Once I told my friends and family, I felt a lot better. Nowadays I don't really feel the need to come out to people. I just act as if everyone knows - people are smart enough to put two and two together if you're open about it (although this only applies if you're in a generally accepting society). Sometimes it's hard to know what to say in certain situations, such as at work, where I have to think to myself (would it be appropriate for a straight person to make that comment right now?). I hate to think that I'm censoring myself for being bi, but I don't want to be 'inappropriate' at work!