Becoming Incontinent, Just Do It.

[Crinkle butt]

On 7/16/2010 at 4:18 PM, Guest dldave89 said:

JUST TODAY I STARTED MY INCONTINENT JOURNEY. I WORE DIAPER SINCE LAST NITE AND DIDNT WET BUT WENT TO WALMART AND WHILE WAITING I HAD TO GO AND JUST WENT I WAS VERY HAPPY BUT I THINK I NEED A BETER BRAND AS SOON AS I GOT IN MY CAR MY DIAPER LEAKED THRU SEAT AND CLOTHES WERE SOAKED AND MY WIFE FELT BAD NE ONE GOT A GOOD BRAND THEY RECOMEND FOR DAY AND NIGHT TIME?

I have been wearing for about three weeks now and I can tell you that the north shore magamax is the way to go

[ppdude]

On 11/7/2009 at 2:49 PM, fairfaxdl said:

I’ve succeeded making myself completely urinary incontinent it about a year just by living that way. It has been well over 2.5 years since I’ve started and it just takes a real commitment.

 

Excellent sage advice. Incontinence is the involuntary loss of ANY amount of urine. Even just a dribble. I have a constant steady drip that adds up pretty fast,although the bladder fills at a rate faster that it leaks out. Lots of false pee feelings where nothing happens. So, screw it. If a pee feeling happens, just pee. It does take time and practice to just let go and hope something happens. Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't. When it happens, relief! Really wet in the morning and many a leaky diaper.

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[ppdude]

On 1/28/2011 at 7:30 PM, Honu said:

I concur with most of what has been written. The 12 month program is guidance for those who want a guide. The results are totally up to the individual and as individuals, our results can very greatly. We want others to accept us, but we first have to accept ourselves. Being incontinent meanings always wearing a protective diaper, always having a fresh diaper to change into and usually having a change of clothes handy. Accidents WILL happen. If you can't accept yourself for those accidents and prepare for them, how can you expect others to accept you as well?

 

Be happy with yourself and for choosing to live in a way that makes you happy. Never forget that this is what you wanted, not what was thrust on you.

 

Live with Aloha,

Honu

You gotta love that.

 

On 1/29/2011 at 6:29 PM, bignappybo said:

As someone who is incontinent and requires to wear diapers on a 24/7 basis,i realy cant compehend how anyone would want to be this way,for it truly is not a fun thing having to change many times a day and when you have to go for any sort of medical everyone sees that you are in a diaper.

 

Not having any sort of control over you your own bladder,and wetting yourself all the time nappy rash haveing to change and the danger of wetting when you are not in a nappy,and your clean one is so close but you just cant control when you will pee is no fun.

I feel your pain, but you'll get over it and get to the point where you just don't care who knows or doesn't know. I pee getting out of the shower before I can get a diaper on -- or before getting into the shower. Having it leak and rushing to sit down on the toilet before it comes streaming out. Never a dull moment. You just have to learn to live with it -- it's a part of the territory. You'll get used to it. Keep a stiff upper lip.

 

[incontinente]

Great words! 

On 11/7/2009 at 5:49 PM, fairfaxdl said:

If you want to be incontinent, then do it. All you have to do it pee. You don’t need an excuse or some fake reason where it “isn’t your fault.” Just pee. If you are reading this. Just pee right now. Don’t wait for the “right time” or when you are alone or not out. Just pee. It doesn’t matter where you are or what you are wearing or sitting on. Just pee.

Sounds extreme? No, because that is what it is like to be incontinent. Being incontinent means you are not in control. You don’t have any say as to where or when. You just pee.

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The key is to be honest about your desire. You absolutely must put your desire to be incontinent above all others. You MUST just LET GO the instant you feel like you have to pee. You absolutely can’t hold it and you must immediately let yourself RELAX. Don’t force it, just RELAX. You may not pee right away but you need to let the body know that the I-NEED-TO-PEE feeling means I-NEED-TO-RELAX-AND-LET-GO.

Seriously, you have to just let go.

 

[stevewet]

On 11/7/2009 at 7:49 PM, fairfaxdl said:

I’ve succeeded making myself completely urinary incontinent it about a year just by living that way. It has been well over 2.5 years since I’ve started and it just takes a real commitment.

 

Those who think they need to cath or use hypno are not really into being incontinent. They are just playing around. Let’s look at it. If you want to be urinary incontinent, then you would have to wear diapers all the time. So why not just start doing it?

 

If you want to be incontinent, then do it. All you have to do it pee. You don’t need an excuse or some fake reason where it “isn’t your fault.” Just pee. If you are reading this. Just pee right now. Don’t wait for the “right time” or when you are alone or not out. Just pee. It doesn’t matter where you are or what you are wearing or sitting on. Just pee.

 

Sounds extreme? No, because that is what it is like to be incontinent. Being incontinent means you are not in control. You don’t have any say as to where or when. You just pee.

 

This IS the way I did it. I am now completely urinary incontinent. All the time. No drugs, no caths, no hypnosis. Just peeing the moment I felt like it and by NOT putting any special attention on it. Not making my self go. Nor holding back for any reason.

It took just a few months before I would immediately wet without conscious though when awake. It took nearly a year before I would wet asleep. But it did finally happen. I leak and pee every 10-20 minutes now. Every morning I’m completely soaked.

Many of the people who need a “plan” are also looking for an excuse about NOT being incontinent. They can and do blame the plan.

Some people may take longer than others. Some won’t be honest about it and will not just relax and allow their bodies to unlearn their potty training. But it is very, very possible and VERY EASY!

 

The key is to be honest about your desire. You absolutely must put your desire to be incontinent above all others. You MUST just LET GO the instant you feel like you have to pee. You absolutely can’t hold it and you must immediately let yourself RELAX. Don’t force it, just RELAX. You may not pee right away but you need to let the body know that the I-NEED-TO-PEE feeling means I-NEED-TO-RELAX-AND-LET-GO.

 

Seriously, you have to just let go.

I gave up fighting my steadily worsening incontinence just that way and like you wake up soaking wet every morning and just pee steadily  in my nappy all day. I have no regrets.

On 8/11/2010 at 4:49 PM, AndB said:

If you desire incontinence, just start living it. What most are looking for when they say they want to be incontinent is an "excuse" to wear diapers. Screw excuses. Nobody's going to ask you for proof.

 

If you want to wear diapers all the time, then wear diapers all the time.

I didn't originally desire incontinence but as it steadily worsened I just gave up the fight and just relied on my nappies. Now I have hardly any bladder control. I learned to embrace and thoroughly enjoy my incontinence and dependence on nappies and couldn't be happier.