument of nature verses nurture and all that psycho babble. Link to comment
WI_DL Posted August 13, 2009 Share Posted August 13, 2009 I think we are all bi by nature as sexual creatures. But our brains are wired to prefer one over the other (most of us anyway.) Couldn't have said it better myself. Link to comment
cdbaby Posted September 16, 2009 Share Posted September 16, 2009 I'm BI...but a virgin, i love women and men for the same reasons...butts! lol i discovered i was "gay" or at least i thought i was when i was 13 and found porn for women and the internet, thus ensude many attempts to cut the gay away lol didnt work, figured out when i was 14 that girls are extremely hot lol oh yes i am crazy, but in the fun way where everyone gets candy lol Link to comment
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